i understood your problem tell your mom to maintain honest, two-way communication with her loved ones, doctors and others after your Bc diagnosis.it will helpfull to you and your mom
Welcome to the BCC forum karen. I hope you will find lots of support from other members on here.
You could also give our Helpline a call to talk things over. They will be able to offer you information and support. The opening times are 9-5 on weekdays and 10-2 on Saturdays. The number is 0808 800 6000 and all calls are free and confidential.
Very best wishes