Suzie, come on an chat anytime when it's all getting too much , there will be someone around to listen, we know how hard this is and I can really relate to the not wanting to get out of bed scenario, I would physically shake with anxiety and under the duvet was the safest place to me but it did me no good and my husband would make me get up and out of the door!
You know this is likely to be another Fibrodenema and yes the fact that nothing else showed less than two years ago is a good sign so hang on to that thought, most breast cancers are slow growers and can have been there years before we feel a lump , just do this an hour at a time and the days will pass but try and keep your mind and body as occupied as possible.
No amount of stressing will change the outcome, this is a lesson I've learned over the past few years and it just makes a miserable time worse than it needs to be.
Take some deep breaths and get out the door with your little ones when it's over whelming you, life has to go on Xx Jo
