@noodledoodle well done for today!! How are you feeling? Yes that feeling to just get started is quite powerful - I need to start tackling this thing! Sending you all lots of positivity x
@coffeeandcake I have just had my first EC today and so far so good! Have come home with a LOT of meds for ant sickness and gave me some with the chemo too.
I too felt the need to start and get on with it, to begin counting down to the end😂😂
all the very best for tomorrow xx
So here I am. I find myself joining this thread and seeking support and solidarity amongst the May 21 warriors here! I had my portacath fitted today which was ok, and have my first EC tomorrow.
I am super keen to get this show on the road, but at the same time it’s so surreal isn’t it? How did I end up the patient who has grade 3 breast cancer?!
threads like these make me feel less nervous - I see other people asking the same questions that have been running through my head and I realise I am not alone
so wishing you all the very best of luck in your treatment journeys and here’s to a strong start for us all! 💪💪💪 xx
I have got my PICC-line cleaning and dressing changed today. It felt so good to be off with the plaster for few minutes. I even enjoyed the cold alcohol running down on my arm - told the nurse it was my PICC line spa and I would come back to another treat😉. Almost as good as a facial.
I know it is weird but I needed a feel good moment. And that was one of those. Finding joy in little things.
Hello lovely thank you for your support. Yes it’s a big fight we women need to do . And everyone one of us will do it and kick it’s bloody ass out of our systems
Loved your message. Had my covid d test done Friday. This Thursday I start chemo. I just want it to be done . Need to stay strong for my husband and children. Hope I can remain ok with praxcimetal chemo drug
Lol 🤣good name ..... well done with you hair ! Mine is a mess cancelled my appointment last week but I wasn’t paying 90 pound to put it in a bag 2 weeks later🥺
Well I have done it!! Braved the shave and hair all gone! I feel so much better having done it. It didn’t look too bad at all, once I had got a bit of make up on. Much better than I anticipated and one less thing to worry about now
Also donned the wig and went out in it this afternoon. The wigs these days are so realistic, it actually looks like my own hair, except in much better condition. Got a bit hot in the house in it , so changed to a headscarf. Embracing my new look. Feels strangely liberating and makes me feel I have a bit of control over this hideous experience!
@TicTok mine was called Cyril!😂😂
Enjoy the rest of your day all. Another stride towards the finishing line. Xx
Hi thanks for that info ... I wish mine could come as I can’t take anything in at the moment 😱 I will ask if I can do speaker phone as when I was diagnosed.
@TicTok for me the appointment took one hour. I got a lot of information before hand to read in peace and because I could access my journal electronically, I was focused on what I wanted to ask.
My husband came with me for the first time (in covid time I went to all the other appointments incl. surgeries on my own) and it was good for him to understand and hear everything. It gave him the possibility to ask questions too.
So Boris it is 😂😂😂😂.
Hi everyone not quite got the gist of this messaging lol .....I can only do one at a time .
Another question is approx how long does the 1st oncology appointment take ?as I don’t know weather to get my husband to wait or leave me and come back .
Can’t see the coop letting me come and go as and when as always short staffed ,I would sooner work if possible so I will ask the question.
And yes it is called Boris amongst other things lol ..... he has cancelled one year of my life so might as well do 2 😆.
No good quote today – I have had two emotional days. The loss of control, the loss of perspective, not knowing when will this all be over has taken me on an existential roller coaster from low to high and back down.
Gladly I managed (with the encouragement of my family) to exercise a little every day. Somehow moving my body helped to fight the constant headache, the muscle and bone pain, the sudden tiredness and my dark thoughts.
I have been working from home for months, so it would not change much for me. My boss is very supportive and understanding, so no worries on that front either. I chose not to work the first 2 cycles to see how I cope with the treatments, the kids, the every day life and my feelings. I miss it though.
Welcome @simplyeve . I understand you so well. Although things seem to go fast for me here, the wait in between each appointment, each result, each treatment has been and is horrific (patience not being my strongest side). I had two surgeries two weeks apart from each other but there were 4 weeks between my last surgery and my first EC cycle. I have been told that the delay of minimum 4 weeks between chemo and surgery was because the chemo also affects healing and scaring. There might be a ‘positive’ reason behind the wait.
I cut my hair short few weeks ago and I will shave them when the time comes. I am at Day 7 and still have my hair. No major fall, their texture feels weird though. They don’t offer the cold cap here but I am not sure I would have tried either. Being cold on your head was not appealing, speaking of experience from the cold winters here.
I picked my wig Friday but have not got the courage to try it on my own. It lays in the box like an unwanted gift. My husband and kids are curious and want me to try but I am just not ready yet.
@TicTok , do you call you it Boris? 😂
@Purpledaze, do you have a big garden? Good luck with the peas. At the moment, I am a window seal and city gardener. I live in a flat on the 4th floor with a fairly large balcony that accommodates a small green house. My basil, parsley, chives, coriander, mint, salads and cherry tomatoes are promising. Not to forget I have strawberries blooming in my green house on my balcony. Hoping for some good harvests in the coming weeks.
@noodledoodle, good luck on Monday. We will there for you.
It was 3 weeks for me between surgery and appt with oncologist, and then 2 more weeks before I started chemo. So I think you were right to get your appt moved to an earlier date. Don't feel guilty about it - if the space hadn't been available they wouldn't have given it to you!
I was told I would lose all my hair, but so far at Day 12 it is all still there. I've not bothered with cold cap as I get migraines and didn't want to risk that being a trigger. I've ordered some beanies etc. and will wait and see!
I didn't work the first week after chemo as I didn't feel up to it and also struggled to concentrate (couldn't read anything). But did 2 days last week, and felt good, plan to work most of this week, too. I'm lucky, I can work from home and my employer is very supportive which really helps.
@Poacher65 @@@ I definitely feel better now I've finished the GCSF injections. All the best with your coil removal this week - May it be a smooth and painless procedure for you.
Hoping to get some gardening done today - trying my hand at growing peas! Could be a disaster! 😂
Take care everyone x
@TicTok morning x
I am so far working from home but I'd able do plan to go in to work a day a week if I can. My oncologist said if I feel like it go in, if not don't....so very much depends on your situation. I am very very lucky that my work allows me to do this and know its not the same for all.
The thing I am finding hard about work is concentration....my mind wanders and I have found my best laid plans for work to complete in my day just don't come to fruition.
I am determined to stay at work and not be off sick if possible but we will see. Had to take a sick day Friday as just so tired and off it but did feel better for watching rubbish on TV all day!
My nurse says many others she has cared for also worked so I'm keeping positive...I suppose it all depends on how you react to the chemo....and so far I've not been too bad. The GCSF injections made me feel worse than chemo..I think? Not sure how I'm supposed to feel being so new to all this to be fair. Maybe I will feel worse next time..or maybe not...again another unknown that drives you mad if you let it. 🤔
I am trying the cold cap in an attempt to keep my hair.....first session was fine...more than tolerable but does add time to the hospital visit. I am Day 10 post my first chemo and no hair loss yet but fully accept I will lose some....just hoping to keep enough to not need a wig. Have a wig fitting on 27th May though as like a plan B. Also bought head scarves etc just in case. Again my nurse has told me that she has had several women having same chemo regime as me...3 x EC and 3 x Docetaxal ...that have kept all their hair with cold cap therapy so I'm again staying positive.
This week's hurdle for me is to have my coil removed as a day case procedure on Wednesday as they couldn't remove it in the clinic as it was just too painful. Need it out though as my cancer is oestrogen positive so the coil is feeding it in my head.
Anyway.. have a good Sunday everyone...hope you are all as good as you cam be. Take care xxx
I will be interested to know about the hair also ....been to look at wigs today ....Also does anyone manage to go to work during chemo ? I have no idea if it’s possible or not .
wow. 23rd June! You absolutely did do right to bring the appointment forward. The waiting between is horrendous and it would have been difficult to cope with that length of time
I had my Picc line in yesterday and already feels ok. Chemo on Monday-first cycle of EC.
Debating whether to brave the hair shave tomorrow, or wait a bit longer. Anybody know when it usually starts to fall out? Think I will shave it off before I start. 🤷♀️
Take care all. Xx
That does sound a long time 😳....glad you managed to get it changed ! Waiting ten days for my MRI results was bad enough , in my head the cancer was everywhere . Good luck with your treatment
@simplyeve ...hello and welcome xx
I'm having my 6 sessions of chemo before my surgery then radiotherapy then hormone therapy but when I first got my diagnosis I desperately wanted the surgery first just to 'get it out.
I also have 2 positive nodes and the surgeon hopes the chemo will allow only very minimal lymph node removal rather than full clearance.
You are definitely a young lady! I'm 46 years old and when I get to 62 years old, I will certainly be considering myself a young lady still ❤
My surgeon has said once my chemo finishes I'll be 6 to 8 weeks before I have my surgery, or 4 to 6 if I recover well from chemo ....that seems an age to me but then all the days spent waiting throughout my journey so far have proved to be very mentally challenging for me.
You know you have cancer and you want it gone....trouble is it takes time and a very carefully planned plan...I was told very early on that I had to trust my team looking after me.
I did from the minute I was diagnosed and will continue to trust them until I'm finished my treatment and got this thing beat.
I'm glad you got your appointment moved ...that wait would have been a nightmare for you I'm sure.
You will do this ....4 words that sound pathetic...but we have no choice but to get through this and the rubbish days are all part of beating this disease...so we will all do this.
@noodledoodle hope all goes well tomorrow xxx
Take care everyone. Xxx
I am hoping to join your ranks, I have my first oncology appointment on 19th May. Was diagnosed with IDC grade 3, ER/PR/HER2 + on the 1st March and told had small 12.5mm tumour close to the nipple, so had WLE with nipple removal & SNB on 22nd March, results on the 7th April showed tumour was actually 42mm and had a 14mm metatastes in one of the nodes so was scheduled for ANC on 15th April, got my results on 5th May which showed further 2 nodes positive so 3/15 and now am going to have Chemo including targeted therapy (Perjeta I think) then Radiotherapy and will go on to have hormone therapy after that oh and I will have biphosphonates too! Apparently I am being treated as a "young woman" and given "the full hit" was the way my surgeon described it (quite right I am only 62 and think age is just a number, in my head I am still in my forties😉).
Was having an emotional day yesterday after processing the info but then had a real meltdown when I received an Oncology appointment date for 23 June 😭 10 weeks after surgery, decided I could not take waiting in fear of spread for that length of time so long story short several telphone calls to various departments later, they rearranged the appointment with another oncologist who could see me on the 19th May. Can I just ask has anyone else had to wait that length of time between treatments? Was I being unrealistic expecting the appointment earlier? Went from meltdown to feelings of guilt that I have had my surgery and maybe there would be someone else who would have to wait longer for appointment because of me.
So the outcome being that I have decided to join you in the hope that my treatment will now be started in May.
@noodledoodle just want to wish you luck for your first session tomorrow too.🤗
@TicTok good luck with your first appointment too. I hope your wait for treatment will not be too long either.🤗
@worriednow hope your first session went ok this week.🤗
Thanks for all your reply’s guys ...... had results from my MRI today feeling much better as that was clear. Can’t wait to get treatment started to get rid of boris
Likewise I waited about 10 days between meeting the oncologist and the first round of EC? But I am in Sweden.
I had my oncology appointment Wednesday 5th May and going for my Picc line in today and chemo starting Monday 10th,
mid you do have more of a wait, make the most of it and do some things you enjoy. Waiting is the worst but this would make it pass quickly
let us know how you get on and good luck😘
My chemo started exactly 2 weeks after my appt with the oncologist.
@Poacher65 that's great you've found something that tastes good - and what a lovely option, too!
@Love running thanks for for those quotations. I found them very appropriate and encouraging!
I finished my first course of GCSF yesterday and the bone pain did catch up with me - it was quite painful all in lower back & hips, but Paracetamol, a hot pad and keeping mobile are really helping.
I've just come back from a walk with my dogs - it's a glorious morning here which always helps lift the mood.
I hope you all have the best day possible! X
@Poacher65 Hope you start feeling better soon. I also found I enjoyed ripe vine tomatoes and I ate them with salad leaves and a hard boiled egg. My appetite has improved now and I'm eating proper meals again but still choosy about what I feel like eating. Iced fruit lollies are good too if you struggle to drink enough.
@TicTok Welcome to the group, I think you will find that everyone's supportive and caring and it will help you get through your treatment. I'm on my 2nd course of chemo as I'm on the ROSCO trial. I had 4 cycles then a break for surgery and now I've had the first of another 4 cycles. I think it was about 10 days from seeing the oncologist ( the first time round) but it depends on whether extra tests needed etc.
I'm being treated at Sheffield and I'm amazed at how quickly and efficiently everything has happened.
Best wishes to all. x
Morning @TicTok ...I was about 10 days between my oncology appointment and first chemo so a long wait when you want to get started. I hope your wait isn't too long....mine was delayed due to needing to get a specific blood result back that was sent from Lincolnshire to London...to determine if I could tolerate a chemo drug.....I didn't gave the enzyme I needed so there was a slight change in chemo regime.
Have had a strange couple of days...very headachy, bones achy from GCSF injection daily (last one tomorrow!) and just no energy at all. I'm hoping this gets better...im only Day 7 today so still early days.
Found a food I 'enjoyed last night...ripe vine tomatoes! Anything else is just 'blurgh'...
Anyway, I hope you are all doing OK....take care all and together we can do this ❤
Hi I have my first oncology appointment on mon , can anyone tell me how long is it till your 1st chemo please
I have so much catching up to do.
I want to start with a quote I found few weeks ago on Instagram (The goodquote) - ‘There will be better days, so please find strength in the wait’. This is what I did, and now I am back.
Welcome @worriednow to this wonderful forum. Like @Purpledaze I will also be taking Paclitaxel later on after I have completed 4 cycles of EC. I can’t give you any specific advice, except to talk to your contact nurse and medical team. When I first read the long list of side effects, I too felt overwhelmed and worried. You are not alone ❤️.
I had a first rough night, where I camped on the bathroom floor on my yoga mat. I did a lot of breathing exercises that night. It took me back in memory lane, when giving birth to my two daughters. My daughters have been amazing and so strong on that first day – not easy for them to see their mum like that. My husband too was great helping me and taking care of the girls. I am so fortunate to be surrounded by them.
After 12 hours on the bathroom floor, I picked myself up but it left me quite tired on Day 2 and 3. Luckily, the anti-sickness meds kicked in well after that first night. Mostly, I have a constant headache and fatigue. @Purpledaze, my taste has not changed either but I also gave up coffee (unimaginable few days ago, because I am addicted to coffee) which might explain the headache (withdrawal symptom😉). My appetite plunged too, so I made homemade high energy raw balls with dates, whole nuts and coconuts, which are easy to eat. @Poacher65 my nurse told that trying new food (things you were not keen before) could help with the loss/lack of taste. Popcorn was a good suggestion from @Purpledaze.
All the strength I could gather on Day 2 and 3, I used to take walks and get my pulse up for 30 min. My contact nurse strongly advised to motion and get my pulse up at least 30 min every day to help the mind and the body to get my energy level up. She said that it won’t make it worse and she was right. I managed one ‘long slow’ walk a day and it really boosted my energy level. I also did few gentle Pilates exercises to ease my muscles and bone pain that might come from the injection of GCSF and to continue my knee rehab (still recovering from an ACL surgery in October 2020).
Today Day 4, I feel much better. The headaches are still present, I have now a red glow in my face from the cortisone (I look sunburnt) and my skin is so dry and peeling but I feel so fortunate. I even managed this morning to run a short stretch – I thought if I can walk, I can run. It was more speed walking than running. I felt so alive (and healthy), feeling the fresh air and even the rain on my face. I have therefore decided to cherish these special moments that makes me feel good and to write them down every day in a small book. Hopefully, it will help me during darker days to remind me that there are and will be special moments in between.
@Karden : good to read that you are feeling better too. How are your ankles?
@noodledoodle Good luck on Friday for the PICC-line and on Monday for the first cycle. I understand you so well, I had the same anticipation to start. Each day brings us closer to the end of this journey. I now count down the cycles: 1 down 15 to go. Hopefully you can enjoy to the max your last ‘normal’ days especially if the weather is nice.
I will finish with another quote I read today from Instagram: - ‘I promise… what hurts how, won’t hurt forever.’
We will go through this. I wish that you all have a good or better day.
just thought I would share this link. Virtual Workshops via zoom for people with cancer, just to make us feel a little more upbeat, run by a charity, so all free.
I have booked onto the skincare and make up, as my make up skills are zero! Might come out of this high maintenance 😂😂
Thank you my lovely. It’s so nice to be in this forum with so much support and love for one another. We will all get through this and kick it out of our systems for sure
@worriednow welcome to this group. I hope you find it as helpful and supportive as I have, and that you found the info you were looking for about Paclitaxel in the wider forum. I will also be taking Paclitaxel, but later on after I have completed 4 cycles of EC, so I haven't started thinking about it yet.
I'm Day 8, and I've had a good couple of days - an ever-present wooziness and light headache, but otherwise ok. The nausea & sickness have gone, thank goodness. I know everyone is different, but I was sidetracked by sickness on Days 1 - 3 of EC, until I got properly on board with the anti-sickness. I'll know better for next time and will be starting the anti-sickness from the get-go!
I'm lucky that my taste hasn't changed so far, although my appetite has diminished and there are definitely foods I'm not interested in (have gone right off coffee, which seems unbelievable!). @Poacher65 I'm sorry you're getting the horrible taste with food. I had also heard that using plastic/wooden cutlery can help, eating little and often + sipping lots of water/juice/cordial throughout the day. Bread sticks, ginger beer, popcorn, clear soup, and dried fruit have been winners for me. A friend who had Covid and lost her sense of taste/smell, recommended the popcorn because she said it is a food that doesn't really have much taste anyway, but does have some texture.
I also started the GCSF injections 3 days ago, but aside from wooziness and light headache all the time, have not had any other reactions, so here's hoping you can get through your injections ok, @Poacher65
@noodledoodle all the best for your start of chemo. As you say, sooner started, sooner it's finished. Will be thinking of you on Monday. Hopefully you can follow @Love running plans for a lovely pre-chemo weekend. I think it's going to be nice weather, too!
@Love running how are you feeling after your first chemo? I hope you are managing ok. As and when you're feeling up to it, I'd love to hear about your balcony garden and what you have planted there.
@Karden that's lovely to hear you're feeling almost normal after a rough few days. Suddenly, hoovering the kitchen seems like a really fun activity - LOL - but take care of your ankles from when you fell the other day!
Have a good evening and I hope tomorrow is a better day for everyone x
Good to hear from you @noodledoodle
The Picc line will make it so much easier for your chemo infusions and I think you will soon get used to having it in place.
Good luck for Monday. 👍
a bit behind you guys, but had my oncology appointment today and PICC line will be done Friday and chemo starting Monday.
EC 3 cycles to begin and then Paclitaxel and Carboplatin after that. Just glad things are moving again. Second phase as already had surgery. Sooner started, sooner finished!
Hope you are all doing okay.
Take Care xx
The bad or no taste issue is a problem. I had that with Docetaxel but not this time. Try different things that work for you even if it doesn't seem like a proper meal. I found that fresh fruit and salad worked for me, juices and cordials, toast, plain biscuits, savoury crackers and cheese spread. I would have a roast dinner occasionally but without the meat as I totally went off any meat at all.
Be assured that your taste will recover when chemo finishes, it was gradual over a couple of weeks for me.
I think you will start to feel better overall for the last 10 -14 days of the cycle, most do. 👍
@Karden not too bad thanks...feel OK just washed out, tired and absolutely no taste so trying to get enthusiastic about food is proving a challenge!
It's only my first cycle so I'm expecting to feel worse next time as feel incredibly lucky that I seem to have done ok.
I'm glad your feeling OK....im having EC then Docetaxal so we will see which one is worse for me....like you say it seems we are all different in how we feel.
Started the GCSF injections today that I have to have for 5 days and they are supposed to give you terrible bone pain so am anticipating the worst.....anything better will be a bonus.
Hope everyone else is feeling OK.
Take care all xxx
@Poacher65 I hope you're doing ok since your chemo. I had the bad taste for most of my first course of chemo and through trial and error I adapted my diet until I found what tasted best. I went off my favourite breakfast tea and drank more juices and cordials.
@Love running I'm pleased you were able to enjoy a BBQ and a little gardening and I hope you are coping ok since your first chemo. The shower sleeve is a nuisance isn't it but it does a good job.
@Purpledaze How are you feeling now, I hope the nausea has settled down.
It's day 6 for me and I'm now feeling almost normal. I slept all day for 2 days on Sat/Sun and stayed out of bed for most of yesterday. Today, I have been showered and dressed and hoovering the kitchen. I have eaten quite well today and I think I may be over the worst. If so, then this FEC is definitely easier than the Docetaxel chemo for me, although I know it's different for each one of us.🤞
Best wishes to you all. x
@worriednow I have just seen your post and noticed that no-one has replied yet.
I'm afraid I can't comment on Paclitaxel as I haven't had this but I just wanted to let you know that you will receive amazing support and information by being part of this forum.
You may want to consider contacting one of the nurses - details on this forum. I think you can phone or email. I hope you soon hear from someone who has experienced this treatment. Have you looked on earlier monthly threads as these members will have gone through treatment by now? You can put Paclitaxel in the search field to narrow it down a bit.
Hope this helps. x
hello I will be starting my chemo pacximetal hope spelling is right weekly next week . Just scared if I can tolerate it . Nerve pain is my big worry. Should I use cold treatment for ties and handed during chemo will it help? Lots of things running on my mind
I hope you are all doing fine today. I have taken the few last days to enjoy to the max my last ‘normal’ week-end. I have been eating my favorite food, went for a beautiful walk in the archipelago of Stockholm and met few friends for a BBQ. I´ve also been baking a lot for my girls. I even managed to run one last time, it was a bit challenging with the PICC-line though (nothing compared to taking a shower with the protective sleeve, which was epic). This afternoon, I will try to build the mental strengths for tomorrow while gardening on my balcony.
@Poacher65 , I hope you had a better night and will have better days. I have been given the following advice from my Swedish nurse regarding food (not tested though):
@Karden how are you today? Sounds that you hurt yourself quite bad. I hope you are not in pain.
I have found myself more distracted since I got to know I had BC… My brain never stops wondering off, not focusing. Two days, I walked to the local grocery store about 10 min away from home. When at the store, I realised that I had my bicycle helmet on instead of a beanie. I also booked an appointment in a store for a consult and went to their competitor the day and time of the appointment. Awkward moments at the time but we had a good laugh with the family afterwards.
Have a fantastic Sunday
. @Karden that sounds painful! Take care and hope it recovers soon. I've found myself to be more clumsy and knocking things over etc. I think it's the fatigue.
I'm learning to do things I like in bitesize - it's hard because I just want to go for a long walk with my dogs, who look at me hopefully every morning! But realise that little and often is better! @Love running your encouragement and enthusiasm is inspiring - thank you!
I'm getting a port a catch fitted in a week or so. Will be worth it I think altho a bit nervous about the procedure.
@Shi really good advice about seeking help for nausea / sickness. I was thinking oh it's just chemo but my husband made me call the helpline and they got me some more help.
It's so good to have this forum and thank you for all your kind words, encouragement and support!
Hope you all have a good week and x
Had rubbish nights sleep....no real reason but did start feeling sick and still do this morning....again nothing major.
Decided I'm going to check my temperature a couple of times every day routinely so hopefully nothing creeps up on me!
Horrible taste that's making all food and drink taste is annoying....any tips?
Hope everyone else who had chemo yesterday are OK xxx
@Poacher65 I'm pleased you're feeling ok so far, I had my first of 4 FEC+ Herceptin on Thursday. I have previously had 4 Docetaxel/ perjeta/ cyclophosphamide/ Herceptin with a break for a lumpectomy.
@Love running My PICC line has also gone back in as it had to come out for surgery, it was fine as I knew what to expect. Having to cover it for showering is an inconvenience but worth it as it makes having chemo easier.
Day 3 and I'm feeling ok, just more tired than usual. I didn't help myself by falling down some steps yesterday whilst hanging out the washing. I have 2 swollen ankles, a bruised big toe and shin but at least there's nothing broken.
I wish everyone well and hope you have a good weekend. 😊
Well done poacher 👍 keep drinking water, flush things through. Keep eye on temperature and ring rapid response if antisickness meds don’t work, don’t think oh well this is chemo. Well done on having cold cap too 👍 keep focused 💕💕✨✨Shi xx
Well first chemo done.
1 down...5 to go...
Did cold cap which was fine.
Was meant to have FEC for first 3 cycles but I am missing the liver enzyme needed to have the 'F' drug safely so just having EC.
No real issues while having drugs....feel a little lightheaded now and a but headachy but thunk that's the cold cap...and also have strange taste in my mouth but nothing major.
Let's see what next few days bring.
How are others who have had their chemo today?
Tale care all xx
Welcome to the group.
I hope you manage to have your walk yesterday. In my wildest hopes and dreams, I wish I can have few runs in between cycles. I found a book that I will start reading on Monday when I start my first cycle, that hopefully will give me the strengths. 'Run for life: how one woman ran circles around breast cancer. Jenny Baker'
It is surreal to me too. I can't grasp what is happening. Since the surgeries, I am feeling well and resume with my life activities. And yet I need to go through chemo and its effects to make sure it is gone.
I have not made up my mind on the wig yet (no consensus in the family on which one to choose), I got few caps and headscarfs. My husband bought me a hand full of colourful beanies in very soft material (in Sweden, summers can be chilly).
Got my PICC-line yesterday and now trying to get used it.
I wish you all a very good day
We are in a very similar place! I too had WLE for grade 3 triple negative, with clear sentinel node. I had my surgery 4 weeks ago, March 31st, but not seeing oncologist until next Wednesday, so presumably our chemo will be the same, or similar too.
I have got a few nice scarves and beanies but have a wig too. Don’t expect I will wear the wig often but will probably wear it every now and again when out and about.
keep us informed of how you are doing and take care. Xx
Hope it's OK to join this group. Started my chemo yesterday and thought May group made more sense with the timing.
Had surgery a month ago WLE with clear sentinel node, but triple negative, grade 3, so consultant recommended chemo. I'm having EC followed by Paclitaxol. Day 1 was rough for me. But feeling better now I've upped the anti-sickness. Hoping to go for a gentle walk later.
It all feels very surreal! Can't quite believe it's happening. I guess in a way that's a good thing as it means there are still lots of times in the day when cancer isn't the focus of it all!
I'm opting for head coverings /hats etc rather than a wig. But it's great to hear how everyone is getting on and all the tips, ideas and encouragement. So glad I found this forum. Thank you!
@Karden @noodledoodle @Poacher65 @Mai7 Thank you so much for welcoming me to this forum. It feels good to have someone to talk to that goes through the same. Thanks also for the advice on reading, the support and sharing your experience. I hope I will be able to bring you support and tips too in time. We will get through this together.
I am in Stockholm, Sweden. The care is great so far, I can't complain. It went really fast from diagnosis on 22 February until first chemo 3 May and with 2 surgeries in between.
@Karden – I hope it went smooth with the PICC line today. I will get mine tomorrow afternoon. Slightly nervous, but hey if I got through lumpectomies, I should be able to handle it (right?). I got a waterproof sleeve from the hospital pharmacy here, let’s see if it holds. Otherwise, thanks for the tip about Amazon. I will check it out.
@Karden It felt good to read what you wrote about your journey so far, you are positive and it really helps and give me hope.
I went for my first wig testing and fitting this morning. I did not what to expect but was like you positively surprised. First the lady in the store was so knowledgeable (20-year experience helps) and she was so kind to me. I was so nervous and she immediately told me: 'you are not going to buy a wig today, you will try a lot and you will take many pictures and then you go home and check with your kids and husband. Take the week-end to think about it and you call me next week. Don’t rush your choice'. She made it a pleasant and playful moment and I took so many pictures (felt like a model:-)). Like you were saying too, I got surprised about the quality of the hair and the fitting. I had 'toupé' in mind and could see it flying away with the wind (in a Mister Bean kind of moment). But no, they are actually quite nice and comfortable. I showed the pictures tonight to my family and two friends… no agreement. If I listen to them I will need to buy at least 3 of them and to rob a bank to finance them.
@Poacher65 I hope you wig fitting tomorrow will be as pleasant as mine was today.
I have cut my hair short a week ago. Same hair cut than 20 years ago when I met my husband. He loved it then and still loves it now. It made it easier for me to accept the change. My oldest daughter (in her pre-teen) likes the short hair but my youngest (a little princess) not so much. She is more in to very long hair (she wanted a Billy Eillish-like wig, long black and green)