Hi all. As we start a new year, I would just like to say thanks to everyone who's contributed to the July 2014 thread over the past six months - I've found this site to be so helpful throughout diagnosis and treatment and it has been a huge support having contact with others in a similar situation.
I think we should all be proud of how far we have come! I guess as lots of us have finished, or are close to finishing, active treatment, we'll probably have less contact as time goes by, but hopefully we'll 'pop in' now and again to see how we're all doing and help each other out if necessary.
Good luck to everyone for the forthcoming year, especially those with any remaining treatment.
Good riddance 2014! Hello to a much nicer 2015.
Best wishes to all,
Julie
xxx
Shoes, congrats on finishinging you last Rad. Whoo-hoo!
Wow last radio theraphy today so starting the new year with no more treatment. Happy New Year to you all.
Ditto Wendy.
I also wish everyone a happy and healthier New year.In fact anyone who reads or writes on this website not only us July ladies.
I don't like New Year so will be in my bed and when I wake up it will be 2015,planning to feel positive about the year ahead and make some changes in my life.
HAPPY NEW YEAR.love and hugs Gill
@Slyolddog wrote:
Hi everyone
Sitting in bed in a hotel in Lincoln as I've come up to see my dad. It appears I've brought a sore throat and sniffles with me. Dad seems bette, back home now but he has gout in his feet so can't get out. We'll spend tomorrow evening at his until he falls asleep then return to the hotel. How's your dad now hbunny.
I also have stubby eyelashes and my eyebrows are filling in. Is it just me or does anyone else find it weird to see eyelashes grow? I had baths all the way through my rads, no one told me not to! I did make an effort to keep my troublesome boob out though. I just flung it over my shoulder!!
I hope everyone has a good night tomorrow, personally I think it's overrated but that's because I'm a grump. I can't do forced enjoyment:( Here's to us all having a better year. Xx
Slyolddog, had to laugh at your bath description . It's so weird the way some of us were told not to bathe, others not.
I'm not a great one at celebrating New Year's either - it's a bitter-sweet time of year for me - but I'm with hbunny - it's gotta be better than last year.
Stay well, ladies.
Hugs
Cath
Hi Slyoldog, Cath and all the other July ladies. Thanks for asking dads improving seemed decidedly perky this pm but still in hospital, hopefully will be back home at weekend, but being a stubborn old sod is refusing any help from carers so only a matter of time until we are back to square one.
Hope the bath is a good one Cath, the back is finally starting to improve, wont be picking dad off the floor again though. I've also been having a bath through rads wasn't told not to, although I stayed away when the boob was very dry and sore, it was fine after it blistered and peeled, lovely white skin underneath although quite itchy at times, almost nerve endings rather than skin, if you know what I mean.
Hope your dad is ok Slyoldog, gout can be very painful and must have an impact on his mobility too.
Hope everyone has a good new year. I don't enjoy it much but will toast in 2015 as its got to be an improvement on this year. Love hbunny
hbunny, how's the back now? I still haven't had a bath yet. Was told to wait at least 2 weeks after last rad. The two weeks is up on Thursday and I can't wait. Nothing like a hot bath to soak away your aches and pains.
Clare, glad the 9th Herceptin went quickly. How many do you have left?
Wendy how did your 4th Herceptin go? Hope it all went well.
Gill, sorry to hear you're having painful muscles. Everyone is different on how they react with chemo so no one will be able to say for definite how long the sore muscles will continue.
Check with your BC nurse if you think the symptoms are lasting too long.
Not long now till your rads start. Wishing you luck with them. The time will really fly passed, although I know it doesn't seem that way at the moment.
Wishing all the July ladies a very Happy & Peaceful New Year
Hugs
Cath
No herceptin as triple negative.start radiotherapy on 19th January x 15 .I wonder what awhile means?Gill
Hi Wendy ,I am having trouble with painful muscles especially legs.climbing up stairs or walking up a hill is agony.it's 3 weeks since chemo finished.any idea how long this lasts?Gill
Blast. Just lost my post! Cath and flossie, I agree, what next, tnbc sucks and I will be holding on to this crutch for sometime yet.
Dad is better thanks Cath, although lost a lot of mobility, that he couldn't spare and quite depressed, so hoping for a full assessment before they let him home. The back not too good, I'm sitting in a nice hot bath which helps with Epsom salts, bliss could be here until wrinkled to a prune!
Hugs back. Hbunny
Candy, like you I do wonder what's next now that our treatment is finished.
As far as I know I see the onc in 3 months and that's about it. It's kinda scary knowing we're on our own now. I'd like to keep popping in here. The July ladies are the only ones who truly understand what I'm going through and I do hate to bother my family with unnecessary worries.
hbunny, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad (and your back) How is he now?
Hope everyone had a good Christmas.
Hugs
Cath
Hi everyone. Hope you all had a fab Christmas, everyone is full to bursting with good food and merriment.
Congrats to everyone having finished treatment. Here's to a brighter 2015.
My Christmas was spent in A&E after dad having a number of falls. Appears he has slight pneumonia so will be there a while. I've also ,strained my back after stupidly trying to lift him off the floor on Christmas eve and now taking more pain killers than I did throughout the whole of last year, oh the joys of life just when you think things are starting to improve. But enough of me feeling sorry for myself I'm off for another chocolate. Love to all. Hbunny
Finished my rads on 23rd December, just in time for Christmas. No more treatment for me yippee as I am triple negative. I do feel for ladies that have not yet finished and will pop in from time to time to see how you are all getting on.
What next once we're done with treatment? I guess a lot of ladies are asking themselves? What is the answer?
Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year, you all deserve it after a year of trials and tribulations.
Lots of hugs
Flossie xx
Sorry it's a bit late in the day but just wanted to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas! Hope you are all feeling well and enjoying some quality time,
best wishes,
JuSt
xx
Almost Xmas day. Wishing all the July ladies a merry Xmas,HOPE you enjoy your lunch and that the wine flows.xx
Things have been hectic the last few days, rushing around trying to get ready for Christmas. Just wanted to pop in while there's a lull to wish all the lovely July ladies a very Merry Christmas and A Happy & Peaceful New Year.
Here's to 2015!
Hugs
Cath
Clare, Baxter sounds adorable - and a lot of hard work. LOL
I keep forgetting that a lot of the July ladies won't be finished treatment for quite a while to come. Between hormone therapy and mastectomys there's still a hill to be climbed.
I want to wish you all luck with whatever lies ahead.
Hugs
Cath
Great to hear from you Clare. A schnauzer, how wonderful. We lost our schnauzer 2years ago and boy does the house still feel quiet. Like you say a bundle of energy but so much joy you just can't help but smile. I do so envy you, this time next year hoping to be playing with a pup too.
Glad to hear your doing well. Hugs hbunny
Hi Horseslave good to hear from you. I haven't been on for a while also. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happier New Year.
I am also going to have a right mastectomy later (after my herceptin). It was always on the cards but I was somewhat discouraged to have them done together. Now wish I had followed my instincts.
Good call re new car, What model? I know what you mean re spending and living for the moment. Cancer does that to one.
Love
Clare
Hi Cath, Karen, Flossie, Wendy, ,Slyolddog, hbunny, JuSt and any one else i missed. I just wanted to pop in and say how happy I am for most of you, rads treatment is almost over. Liliac good luck with your rads treatment in January.
I was not given rads so could not share that experience.
I have been very busy and occupied with my new dog. His name is Baxter and he's a Schnauzer by the way. So intelligent but like a wind-up toy that never stops. He could walk all day if you let him
I want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year and a 'normal' 2015.
I am still having my 3 weekly Herceptin injections with no obvious SEs.(can't get rid of hosp visits yet!!) Still have my numb toes but my finger nails have improved (purples colour at tips only now). My hair is growing back well, silky and black with a few greys as before but interestingly thicker and faster in the areas the cold cap didn't save . In hindsight I would not have bothered about the cold cap but I suppose it helped me to gradually come to terms with my hair loss. 🙂
Well Christmas cards posted and decorations up so looking forward to a quiet one with my boys.
Love
Clare
Great to hear from so many of the July ladies and know we're all doing so well.
I finished rads on Thursday. I don't think it's really sunk in yet that I won't have to travel to the hospital next week.
Still haven't got my tree up, but determined to do it today.
Can't wait for some kind of normality in my life.
Hugs to all
Cath
This third time lucky.! I too have been reading other posts and think thank God am finished with chemo.Somehow everyone has the strength to deal without even the rely bad days with support from friends ,family and this website.
Most of you July ladies are finishing rads.congratulations.Mine start mid January .
Xmas fast approaching, feel have missed the prep and festivities but next year will embrace it all.
HOPE everyone enjoys the day,for some who have recently lost loved ones it will difficult. But hugs to you all.Gill
Hi Slyoldog. Six eyelashes, lucky you, I've counted four and two, looks like they are going to be really slow but never mind the legs are doing well will actually need to get the razor out again for them. Sounds like everyone is coming to the end now and what a feeling, sasauge and mash sounds like my idea of a good celebration and absolutely right no one seems interested in the rads, not as dramatic to talk about I suppose!
I started reading a couple of the new threads last night, those starting chemo after Xmas, they made me really emotional, so left a really supportive post only to loose it, but will try again tomorrow. I for one will be popping on here to catch up with everyone for quite sometime yet so hope to continue to see posts and updates from everyone, even if its to compare hair length and colour. Nails, I have the same as you Slyoldog white making them look longer where they are lifting, but actually very short with a healthy looking growth at the base although with ridges.
Have a healthy weekend all, I've come down with a cold, that's what daring to relax does, but its not going to spoil my night out tonight. Take care of you. Hbunny xx
Karen - thanks for the good wishes for the last radiotherapy session. All went well and the radiographers were well supplied with sweet treats when I left.They are a nice bunch of people. Not too long to go now until you will finish yours, it's such a relief. I hope you're not getting sore.
Wendy - again, thank you for thinking of me. It's funny, my husband asked me if anyone had text me or rung me regarding my last treatment. The only people who have are on this forum! That says something doesn't it. We really are all in this together, and the support has been wonderful. We may never meet but I for one will always be rooting for everyone on here.
Cath - how was it for you?? Did you give yourself a treat for finishing? I had an extra sausage with my dinner! Not much I know, and they're not good for you either, even though I don't buy the cheap ones, but some days sausage and mash with plenty of veg and thick gravy is a great meal. No mince pies today though. I can feel plenty of rest coming on now, after tomorrows trip to Legoland which I'm probably looking forward to more than my granddaughter.
hbunny - apart from the colour my hair growth sounds a lot like yours. Why is it the top of the head is so patchy, with plenty of hair at the sides. My nails are still weird too, they sort of look like they're long because there's a lot of white but they're actually short, the white is just the bit that's lifted. I can see good nail growth as well though, it will just take time. I would really love some more eyelashes. I've got about 6 on the upper lid of each eye I think, just enough to put some mascara on. (Yes, I am that vain!)
Lost a few on Sunday as my dad was taken in to hospital as he kept passing out and falling. Turns out he has a bladder infection, a few days of antibiotics and he's on the mend. I really thought that was it and I went to pieces. I need to grow some more lashes before he does that again.
Flossie - how are your rads going, you're nearly done too aren't you?
I hope everyone is doing OK, haven't heard from a few regulars for a while. This time next week Christmas Day will be on its way out and we'll all wonder what the fuss was about. And we'll be sick of mince pies!!
hbunny- you have veritably pinned the tail on the donkey, we have piled through what scared us a few months ago and come through stronger. I don't know about anyone else but it has changed my attitude, I'm much more likely to say yes to something and more likely to wear something because I like it, regardless of the fact it might not flatter my bum or another part of my unperfect body. Who cares, I'm all up for getting out there now.
Here's to all of us getting treatments finished, or mostly done and getting the year behind us.
Well done CathC and slyolddog for finishing your rads, I guess you won't feature here anymore which will only mean that you are getting back to living 🙂
My new wig has not been worn yet but I will start this weekend. It isn't a replacement, more like an addition to my collection, now I have 3.
3 more boosters and then off, can't wait
Love to all
Flossie xxx
@CathC wrote:Hi Karen,
Did you write your cards? I wrote some last night, but they're going to be very late. I still haven't put my tree up - just haven't had the energy, but hopefully will some time this week.
The dry mouth at night was the worst. It's almost gone now, almost two months after last chemo. At least it's not waking me at night any more.
Only 10 more rads to go for you. Here's hoping they speed by.
hbunny - getting back to normality sounds wonderful. How did the yoga session go, did you find it hard stretching your arm?
I thought my arm was fine until the boosters, when I had to lie on my side with my arm raised. The wound site definitely protested so I'm going to try to do a few more stretching exercises.
Here's hoping the sore/itchy boob doesn't get any worse and you can get back to your swimming next week.
I have my second last booster today. It's a later appointment so I've had a nice lazy morning. Roll on tomorrow when I can say goodbye to rads, hopefully for ever! *does happy dance*
Hope all the other July ladies are doing well.
Hugs
Cath
Cath. Fantastic nearly there. Yip yip. I was warned that the soreness might not peak for up to 10 days after the finish and its certainly not getting better yet, would be ok braless, but rubs just in the wrong places. Boosters on your side sounds rather uncomfy mine were in the same position.
I did try to carry on with the yoga throughout chemo, but just couldn't make the Times with rads so not really painful re stretching, but I do feel weaker and less stable, unable to stay in holds as long, and of course have lost flexibility in the wrist, thanks to the phalbitis, hey ho something to work on in the new year. Swimming after surgery though did help enormously with stretching and supplety so looking forward to that.
On a different note, hair growth seems to be a feature now, mine is not far off an inch around the ears, but more like a cm on top, so it still looks thin and patchy in places, but definitely there and still dark too, with a hint of silver (not giving in to Gray), lovely and soft though - 2 months tomorrow since last chemo nothing left but to look forward positively to 2015 and embrace life. Looking back on the last 6-8 months and the fear and despair we all started with, we have come through, kicked butt, and survived everything they have thrown at us with humour and a few tears. WELL DONE TO US we all deserve a drink and mince pie.
Xx hbunny
Cath. Fantastic nearly there. Yip yip. I was warned that the soreness might not peak for up to 10 days after the finish and its certainly not getting better yet, would be ok braless, but rubs just in the wrong places. Boosters on your side sounds rather uncomfy mine were in the same position.
I did try to carry on with the yoga throughout chemo, but just couldn't make the Times with rads so not really painful re stretching, but I do feel weaker and less stable, unable to stay in holds as long, and of course have lost flexibility in the wrist, thanks to the phalbitis, hey ho something to work on in the new year. Swimming after surgery though did help enormously with stretching and supplety so looking forward to that.
On a different note, hair growth seems to be a feature now, mine is not far off an inch around the ears, but more like a cm on top, so it still looks thin and patchy in places, but definitely there and still dark too, with a hint of silver (not giving in to Gray), lovely and soft though - 2 months tomorrow since last chemo nothing left but to look forward positively to 2015 and embrace life. Looking back on the last 6-8 months and the fear and despair we all started with, we have come through, kicked butt, and survived everything they have thrown at us with humour and a few tears. WELL DONE TO US we all deserve a drink and mince pie.
Xx hbunny
Hi Karen,
Did you write your cards? I wrote some last night, but they're going to be very late. I still haven't put my tree up - just haven't had the energy, but hopefully will some time this week.
The dry mouth at night was the worst. It's almost gone now, almost two months after last chemo. At least it's not waking me at night any more.
Only 10 more rads to go for you. Here's hoping they speed by.
hbunny - getting back to normality sounds wonderful. How did the yoga session go, did you find it hard stretching your arm?
I thought my arm was fine until the boosters, when I had to lie on my side with my arm raised. The wound site definitely protested so I'm going to try to do a few more stretching exercises.
Here's hoping the sore/itchy boob doesn't get any worse and you can get back to your swimming next week.
I have my second last booster today. It's a later appointment so I've had a nice lazy morning. Roll on tomorrow when I can say goodbye to rads, hopefully for ever! *does happy dance*
Hope all the other July ladies are doing well.
Hugs
Cath
Hi Slyoldog and all the July ladies. Hope this post makes it through, I've lost a couple recently. Well all treatment finished last Friday. Whoop whoop. Sore, red and itchy boob which has developed a "dent" so hoping that doesn't get any worse, only noticed it in the last few days. Still got the painful arm from phalbitis, but getting very slightly better and now have 5 nails lifting and the others rather dodgy but otherwise doing well, other than a developing cold, that's what happens when you dare to relax!
Anyway it's great to see everyone focussing on the good stuff and recovering or at least getting through the relentless daily rads, keep going it will soon be over. It was so nice to get home from work tonight without having to rush out again to the hospital. Hopefully back to swimming next week if the boob doesn't get any more sore and first yoga last night for 4 weeks was fab. Normality at last is on its way back.
Love to all. Hbunny
Hi Flossie, glad to hear you're not having many SE's - long may that continue.
How's the new wig going?
Karen, so great to hear from you. Bet those mince pies and chocolate tasted good. I've been eating a lot of chocolate this week. Don't know about the rest of you but my taste buds haven't come back properly and chocolate is about the only thing I can taste. Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. lol
Slyolddog - so glad to hear the rads are going well. I think we both finish on Thursday, yes? I'm with you re skipping out of the hospital. Can't wait for it all to be over.
Like you my skin seems to be coping well - a bit pink and tender, but nothing major. Let's hope it continues that way.
Wendy, good luck with all the birthdays. It was my brothers on the 14th and it would have been my dad's on the 20th - we lost him last year. I always feel those in Dec get a raw deal. I hope your mum and dad's day was special.
I have only 2 more boosters to go and then I'm done. Can't wait!
Hope everyone is doing well.
Hugs
Cath