I finished radiotherapy 2 weeks ago so i have to wait unfortunately.
Make sure your ask about second MX, but make sure you do what's right for you. I'm sure i read some where that anyone who has an MX is entitled to reconstruction and all options should be available. .. i don't see why a second MX wouldn't be included in that but you may have to fight for it.
Ollybobs, i'm sending you a Very VERY large hug. I'm assuming you're had a MX without reconstruction, how long ago??
I'm asking because I was an H cup and as you say "am very aware of my size and shape and that people are looking at me" so i opted for MX with immediate reconstruction. So now i have an H cup and a D cup and feel very lope sided and it's very noticeble.
I wasn't given a prosthesis but i have been told that when everything settles down i can have a reduction to my healthy breast. However, i don't see my surgeon until early 2019.
I suggest you call your MDT and tell them how you feel xx