Hi Lady M
It sounds like you're having a pretty tough time at the moment. I’m sure the users of this site will be along to support you soon.
In the meantime it might help to talk things through with a member of our helpline staff who are there to offer emotional support as well as practical information. The free phone number is 0808 800 6000 and the lines are open 9 to 2pm tomorrow and then again on Wednesday 9.00 to 5.00pm
I hope this is helpful.
Best wishes Sam, BCC Facilitator
Hi there cj-1
Firstly, welcome to the forums, I'm sure you'll find lots of helpful information here.
Whilst you are waiting for others to respond, you might find a call to our Helpline useful. They're on 0808 800 6000 and are open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 on Saturday.