Great to hear from everyone despite all the ups and downs. I also can hardly believe it has been 4 years, and agree this thread was such a lifeline through it all. Keep well! X
I’m seeing my Gp next Friday to get my supply of standby antibiotics, so I’ll ask him about that - thanks!
Happy New Year to you all. It’s good to catch up with you all.
Ellie, so sorry to hear about your lung, but glad they caught it early. Maybe it was lucky that you were still being monitored. I hope you keep getting better and manage to avoid colds over the winter. Fiona, I hope your hip op goes OK, you’ve put up with the pain for a long time.
Kim, I have lymphoedema in my arm too. It’s never got any better and I hate wearing my sleeve. I had my first bout of cellulitis in September this year. I couldn’t get antibiotics and ended up being hospitalised for 5 days. I understand that once you’ve had it once you are more susceptible. The specialist has put me on a low dose of antibiotics twice a day for a year. Apparently it’s a new treatment to stop it coming back. It might be worth you looking into.
Best wishes for 2020. Elizabeth xx
That’s great Claire! I never got round to doing the course as there wasn’t one close enough for me to easily get to.
I feel very lucky that we had each other for support during our chemo days 🙂
Hi Kim , is dear- no alcohol! - one glass of white wine and I’m done , never really enjoyed as previously to Chemo. Boot camp , wow, clever you - bet that was dirty to say the least , but great fun I could imagine. Sending best wishes, Mechele
Good to hear everyone is doing ok and Ellie you are on the mend. How scary for you.
i can’t believe it’s 4 years since we started our chemo journey together. I couldn’t have done it without all the support from you all.
all is good with me- I’m enjoying life and I’m still very appreciative to be living a normal life again. I volunteer now for Breast Cancer Now on the moving forward course as I found it really helped me. Meeting others who are just at the end of treatment makes me realise how far I have come since those dark days!!!
Happy New Year to you all!
lots of love
Oh Ellie, no cancer is good, but such a relief it was a new cancer, not a secondary! Pleased you’re doing well Xxx
I’ve had a good year, usual appointments, various symptoms that my GP has jumped on, sent me for scans & blood tests which have all come back clear. She’s very good like that, even if it means a couple of weeks of anxiety after I've just mentioned something to her that’s been niggling at me. My biggest annoyance is my lymphoedema in my arm. I’m used to wearing my compression sleeve every day & it’s under control, but I’ve had cellulitis 3 times this year - latest on Christmas Eve... 10 day course of antibiotics - no alcohol!!
On the positive side, I’m exercising more than I’ve ever done and enjoying it! Yoga, running & outdoor Bootcamp! I never imagined myself as a Bootcamper in the mud & rain, flipping tyres!
Hope 2020 brings you all good health & happiness!
lots of love, Kim xxx
Sorry to hear about more operations needed.
I am doing really well thank you. I was so relieved that my lung cancer was a new cancer and not secondary that I think I coped well with it! After 2 operations I am now well on the road to recovery and teaching my reduced lung to work well! It's been a long haul - about 9 months - but so glad they caught it early!
I tried to use a site like this for the lung cancer but it was rubbish - this site is SO GOOD! What a difference it made to us all as we went through the chemo.
Happy New Year to you too, and everyone else if course. Sorry to hear about you awaiting hip replacement surgery, sure it will go well and a good outcome, at least you’ll be free from the pain. In September I had to have a total knee replacement surgery, the post op key being exercise, exercise and exercise!! Sending best wishes to you x x
Happy New Year everyone! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the festive season. Ellie I hope all is good with you. Let us know how you are doing. I hardly check in here any more and only just saw your post from the summer. I am also going to have surgery - a hip replacement for me! It makes me feel ancient (I’m 53) and I think chemo exacerbated my arthritis. Love and luck to us all! XX
Good to hear all going well with everyone- how time quickly by . I too doing ok , just the yearly mammogram in November, always with fingers crossed!!
Unfortunately have just had to cancel our September holiday, but did get away in June for two weeks ( 4 out of last 5 yrs had to cancel one ) Going into the Barlborough hospital on 20/9 for full knee replacement surgery, not looking forward to being back in hospital, however, it will hopefully make me pain free - the joys of getting older ha ha . Sending love and best wishes to all of you
Good to hear from you all!
All’s good here, still having yearly appointments with mammogram (Nov) Breast surgeon (Jan) & oncologist (July) so I’m regularly prodded at, which always causes anxiety followed by relief (fortunately!)
Will be thinking of you Ellie, hope it all goes well and nothing worrying is found xxx
All good with me- It’s 4 years next week since I first went to my GP with a dent in my boob and the horrible story started to unfold! I had a small lipoflll op on one of my reconstructions in July, purely cosmetic but did not like being back in hospital! I still find it v traumatic doing anything medical!
ive got my annual check up with breast surgeon in September so fingers crossed all is well!
I hope all goes well for you Ellie it’s always such a worry after what we’ve all been through! and good to hear from you Fi.
its nice to touch base every now and again!
i hope everyone is well and happy!
So pleased for you!
My breast is also clear but by chance they found a lump in my lung. Seeing the thoracic surgeon today and having it removed shortly so they can see what it is. Thoughts and prayers welcome!
It’s now been 3 years since I finished treatment and all clear. Hope everyone is still doing well and enjoying life. This forum was such a support during that time. Thank you.
Happy New Year everyone. It’s coming up for three years since diagnosis for me. Time has flown, and I’m happy to say that I rarely think about cancer these days. I hope everyone is doing well. Lots of Love to all. Fif x
Lovely to hear that everyone is doing so well and living life. I can hardly believe it’s been two years since that horrible time. Long may NED continue for us all, with many holidays, parties and family occasions to enjoy! X
Great news! I hope everyone else is well and happy too. I'll never forget the support and comfort I got from everyone in this group as we all went through hell together!
All good with me. My reconstruction has given me back my self confidence and I'm making the most of it by living life to the full! I've had two beach holidays this year which is something I would not have contemplated pre surgery and I enjoyed every second!
Otherwise im working four days a week and spending my free time riding my horse and appreciating everything I have!!
love to all
Happy New Year everyone. I’m wishing for a fantastic fun-filled fabulously healthy one for all of us. Let this be the year we can forget cancer ever happened to us. I’m feeling full of hope. Love to you all! X
Hi Mechele and everyone. I thought I would check in today as it must be coming up for 2 years for all of us. Michele I was so happy to read that your biopsy wasn’t needed after all. I read that bit first then I went back through the earlier posts. Sounded awful as what a relief to get the good news. Isn’t it annoying that we immediately start thinking doom and gloom these days whenever we have to see the doctors. I’m trying to keep positive and to assume that everything will be fine, but it is hard. One day at a time!
Mechele when you said you felt guilty for putting your husband through the worry I know what you mean. I always feel the same, but I do think we have to put ourselves first while we are still recovering. And I definitely don’t think I’m over it yet. I’m hoping that I’ll feel differently next spring, I still have quite low energy.
Can’t wait for Christmas - sending lots of love to you all. Fif x
Excellent news What a massive relief!
Everyone, keep well and enjoy the Christmas period.
BRILLIANT NEWS! I sobbed my heart out the other night when I read about your recall. I really couldn't be happier for you! Ellie. x
Hi everyone , I did write a message yesterday and have no idea why it wasn't posted !!!, so will start again.
Such amazing news and outcome yesterday - the Dr doing the scan said it clearly was just scar tissue/ radiation and nothing to worry about at all- therefore no biopsies required , phew ! Appt for 5th therefore cancelled and just couldn't be happier and so relieved. Didn't sleep well Tuesday , as you can imagine my brain was going through every scenario . I have an appt for hair today - cut/ restyle , dye plus highlights - during Tuesday night thinking , is there much point when it could be dropping out beginning of January !! Also joking the Jan18 chemo starters etc etc - oh my, why does our brain torture us so much.
Anyway, all good and thankyou for your lovely supportive messages - for that I could not thank you enough.Wishing you all good health and have a fabulous Xmas .
With love and best wishes,
Mechele X X X
Mechelle I am distraught for you. We all desperately want good news for each other. You've got through so much - wishing you strength to get through the next few days and very much wishing for good news on 5th. x
Thank you Kim - it really does help having contact with such a wonderful and caring group who understand , having 'been there, done that" etc . My hubby is so worried and very supportive, but I feel guilty after having all the problems with chemo etc, then being so unwell for those months leading up to the Neprectomy. Hopefully the 5th will be good news , but can't help worrying at times in case it's not .
Hope your mammogram goes well, no reason for it not to and will be fine . I don't have any follow ups with the oncologist - only the breast surgeon. She is lovely and very thorough and have 100% confidence in her. Sending love and best wishes X X
Thank you Claire - bet your flat stomach is fab - you really do look great on the photos - you got your Xmas pressies sorted yet for your 4 legged friends 🐴. Not spoke lately to Ro and Gerry - give them my love . X X
Hi there - wow , 20lbs - well done you and so pleased you're feeling more yourself.
At the moment I really don't know what to think or feel. Started to feel so much better after the Nephrectomy , but of late just don't feel great. Had my 2nd annual mammogram last week and was awaiting my letter to say 'all satisfactory ' , but instead , after 3 days received a tel call saying they needed to see me 😨- not the answer I expected/wanted.
Consultant said she really didn't know why the change in tissue/ thickening and to have core biopsies/ ultrasound this coming Wednesday . ( ? suppose could be due to rads etc) Appt also made for Tuesday 5th Dec for results . One min I'm positive ' just due to rads' , the next , looking at chance of recurrence within 18 months . Keep going from being calm to sheer panic thinking I can't do this again.
Sorry for the moan - just needed to unload.
Sending love to everyone else
Mechele X X X
Fab news Claire and Michele I'm so happy for you both. All is good with me. I'm finally starting to feel really myself again (it's taken a while!) and have also been dieting and exercising a lot and have lost 20lbs, which I'm really pleased about as that means I've finally lost the weight I put on during my first pregnancy 18 years ago!! Lots of love. X
I use kinesio tape. It's not expensive and seems to help me. Top tip - soak off don't pull off! I find I need to leave it on for about 5 days and then it will come off easily, then I give it a few days off before reapplying. I have seen 2 different nurses and been taught a few different ways to apply it.
I am also between hairstyles, trying to grow it back to a shoulder length bob. Playing with colour and not found anything I really like yet! Getting lots of compliments though and people who haven't seen me for a few months always exclaim how nice it looks! Surley anything would look good after the bald style!