It's Emily here from Breast Cancer Care.
While you're waiting for responses on here, I wanted to let you know that we have an email volunteer called Gemma who you can email if you'd like. Gemma had a family history of cancer too, she went through genetic testing and had a preventative mastectomy. She supports people over email who are in a similar position to you.
Her profile is here and you can email her at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Emily at Breast Cancer Care