Jowels 👍❤️That’s fantastic ❤️ I was oct17 chemo thread. 👭we all still speak daily and get your meet up planned when you’ve all 👭😳😁😂🤣😂💃🏻💃🏻🕺🕺💃🏻💃🏻Got each other through, it’s so lovely when you meet up ( but do over pm on here) the threads are open to the world, keep safe. We had 5 star afternoon tea in London 😁 it gave us something nice to look forward to when we’d all finished treatments ❤️ Pace yourselves 👭focus and you’ll get each other through. Don’t be surprised if people you thought were close friends disappear during the journey, it can happen, they have a beam me up scotty moment like it’s catching, then when you are through they beam back down again 🤔 just wanted to tell you all so if it does happen you won’t be confused or hurt ❤️Just take care of yourselves and each other and do everything your own way and in your own time ❤️ 💕💕✨✨Shi xx
yes that’s where it’s going I have the form and envelope ready.My hair is long so it will help them I think ❤️
like you say a positive ♥️
hope you doing ok x
Jowels ❤️Please think about donating your hair to little princes trust who make the wigs for children ❤️ I did with my hair, made it not feel like a waste and doing something positive for others and gave me bit of control ❤️💕💕✨✨Shi xx
I completely agree the breakfast and after school club is a god send in this situation.You just never how you feel one minute to the next.It is so hard with such a young child but also that’s what keeps me smiling ♥️
i start week after next and have woken up with a cold -no clue how as my house is like a hospital with hand gels,cleaning products and I have avoided mixing with people shops etc.Unfortunatley I have very changeable Asthma so I’ve had to increase my meds for that so I can shift it by chemo.You just couldn’t write it could you!
i havent been given my wig voucher but am booked to cut my long hair next week and will donate this.I will be cold capping if this is available but told them I don’t want to delay my treatment any longer.Ive been off work 4 months (due to a delay in diagnosis)now so keen to keep moving forward.
so pleased your daughters school have been supportive.My sons school have also been and keeping close eye on him too.I read mummy’s lump to him and have been honest from the beginning.It is hard though for sure.
Ive ordered a huge shop from asda with foods I may eat when having chemo so I’m as organised as I can be.Want to get on with it now.I keep telling myself the sooner I start the sooner I finish !
im going to get a little white board and write the dates of cycles down and mark them off one by one.In the interim im clinging onto any normality I can find (sometimes hard).
sending a hug for Tuesday and lots of luck .Let us know how it goes.
hope everyone else is doing ok
I start FEC-T chemo on Tuesday. Nervous but at least once it starts I’ll know what to expect and also how my body reacts to the chemo. I’m 53 years old with a 5 year old daughter. Bulldozed really does sum up a cancer diagnosis.
I’m lucky that we’re able to use breakfast club at short notice for my daughter if needed so I can get to medical appointments. We also send her to wraparound every day (after school club) so hubby can pick her up on his way home from work. We thought that would make things easier for me if I was suffering from fatigue. She absolutely loves it which is reassuring for me and makes me feel a bit less guilty. Her school have been really supportive and I’ve kept them up to date throughout my cancer journey. They’re keeping an eye on her but so far she seems to be coping really well.
Sending you and everyone else a big hug xx
At least you gave the cold cap a try. I’m too much of a coward to even think about it. I had my hair cut short into a pixie style before mine starts so it won’t be as upsetting when it starts to fall out (in theory).
Your hubby was right not to be too hard on yourself. There’s such a lot to take in and it’s understandable some stuff will get forgotten along the way. (I had a text from my daughters school because I’d forgotten to order her school lunch - and I haven’t even started my chemo yet!). Well done you on going ahead with it despite the four attempts to find a vein.
I’d read about the pink wee but didn’t realise it would happen so quickly. Thanks for the stay well hydrated and ice cubes tips. I hate the thought of being sick but haven’t been given anything to take prior to treatment. I start FEC-T chemo 3rd March.
Take care and stay in touch xx
Hi Wildspur20, sorry it’s taken me a little while to reply. I spent half term feeling rotten with a cold and chesty cough. Not what I needed with chemo looming. At one point I can remember thinking how will I manage chemo if I feel this lousy with a cold.
How did your pre assessment go? Mine wasn’t quite what I was expecting and the nurse who took my bloods was quite new to the unit so said she’d have to ask one of the other nurses if I had any questions. I got my wig voucher at least which means I can go ahead with my wig consultation which I’ve already booked for 7th March. I did get shown around the chemo suite though which was reassuring. I wasn’t given any sickness meds to take prior to my first session though. So I’m waiting until my first chemo on Tuesday this week to ask any questions. I was hoping to come away with some useful hints and tips of how to get through chemo but I’m making do with what I’ve read myself in the Macmillan and Breast Care Now publications. I also hadn’t realised that the flu jab is recommended before starting chemo but when I asked at the pre assessment I was told not to worry about it as we’re almost out of flu season. So that’s left me feeling a little anxious.
I’m feeling a little more positive as my hubby is coming with me to my 1st chemo session. I’d already been given information leaflets on FEC-T and herceptin when I met with my oncologist at the beginning of February and I know that I’ll be having chemo every 3 weeks. I think it’s the fear of the unknown and how I’ll react to the chemo that’s playing on my mind at the minute.
On a positive note I really recommend the Look Good, Feel Better workshop. The goody bag provided by the beauty industry is amazing but also I was surprised by what a difference it made to me emotionally after spending an afternoon with other ladies going through cancer treatment. A bit of make up really did make me feel better. The ladies who run the workshop were really helpful and tea or coffee was provided by Macmillan volunteers who help facilitate it.
thanks for your reply and sorry not to respond sooner.
First bc in left breast and needed lumpectomy and rads and tamoxifen.
2 years later a new primary in other breast was er and pr negative but HER2 positive; in other words a completely different type of bc. Didn’t know that was even possible!! Found during my annual mammogram- despite being 3.5cm I didn’t feel it and no symptoms! Thank goodness I was in the system as Grade 3. Hence need for chemo.
Feel very lucky they found it and it is treatable. Nasty shock for me and my family but trying to be positive and take each day as it comes. Hope you are ok?
All the best
hope you don’t mind me jumping on this thread-I’ve moved from January surgery to here.
hope you are all doing ok,managing in whichever we can.
im starting FEC 6 cycles in a weeks time.Had a wide excision,mamoplasty and SNB jan 14th.
I’m 40 and my amazing son was 4 when I was diagnosed after being told I had a cyst that required regular drainage for weeks.Trying to make the best of it all but as you all know quite a bit to get your head round.
im keen to start chemo but equally dreading it.Im also a nurse which I think in this situation is not helping!
ive been reading all your posts which are helpful.Im hoping to try the cold cap and have super long hair so getting a bob next week.
i have an amazing support network which so grateful for.My husband is my complete rock.Hope you all have someone looking out for you.This group is a real help as we all know how it feels to have your life bulldozed.
Sending everyone a big hug
Thank you so much Shi - you got me 😉 I like to take control and have things done with ASAP... I will take one thing at a time - but already have in my list to do to stock up senokot tablets 😉 😘
So started chemo on Weds with round one of FEC. Forgot to take my anti sickness meds one hour before treatment and felt really annoyed with myself! Hospital were great and sorted me out and hubby told me to stop being so hard on myself.
Next issue was finding a vein which took 4 attempts! Going to wear gloves and take a hot water bottle next time. Nurse also said I need to be well hydrated. She also advised ice cubes to suck as metallic taste with one of the drugs. Oh and pink pee almost immediately!
Anti sickness meds very effective and no actual sickness so far but feeling a little dizzy and a touch of indigestion. Having to have an afternoon nap too as fatigued. The weather is horrible but think a walk and fresh air will help.
Ordered a wig as decided cold cap not for me.
Take care everyone and keep in touch xx
Juliana 👭❤️ You are doing amazing, you found something and got it checked out and your team will have seen it all before and know what to do. Just take things one treatment at a time, it is 🤯 when you get diagnosis but lots of ❤️👭and might not seem like it right now but you will have a lot of 🤣😂🤣😂between you when you end up sharing botty block tips (it will happen the steroids will do it) nothing that but of senokot, movicol or prunes won’t take care of) ❤️ Use the threads ❤️ The ask the nurse and the someone like me ❤️ Always ring your rapid response ❤️ You are in control, might not feel like it but you are 💪💪💪 look out for mountain lion story by strawberry blonde it’s inspirational 👍💪💪👍👍👍💪💪💪😘💕💕✨✨Shi xx
I’m 44 years old, mother of a 14 year old daughter, 12 and 7 year old sons. I live in Harpenden, Hertfordshire and I’m having treatment at the Luton & Dunstable hospital.
I’ve found a big lump on my left breast on the 2nd of December and on the 16th December I received biopsy results- grade 2 invasive ductal carcinoma (both oestrogen and progesterone positive and HER-2 negative), and they also detected DCIS on right breast - MRI did not detect the cancer in the lymph nodes, and size just above 3cm. I was in shock, but also determined to have a good time during Christmas! I then had a bilateral mastectomy on the 23rd January and results then were worse than I (and the doctors!!) expected.... not a good time at all (I feel some tears coming as I’m writing about it) - the tumor is actually grade 3, size 5.5 cm, and has spread to one of the two lymph nodes that were removed on the left side. Skin was also involved and few margins very small.... needless to say it has been a whirlwind of emotions but I’m feeling better now that I’m not too sore post operation, and trying to remain positive! I like to believe that I’m a positive person! I have been given a date for the first chemo session - 12th March and will have a pre-chemo appointment on the 6th March. My treatment will be 3 cycles every 3 week of EC, then another 3 cycles of docetaxel every 3 weeks too. This will then be followed by surgery for lymph node clearance and decide what to do about the skin - going flat with later reconstruction or only remove part of the skin and see what tests says. Well, that’s a conversation to have with the surgeon in 6 months...
I’m glad I found this group, and the tips and messages on previous posts have already helped me a lot!
I’ll give a go with the cold cap - I’m dreading it as I’m always cold.... but will try. I used to have wavy long bob hair and decided to curt it much shorter - if hair falls out it will come back to normal sooner, right?! 😉 and I was even told I look younger 😉 I think for me it is all about taking control (when I can...)
I’ve had a wig consultation and will order a short straight bob if my hair falls and right now I’m feeling good and even went to the gym with a member of the Well Being team supported my McMillan - it was great! I guess I’ll do that as much as I can now and will try to exercise everyday 😀 I’m hoping I don’t feel sick and will definitely going to let my nurse know if I do!! The list of questions for the pre-chemo appointment has been very useful - I’ll ask many of those questions too
love to you all, let’s our journey begin....
Sleep on and off... I’m definitely finding the tablets harder but it’s doable. Look forward to your message 😊
Thank you so much for replying. I’ll private message you re meeting up and your support group sounds like a lovely thing I would like to be part of.
Hope you managed to get some sleep in the end! x
Hi Bel007 xx I’m from the February 2019 group, one of my fellow year ago pals spotted you and let me know so thought I’d say hi as I too am in Edinburgh and I did Cardiac Care and needed a clearance. I’m still on chemo albeit tablets as I’m triple negative so chemo first which didn’t get a complete response so this is the only mop up available I can’t have letrozole or anything like that. So your treatment is totally different but you’re not much older than me (I’m 40) and you’re local! I stay in Liberton although I’ll be moving to Danderhall soon. Cardiac Care was easy although I did have to have my pills reduced as I nearly passed out in the shower! 🙄 but the benefits were definitely worth it and I hope to do the aspirin trial once I’m done chemo. The nurses in ward 1 are absolutely lovely. There’s a social group called Shine which is for people in their 20s 30s and 40s who have/had cancer it would be lovely if you wanted to be part of that we are pretty new and always looking for more people! Just meet up for drinks/coffee every few months and the charity buys the first round! Of course we understand that people won’t always feel up to it if having treatment but hoping to get more members.
If you fancy meeting up for a chat I’m happy to try and answer any questions, I cold capped too if you’re thinking about it I got my wig but never needed it and have plenty of hair a year on although it’s all different lengths! Drop me a personal message if you want to catch up in person or let me know on here if there’s anything you want to ask openly. My oncologist is Dr Hayward and I have Miss Yip for surgery.
Lots of love, it’s so daunting at the start so happy to help 😊 I’m up as I don’t sleep well on my tablets my tummy is always complaining! xx
I was diagnosed back on September 17th 2019 (that date will be etched on my mind for ever!). It was ER positive so I was started on letrozole and zoladex as peri-menopausal. Staging tests showed suspicious growth on ovary so I had full hysterectomy and removal of tubes and ovaries in December...wham bang into full menopause! But the silver lining was that I no longer need to be on zoladex as don’t have any ovaries 😊 Turns out the growth was not malignant which meant I could then get on with treatment for breast cancer. I had axillary node clearance on 6th February and went to clinic today for my results.
6 out of the 15 nodes were positive so I’ve to have chemo and radiotherapy. They could never find the primary tumour in my breasts despite multiple MRIs and biopsies so it was only today that I finally found out that it is invasive lobular cancer, grade 2 that I have.
They said chemo would start in about two weeks so I figured I’ll be in this March thread 😊 I’m to have Epirubicin and cyclophosphamide every 2 weeks for 4 cycles, then paclitaxel every 2 weeks for 4 cycles. They are going to give me biphosphonate infusion half way through first group of cycles as they say it not only strengthens bone density which the menapoause has weakened it also reduces risk of recurrence in bones in future. I think they said that will be very 6months for the next few years.
I’ve agreed to join a trial that monitors heart muscle throughout chemo as I figured I’m happy for them to monitor anything if it might help in the long run.
I was given a prescription for a wig so that’s top of my list to go see about and I’ve emailed my local Maggies centre to see if I can attend their next ‘look good, feel better’ session.
Once chemo finished I’ve to have radiotherapy.
I am 46yr old mother of one, live in Edinburgh.
Hi Shi, thanks for your message. The questions are the questions that I will be asking today! I posted them for Tracy who also has her pre-chemo appointment....Just comparing notes 😊 But thanks for your comments 😘
❤️Wildspur ❤️ all questions you need to ask your unit as first point of call ❤️ and the ask the nurse facility on here ❤️ everyone has different chemo treatments, it is tailored to your bc by your onc. Treatment times can vary too it all depends on which chemo you are having and if you are having anything else alongside it depending on which type of bc you are being treated for. Cycles can vary too, some are on weekly cycles and some on 21 day cycles again your onc will advise you. Your on will give you antisickness meds and any tuning else to take too, you might also have to do daily injection to boost white blood cells, but again these depend on your treatment plan from your onc. If your antisickness don’t work, let your unit know they don’t want you struggling through if they don’t work they will tweak if they need to till they do the trick. I’d get another check at dentist if I were you they will get you straight in when you tell them you are starting chemo. Your bloods will take less than 5 minutes to take and you should see your onc before chemo, they will keep eye on everything during chemo. Get thermometer to keep temp with during chemo, anosol cream, senokot tablets your bum will block with steroids 😳 look after your skin during chemo moisturise. Oral hygiene is a must, difflam mouth wash too. You should get a wig voucher from your trust and you can check out your Macmillan at hospital for pre loved wigs or you can coldcap, discuss with your unit also others in here will give you tips in coldcap. Supplements and exercise discuss with your unit ❤️book your look good feel better sessions with your Macmillan units ❤️ if you work in a school again discuss with your unit and follow their advise, germs are a big no no when on chemo ❤️ I painted nails black during chemo to preserve nails, others used a nail treatment you need to protect from uv light. I know others have had ginger nuts for sickness and sucked frozen pineapple for sore mouth, I was lucky no sickness or sore mouth. Did get uti after first one, burning wee but no temp so rapid response were called and in I went to casa nhs for 6 days because it needed immediate antibiotics. You can’t be blasé during chemo you need to be vigilant and keep safe ❤️❤️ just pace yourselves take it one at a time 💪💪💪you’ll all get through together, if anyone has long hair, please think about donating it to little princess trust, they make wigs for children and give them to them free👭❤️big ❤️❤️to March starters 💕💕✨✨Shi xx
Good luck for tomorrow Tracy.
Sorry for the late response. We have just got back from skiing today - with a 24 hour delay in getting back. My son was delighted he got to spend the day at the airport rather than school!
So, these are my questions, not in any particular order...some will not be relevant to you!
• If I am not chosen for the clinical trial will my treatment plan change?
• What drugs will be used for my treatment and when?
• How long is the actual treatment?
• Please explain ‘cycles’!
• What drugs will be prescribed to take before treatment? Steroids / Anti sickness?
• What should I buy to prepare myself for any symptoms?
• Can I take paracetamol?
• Dentist. Had a check up on 5th December - do I need to go again?
• See hygienist every 3 months - should I cancel until after chemo?
• Menopace - confused about soya isoflavones and link to breast cancer. Should I stop taking?
• What supplements can I take/can’t I take? Multi-vitamin?
• How long is appointment on a Monday to take my bloods before my Tuesday chemo?
• PICC and exercise - what can’t/can I do? Weights? Yoga? Pilates?
• School and germs! Should I go in the classroom?
• Cold cap instructions / wig
• When can I lie on my side with the scar?
Hi Shefgirl, so sorry to hear your breast cancer came back. I’m 53 with a 5 year old daughter. Hopefully we can all support one another and keep our spirits up as we start our chemotherapy journey together.
Take care, Tracy
Sorry for not replying sooner. I had a cracked tooth removed under general anaesthetic at my local hospital on Thursday 13th February. I’m a nervous patient so need sedation or general anaesthetic to get any dental work done apart from a check up. I’ll lucky that the dental team pulled out all the stops to get the treatment done as soon as possible so that there’s time for it to heal before my chemotherapy starts on 3rd March.
I was diagnosed on the 17th October 2019 and had to put a smile on my face at my daughter’s 5th birthday party on the 25th October. Christmas was also tough because I knew I had the lumpectomy on the 2nd January and I was terrified of the surgery. I was worried in case I didn’t wake up from the general anaesthetic and even went so far as to buy my daughter a heart bracelet to remember me and also chose the music and readings for my funeral. I smile when I think back on it now but at the time it gave me the reassurance that if the worst happened my husband knew what I wanted. It must have been a really tough Christmas for you being diagnosed just beforehand.
My daughter was conceived naturally and if I’m honest she was a lovely surprise as she wasn’t planned but we were both over the moon when she came along. I got a few looks being a first time mum at 47! I bought the Mummy’s lump book but adapted it and put it into my own words rather than read the actual book to her. I told her that Mummy had a naughty lump that needed to be removed otherwise it would make Mummy really sick and she’d need to be careful just to hug me on my ‘good’ side as the other side would be sore after the doctor operated on it. I told the school early on about my diagnosis and they’ve been really supportive and are keeping an eye on her. I haven’t felt up to announcing my breast cancer diagnosis in the school mums WhatsApp group although I’ve told a couple of the mums whose children are good friends with my daughter. I’ve got my wig consultation appointment on the 7th March and am taking my daughter along so she’s involved in choosing a wig so hopefully it won’t seem as daunting to her. I’ve also bought a night time beanie to wear in bed once I start treatment so that any hair will come off in the cap and hopefully won’t be as upsetting as seeing it on my pillow when I wake up. I’ve decided I’ll probably wear a wig to do the school run as I don’t want her classmates to ask what happened to my hair and why I’m wearing a hat or headscarf. I like the fact you’ve already started wearing something on your head to get other people used to seeing it like that though.
I’ve got my chemo pre assessment the day after yours on 26th February and it would be nice to share any questions. I’ve made a start but have got some more information leaflets from Macmillan and Breast Care Now to read through before my appointment.
My oncologist didn’t mention the menopause so that’s something I’ll be asking about at my assessment meeting. Part of me thinks ‘great’ menopause symptoms as if cancer treatment side effects aren’t bad enough!
I hadn’t thought about getting the flu jab so I’m pleased you mentioned it.
My op site doesn’t seem to be as sore after the 2nd lumpectomy although I did have a PICO dressing after the last operation. I’ve still got 3 paper stitches that need to be soaked off in water though. I’ve got a full range of movement back after the sentinel lymph node biopsy. No blue skin but I did have an allergic reaction to the blue dye so they might have tried to flush it out of my system to ease the symptoms. It’s just over a month now since my operation.
I enjoy bullet journaling (think mix of to do list and traditional diary/journal) and have started a separate cancer journal to capture my thoughts and experiences along the way. I’m finding it quite therapeutic and it’ll be interesting to look back on in years to come. I’ve also set up a private blog on Caringbridge website/app so that I only post once to update all my friends and family as sometimes even now I struggle to remember who I have and haven’t updated. One less thing to worry about once treatment starts in earnest.
I hope you enjoy your half term holiday and look forward to sharing questions with you when you get back.
Take care, Tracy
Wildspur ❤️ Everyone will pop on and try and help you all through ❤️ It’s the beauty of the threads ❤️ And all the March chemo starters will 👭😂🤣😂get each other through ❤️ Please just keep safe during chemo, ring your unit and the rapid response number, don’t think I’ll give it an hour and see how I feel, always ring, being on chemo is not like normal you need to keep safe ❤️ Don’t ever think you are being a pain or nuisance to your unit, they want you through safely and will be pleased you are being vigilant ❤️To you and all March starters 💪💪💕💕✨✨Shi xx
Just saying hello back Shefgirl 🙂
I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow, let us know how you get on please.
Did you just have radiotherapy the first time round? I am so sorry it has returned. Belt and braces chemo for me too as far as I am concerned! I will do anything I think to up the chances of it not returning.
Yes, it is all VERY surreal isn't it. Life changing in a way.
Take care for now. Helen
Saying hello from Derbyshire.
I am starting chemo either the last week of Feb or 1st week of March. Meeting the nurse on Monday who will give me my appointments.
My first time with chemo but sadly second lot of BC as diagnosed in 2017 in one side and Nov 2019 in the other!
Feeling well after a lumpectomy and re-excision before Xmas but it was a nasty 3.5cm tumour Grade 3 so the chemo is a belt and braces approach to stop a return.
All feels a bit surreal to be honest!
Look forward to chatting with you on here as we take the road together. I am 53 with daughters aged 17 and 19.
I hope you are ok today. Yes, a few tears for me too, but generally I am trying to keep busy as to not think about it. Especially when I feel well. I am sure that will all change once the chemo kicks in! When were you diagnosed? I was told on 20th December, so it was a strange Christmas, especially having a young son.
Can I ask if your daughter was conceived naturally? My son was IVF. I think it is difficult being an 'older' mum and having all this to deal with as well. Its draining!
I am glad your lump was found early, mine too, although 17mm. When it was removed it had grown to 22mm! Scary stuff. I am just so glad it hadn't spread. As far as I am concerned I am 'cancer free' and the chemo is just preventative (touch wood/fingers crossed!)
I am not sure what my treatment plan is yet as I have signed up for a clinical trial (I will try and find a link). I do know that it will be every Tuesday at 10am for 12 weeks!, Then every other week for 8 weeks. Then 3 weeks of radiotherapy. If I get accepted on the clinical trial it will be a further 6 months of immunotherapy.
I don't understand 'cycles'. This is one of my questions to ask at my pre-chemo assessment.
I will definitely try the cold cap, and I too have had my hair cut - to a bob at the moment, but will go shorter. Did you get the 'Mummy's Lump' book? I read it to my son, and his only concern was about me losing my hair! I think they are a bit young to fully understand what's going on. I just say to him, mummy has a poorly boob and I will need some very strong medicine to make it better. Glad you are embracing your short hair, I do actually fancy being a bit drastic and doing the same. I have started wearing headbands, and have bought a hat which I wear on the school run, to get people used to seeing me with it on. Have you told the school mums? I will look into the Look Good, Feel Better workshop 🙂
I think because I am having treatment every week, they have advised a PICC or Central Line. I assume with a cannula, you will have it taken out after every treatment and a new one put in before each treatment?
I have been told that having chemo will bring on the menopause. Today I am having my coil removed. Eek. Plus a smear. Plus a flu jab!
My pre-chemo assessment is on 25th Feb and I have started to write some questions down. Let me know if you want to see my list...maybe I show you mine and you show me yours! Haha. That is when I have my PICC fitted too.
We are going skiing next week as it is half term. I am not sure whether I will be able to ski as my arm is still a bit sore. How are you healing. I am getting feeling back slowly but surely. A bit of a burning sensation still. There is a bit of pulling on my scar so I am trying to move it more. But a lot better than it was! Do you still have a blue boob from the sentinel lymph node biopsy?
Anyway. Sorry for rambling, there's plenty more where that came from! I am sure we will be a great support throughout, even though our 'journey' will be different.
Take care for now. Helen.
I’m also due to start FEC-T chemo on 3rd March.
I’m 52, married with a 5 year old daughter. I live in Cockermouth, Cumbria. I’m having treatment at West Cumberland Hospital, Cumbria.
Originally diagnosed with DCIS (Ductal carsinoma in situ - early stage non invasive breast cancer)
2 lumpectomies and a sentinel lymph node biopsy later I’ve been diagnosed with HER2 positive (oestrogen negative) invasive breast cancer. Only 5mm. Caught early and it hasn’t spread.
Treatment will involve 6 cycles FEC-T chemotherapy, Herceptin injections for a year and radiotherapy after the chemotherapy.
I’ve decided against using the cold cap. My personal choice. My oncologist told me it works for 1 in 3 ladies and involves having a freezing cold cap on my head (minus 4-6 degrees) for quite a few hours. I’ve had my hair cut short instead (previously quite a bit below my shoulders) as I thought it would be more upsetting losing my hair if I had long clumps coming out of my head. Ironically everyone tells me it makes me look younger!
My breast care nurse also told me that I’ll get an NHS wig voucher and was able to advise me on NHS stockists they recommend locally. I’m going to wear a scarf or beanie around the house and really want a wig for school runs etc so my daughter doesn’t get asked what happened to mummy’s hair.
I’ve also booked on a Look Good, Feel Better workshop facilitated by Macmillan at my local hospital. It’s a 2 hour workshop for people living with cancer and focuses on practical tips such as how to look after your skin and how to plot and draw back eyebrows if these have been lost. There’s also a gift bag of full size products which are given at the end of the workshop. The chemo nurse recommended it when I was having bloods taken after meeting my oncologist.
I’ve been told that I’m having my chemo administered via a cannula. Maybe this is an option for you?
I’m also peri menopausal but forgot to ask if the chemo would bring on the menopause when I met with the oncologist.
I‘ve been contacted by my local chemo unit and I’ll have a pre chemo assessment meeting about a week before my chemo starts and have been advised to write down any questions as and when I think of them beforehand. Have you got something similar before you start yours?
I was told not to use Dr Google just this website and Macmillan.
I’m feeling mostly positive right now about the journey that lies ahead although also a bit scared. There’s been quite a few tears along the way though. You’re right there’s such a lot of stuff to take in. It’s good to be able to share the journey with others going through the same thing.
Hi wildspur, sorry you find yourself on here. Please discuss ASAP with your onc team all supplements you are on or any turmeric or anything, they need to advise you do there is no interaction with your chemo. Get your teeth seen at docs before starting they will fit you in when you tell them you are starting chemo. Get a thermometer you need to keep track of your temp during chemo. Are you only being given option of pic or port? Has Canular been discussed? It’s what you feel comfortable having do what’s right for you. Again with the cold cap or not that’s your decision, there are plenty of people who get on fine with the cold cap, it’s again up to you. You will be given rapid response card and even if you have no temp and your wee burns it’ll need immediate antibiotics no supping a cranberry juice like normal. Drink lots of water it helps flush things through. Treat chemo with respect, ring your team about anything, they won’t mind they want to get you through safe. Glad you are keeping off dr google. Lots of 👭on here just ask away, use the ask the nurse and the someone like me on here too. Bit more for shopping list, anosol (the steroids) can give you botty block 😳 a soft toothbrush and some difflam. You’ll do fine you are 💪💪💕💕✨✨Shi xx
So. I start chemo on 3rd March.
I am 49, married, with a six year old son. I live in Holmfirth, West Yorkshire and having my treatment at Huddersfield HRI.
Diagnosed with triple negative - stage 1 just before Christmas, so caught early thank god. Lump removed plus 3 lymph nodes on 14th January. Luckily not spread.
I have signed up to a clinical trial and if successful I will start this alongside chemo - every week for 12 weeks...then every other week for 8 weeks, then radiotherapy for 3 weeks. I think! I am so bamboozled with all the information I have been told. I am going to concentrate on the first 12 weeks!
The main things I keep thinking about at the moment...
Having a PICC or a central line - what is the best option for me.
Cold cap - yey or neigh?
Menopause - I am 49 so I am sure I am peri menopausal. But I have a mirena coil so haven’t had a period for years. I have been told to have this taken out (appointment next week). Am dreading it if I start having periods again on top of what I will be going through in the coming months. I take Menopace supplements but am confused whether to take or not as it has isoflavones (linked to breast cancer).
I have tried not to read too much, defo no google! Just this website and Macmillan. So far I have felt really positive about the ‘journey’ I am about to take, but it’s all becoming a bit real now. It will be good to have support from others going through the same thing!
This thread is for anyone due to start chemotherapy in March 2020. I’m sure others will be here soon but please introduce yourself and you can all help one another through this phase of your treatment. If you have any questions please post away on here and others in the community will watch over you whilst you are getting started. Once you are into it you'll be pretty good at helping each other. You can also ask the nurses on this forum if you have any concerns. In the meantime, the top tip is always to stay well hydrated throughout chemo, aiming for 2 litres of water per day.
Here is the BCN guide on chemo:
[mod note: updated URL to the new Breast Cancer Now site with exactly the same content about chemotherapy]
Here’s an excellent article for anyone concerned about hairloss. That’s pretty much everyone starting chemo: https://pinklotus.com/powerup/breastcancer101/chemo-hair-loss-and-menopause-hair-too/
I finished my chemo over a year ago and doing very well again now. Here is my story which has some chemo tips on how I coped which were collectively shared from others who had gone through the same from this forum:http://lifeafterlola.blogspot.com/p/chemotherapy.html
If you decide to set up a private group its good to stay on here also during treatment as I know from experience there are some people who watch but don't immediately pluck up the courage to join in. Your conversations can be a real comfort to others.
Best wishes xx