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Anyone due to start chemo April 14??

Lovewine
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Taken at Foxton locks near to our village . Nice to have everyone together !

Lovewine
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Lovewine
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Good evening ladies , lovely to hear from you Cassie and such good news regarding ED living next door to you , what a big help you will be to her and GS . Fingers crossed all will go smoothly for the birth. 
Joan I sympathise with technology misbehaving - very frustrating ! 
OH is on a 3 day week at the moment - not by choice but due to supply chain issues caused by the lockdowns —all very worrying .

We had YS back for a few days last weekend with his new GF , she is lovely , same age as him and American here on a 2 year placement as a lawyer , she fitted in very well and she’s spending Christmas with us !

Wildpurl I hope you are enjoying your retirement ! Lots to keep you busy though I’m sure .

Rosie how are you ? Are you spending Christmas with the family ? Hopefully anyway 🤞
not much else going on which is a good thing really , snowing here today and very cold , not keen at all !

Love to you all , might not post as often nowadays but always think of you all !

joan47
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Good to hear from you Cassie. How wonderful for ED that she is going to be so near to you, especially after she has the baby. I imagine you are going to be a very hands-on grandma and no doubt you have been knitting madly. I hope the birth is very straightforward. Is your grandson looking forward to having a sister? Your staff turnover sounds very frustrating. What are they all going on to?
As you say, the board has been very quiet recently. Perhaps not much happening in all our lives? We have seen a few friends, including a couple we havent seen for 2 years. Other than that, we have been struggling with a series of mechanical/technical failures but today we actually managed to replace the toner on the laser printer we splashed out on a couple of months ago, with the help of You-tube, not the instructions which came with it so one frustration dealt with. Now if I can  only convince my computer that the old inkjet printer does have ink in it…. As you can see, not much happening. Even the storm just blew over one plantpot. 
Hope you other ladies are all well.

Cassie86
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Good Morning Ladies

The thread is very quiet these days, we are all just getting on with life I guess. Nothing much to report here work busy as usual and likely to stay that way, we have started so many new staff over the last two years and only a few remain, still starting new ones all the time though. The younger generation just do not seem to be able to cope with the workload, I am happy to train anyone but it is very dispiriting when they then leave after a few months. YD is currently in the US Carolina this time her friend has moved from Michigan which is quite nice for her to be able to see a different part of America.

ED is not in her last month of pregnancy and living next door to me, which is lovely she has mad a really good effort since Sept to get that flat cosy and finished, everything is now ready for the new arrival.

I hope she has an easier time with this birth than the last, it has been a really uncomfortable time for her.

joan47
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That is so sad, Lovewine. And terrible that if he had had the surgery he would have had longer.  Its good that his daughter has access to counselling to help her deal with a horrendous situation.

rosie14
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Good Morning Lovewine this is very sad news also!😔

Hopefully his pain will be kept under control and the family will be able to make the most of their time together.

We had our boosters yesterday and last Friday we had flu vaccine! Hopefully this will continue to keep us well throughout the winter! 🙄

Lovewine
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Evening ladies , Joan I also remember you telling us about your goddaughter - I am so very sorry to hear your sad news .

sad news too regarding our friend , his cancer has sadly spread to his adrenal glands and the oncologist wanted to operate and remove the tumours but wasn’t allowed to due to covid restrictions on operations 😥, been told to get his affairs in order because he’s been given about 9 months now , would have had at least 2 or 3  years if the surgery had been done . His teenage daughter is having counselling as she’s finding it very hard to come to terms with .

 

rosie14
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Joan I am very sorry to hear about your Goddaughter, I do remember you telling us about her! 😔💐

joan47
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You seem to have been very busy Rosie, with all your trips and outings. It will be very strange after all this time, for both of you when your OH goes to Cyprus. Do you have a anything planned other than your Newcastle weekend? 
Wildpurl, belated congratulations on your retirement. Is it still feeling strange or are you getting used to it? I’m sure you have plenty to keep you busy. 
We are gradually getting out more.  Met up with a group of OHs extended family we havent seen for two years a couple of weeks ago. Had a very good lunch at a beach restsurant in Exmouth looking out over the water. Lovely sunny day too. And plucked up courage to book a trip to the theatre in a couple of weeks. We are feeling rather down though because my goddaughter died from cancer recently. I probably told you that having recovered from her first bout of breast cancer unfortunately it came back. She had seemed to be doing well on the chemo before the summer and was having a break, but suddenly it spread. She was only 48, and leaves a husband and two children, 11 and 13. We are doing what we can to support her devastated parents, who are close friends. 
More positively YD started her occupational therapy course last month and is enjoying it though finding it tough, not only having to study again but trying to memorise all the details of human anatomy and physiology. 
Had my booster jab on Saturday so hoping will stay clear of Covid. We have very high rates in this area at the moment probably due to the problems with the false negative tests. Hoping that will work its way through soon and we can relax more.

 

rosie14
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Good Afternoon ladies I do hope that you are all keeping well?

Lovewine and Wildpurl glad to hear that you two have managed some time away.

Lovewine the lady you are supporting in your village is very lucky to have you to support her!

The clocks will very soon be going back but I do detest the darker late afternoons! 😳

I know you prefer the lighter mornings Lovewine for dog walking, I sleep far better in the winter when the mornings are darker!🤦🏻‍♀️

We went to the Chelsea Flower show to celebrate my birthday in September and also managed to take the show Hairspray in by taking a much cheaper ticket on the day! 
 
Earlier this month we went away in our motorhome to Cornwall for a few days as I had booked tickets for DH’s birthday to see the musical Fisherman’s Friends at Hall for Cornwall in Truro. The show was spectacular and we enjoyed it more than Hairspray. On the way back we visited YS and family in Plymouth.

Next week DH is off to Cyprus for two weeks his first opportunity since he last went in Jan 20. 
I am going for a long weekend to Newcastle to see DD and family. Her 13 and 10 year olds have both had COVID as have YS daughter’s 19 and 14! 😬

Stay well ladies!

 

 

 

 

 

Wildpurl
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Hello everyone, I hope you are all well.

I retired at the end of September so am just getting used to that. Before that OH and I went on holiday to Shetland with his Dad, sister and BIL, which we had planned since 2019 and had to defer of course. It was a fantastic trip and an amazing holiday which we really enjoyed.

I'm now adjusting to a different rhythm of life although I still seem to be quite busy, but have more time for gardening and reading amongst other things. I’m looking forward to a peaceful few months in the run up to Christmas.

How are you all?

 

Lovewine
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Good morning ladies , can’t believe how quickly this month has gone !

Rosie what lovely photos and the new home for ES and family is looking very nice - they must have really appreciated all your help , it’s always sad when you return home though . So lovely you made the family holiday in wales too all of you .Joan nice too you got away to Cornwall with your family .

we are going to Norfolk for a week in the middle of the month so I am looking forward to a change and to see the sea !! YS is arriving this weekend for a weeks visit too which will be nice .

I feel this year the summer hadn’t been very good certainly not here in the Midlands / continual grey skies and quite cold too .

I am supporting a lady in our village at the moment who is half way through chemo before surgery , she is following the same pattern as I did and is Her 2+ like me - she had her first dose of doxetacol last week and is feeling rough- she’s doing ok though .

Getting up now to dog walk and it’s only just getting light - how I hate those dark mornings ! 
I hope you are all well and able to get out on more trips and maybe holidays !

rosie14
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rosie14
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Hello Ladies I hope that you are well?

It has been a month since the last post was made! I know I have been very busy over the last month. Joan I am so glad that you managed a family holiday in Cornwall.

Eldest Son and family finally made it after a year to the UK at the end of July but had to do various tests and then quarantine with us for 11 days preceding our family holiday In Wales! It was lovely to have all the family together!☺️ DH and the two boys climbed Snowdon! It ended all to soon and after spending a further two days with us ES and fami,y returned home to France! DH and I followed them out in the motorhome for 12 days to help some diy. The property is quite large and has a great vista but there is much to do!
🥴. We left them with the upstairs living area and bedrooms finished. ES and DIL had already prepared walls painted some and ES had laid flooring in GS’s bedroom. DH helped to finish two other floors and fit skirting board. After spending a month with them hard to leave and return home to an empty house! 😢

We had to test before we left France and do a day 2 test yesterday! Not to mention the Passenger Locator form that had to be uploaded! 

YS and family were planning to visit in two weeks for the weekend but EGD, 19 with one vaccination, tested positive, now followed by her sister 14, not vaccinated, and DIL double vaccinated and feeling very rough! YS says he has tested negative at the moment but feels it is only a matter of time before he gets it too! 🙀😳😬😷

I do hope you and your families are all keeping well in this continuing worrying time.

joan47
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Aargh,  just managed to delete my almost finished post. 
Great you are going to see your son and family Rosie. Perhaps by the 11th you wont need to pay all that money for testing. 
We are just back from our family holiday in North Cornwall. It was lovely to see ED and partner for the first time in a year and all went smoothly. The weather was much better than expected so we were on a beach on all but one day. All but one of us -my husband, who kept promising to go in sometime- also went in the sea. We did have to beat a rather hasty retreat from one beach twice, having forgotten how quickly the tide comes in, but lots of other people also had to do a bit of wading! I was a bit worried before we went that it would be horribly crowded but we managed to avoid the very busy places and most people were being very sensible, wearing masks etc, so it turned out to be quite relaxing. 
Not sure how busy we are going to be for the rest of the school hols since SIL has had to go to Italy again. Only short visits so far- he can go for 120 hours without having to quarantine there, though he has to isolate each time when he gets back. Fortunately I havent arrived back to a lot of urgent work- which is just as well since my computer mouse decided to pack up an hour ago. 
Cassie, hope your isolation wasnt too horrible. 

rosie14
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Bad luck being pinged Cassie! As Lovewine said it is happening to a lot of people! 
We are currently in Stourport, only miles away from home, at a weekend Motorhome rally so we are glad that it has cooled down! It makes me wonder how we managed the long hot summers in Cyprus when temps would very rarely drop below 35. Obviously we had air conditioning but it was quite noisy at night!🙄 

Our son in France and family are coming to us on Monday 11, days before our Welsh trip, to quarantine for 10 days! They have had their first test to leave and all tested negative! They  have to test on day 2 and 8! The testing has cost nearly £400 in total, which we have had to cough up for, but what can you do they couldn’t have afforded it? 🙄

Lovewine
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Hi Cassie , oh dear poor you stuck at home in this hot weather 🥵at least it’s cooling down for the weekend , so many people are being pinged! 
At least you can work from home though . 

Cassie86
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Hi ladies, I have been pinged by the track and trace system. 6 days to go. I have a laptop but have spent all afternoon getting all I need loaded on it to work from home not quite there yet

Cassie86
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Good morning ladies, the heat is a nightmare at home luckily we have a good air-conditioning unit in my office otherwise we could not work as it is on the top floor like my flat. Good to hear a trip is planned Joan. YD and I are planning a trip to Dublin for mid of Aug just for a long weekend London is horrible in the heat, so it will be a relief. I have already knitted a few things in pale grey and random blue, white pale blue and deep pink mix it was left over from other projects, ED does not know yet!  I am not sleeping more than a few hours at the moment so thought I would pop on the website to say hello.

joan47
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Well done for getting the photo the right way up at last. I did wonder whether you and Lovewine had been hitting the Prosecco! Re next years meet up I’d be OK with Worcester, though its not as easy for me as Oxford. Given the heat we’re having at the moment not sure I fancy travelling to London. But best to leave the discussion till next year I think. 
Rosie, what a shame about your family get together. It does seem a bit over the top, especially given the lack of rigour about other travel decisions. 
cassie, good you were able to make use of your ticket to Oxford. And good that ED is doing well. I imagine as soon as you find out whether the baby is a boy or girl you will be starting on the knitting. 
How are you all coping with the heat? I’ve retreated indoors until early evening. Fortunately it is due to cool down by the weekend. We are (all of us hopefully still being Covid free) off for our family holiday next Saturday. We haven’t had a Cornish holiday at this time of the year for many many years. Just hoping- probably in vain- that it won’t be horribly crowded. And that when we get back all our summer bedding won’t have expired. 

Wildpurl
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I’m glad you and Rosie were able to meet up, and Cassie at least you did not waste your ticket.

My OH's brother lives in Worcester, so we could probably combine a visit to them with meeting up, but TBH next year is a long way off, I shall be retired and perhaps things will be more normal, so happy to decide nearer the time.

 

Cassie86
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Hi lovewine I am only too pleased to get out if London for next year's re-union it's just nearing 7 hours round trip I could not cope with. ED is doing well so far and will find out the gender in a week or so. GS is 14 now and about 5ft 9inches so towering over me and YD already bless him, He eats well but is painfully thin and gangly. 

Lovewine
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Cassie , maybe next year we could come to London again as it does seem accessible for all of us 🤔.

it is very hot here today - took the dogs out very early and then hosed them in the garden with cold water !

Joan - wishing you a belated birthday , I hope you had a lovely day and lots of spoiling by your family - I hope everything is still in place for your holiday , have a lovely time .

Cassie I hope your ED is doing well and your GS , he must be nearly a teenager now !?

Wildpurl , busy time in this heat with watering !

ES and DIL are coming to terms with their loss - apparently they had been trying for a baby for 18 months ☹️

Cassie86
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Just had a look and I think worcester will not be possible for me next year the journey would be more than 6 hours traveling there and back in a day. Nice thought though

Cassie86
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Good Morning Ladies,

Lovely pictures Rosie, glad you were able to meet up together with lovewine. I did go to Oxford yesterday like billy no mates, I did a bit of shopping but it really was too hot to wander about for too long, I came back on  an earlier train than planned and the ticket guy on the train did not notice, so all was well. I was not able to get a refund on the ticket so thought it should not be completely wasted.

Have a good day today it looks like its going to be a hot one x

 

Lovewine
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 OH managed to put us the right way up !! 

Lovewine
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Rosie I had a lovely trip to Worcester - it’s a great place to visit and ideal for next year .

rosie14
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Lovewine and I are still standing on our heads!

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rosie14
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rosie14
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Sorry about upside pic tried to post 3 but only managed one and that was badly done! 😳

Will have another go maybe tomorrow?

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rosie14
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Good Afternoon ladies,

Hope you are all well.

We are gutted by the latest travel news regarding France as ES and family are supposed to be arriving on August 3rd before meeting up in Wales with DD and YS and families. We are trying to see a way round it if at all possible. 
Today was brightened up by Lovewine coming to Worcester. We were disappointed that the rest of you couldn’t join us and wonder if Worcester would be a good Venue for next year when we hope that you will all join us?

 

Wildpurl
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I am so sorry to hear the news about ES and DIL, that is very sad for you all. I hope they are coping OK.

joan47
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Oh Lovewine, what sad news. You must all be feeling gutted. How far on was your DIL? 

Cassie86
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Good Evening Ladies,

I am sorry but my heart does not feel in it now, sorry if that spoils it for others. Maybe next year we will all be in a better place.

So sorry too hear the news lovewine, I hope ES and DIL are OK.

Rosie thanks for the offer to meet up but it all feels wrong somehow

Cassie

Lovewine
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Afternoon ladies , so sorry to mess up the Oxford date , I looked to book at the weekend and the timetable had changed - making the journey both ways 3 hours and £50.00 !! Used to be about £25 and an hour and a half . I can travel to Birmingham , London , Coventry easy enough . Even places like Milton Keynes or similar 🤔
Joan I totally see your worry about jeopardising your holiday .

Sadly ES and DIL have “ lost “ the baby , they are understandably devastated . I really feel very sad for them ☹️

joan47
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Rugby would be more difficult for me. However I had almost reached the decision not to come anyway, so just go ahead and decide what is best for the three of you. We are due to go on holiday with the family at the end of July and with the increasing number of cases, even among the double vaccinated I dont want to do anything that will jeopardise that. Sorry I wont be seeing you. 

rosie14
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Cassie I am so sorry that you got your ticket. If you are not able to cancel it I will come to Oxford but I believe I will be the only one! 🙄

Would it be easier if we came to London? 

Cassie86
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Good Morning Ladies,

That is disappointing Rosie I have already purchased a ticket, with no problem at all. I don't want to travel the extra distance to an unknown place to be honest so I won't be coming if the venue is changed this year to Rugby.

Cassie

rosie14
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Ladies there is a change of plan for our July meet up. Due to increased rail charges and times of connecting trains Lovewine and I feel it would be better to meet in Rugby. I believe the travel time from Euston is excellent. Not too sure how Rugby would work for you Joan?

I do hope that the change of venue will aid all of us to meet. Get back to me ASAP and then I can book somewhere.

Lovewine
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Good morning ladies , Wildpurl what a shame you won’t be joining us - you will certainly be missed , but understandable you are unable to make it . 
It is YSs 30th birthday at the end of this month so he’s back this weekend to celebrate and ES and DIL will be joining us on Sunday for lunch at a nearby pub too - be nice to see everyone together !

 

Wildpurl
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Hello everyone and thank you rosie for making the restaurant booking. I am afraid I will not be joining you this year, mainly because I have already arranged to meet DS in Bristol on 15th and I don’t feel I can commit to another day out on 17th. Partly because the driving will be very tiring and partly we are still in full garden mode because of the late start this year, even though we are making progress. I have to admit to also being concerned about the infection rates, although I am hoping they will be coming down by then.

congratulations Lovewine, I am very happy for you that are going to be a grandmother! How exciting! And you for the second time as well, cassie, what lovely news.

i hope you have a lovely lunch and enjoy catching up

Wildpurl
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Lovewine
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Joan I really hope you feel able to come - you will be really missed if you don’t ! 

rosie14
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Joan I hope you will feel able to come! The infection rate is mainly in the young and unvaccinated as I am sure you are aware! 
As you say restrictions will still be in place on July 17th so they can’t fill the restaurant to capacity! 
Let us know nearer the time. 

joan47
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Thanks for doing this Rosie. I am very undecided about coming, which is why I didnt reply earlier. It will really depend on what is happening with the infection rate. I am somewhat reassured though by the fact that complete opening up has been delayed and our get together will be before this is due to happen 

rosie14
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Lovewine
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that’s great thankyou Rosie , looking forward to seeing you all !