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Ali, glad you are feeling better about scans etc, it is better hospital is thorough, just plays on your mind unfortunately, fingers crossed for speedy and good results, hugs to you.

 

Today began beautifully, weather lovely, around 12 sky turned sooooooooooo grey, sunshine gone, rain and coldness reappearedSmiley Frustrated! Yuck!!

Have to make appt with doc, head shaking is worseSmiley Frustrated, not worried about anything serious, just want it to stop, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

 

Hope you are enjoying your "not allowed to do anything" break, JCJ.

Party last day, will not be taking my clothes off though FF, hahaha xx

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Hello Optimissy Smiley Happy thank you all, today I received a letter saying that they'd only managed to biopsy a small sample but it looked normal, so they're going to repeat the scan - the letters simply arrived in the wrong order and I forgot I'd had the ultrasound before the biopsy. So yes, that one didn't bother me really, and I'm going to go back to not worrying!

Pull all those benches into the evening sunshine, it's beautiful here Smiley Happy

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LOL at your suggestions, FF. May well do that! Smiley Very Happy Already sorely tempted to just tell her where to stick her cottage - especially after borrowing the OS map from the library and realising just how built up the area is. Doesn't look like the map for our sort (ok, *my* sort) of holiday at all. Smiley Sad Ah well, I suppose it's because I'm tired after a long, very stressful term. If I cancelled now, we'd not only lose all the money, we'd have nowhere to have our Easter holiday! If it's a **** week (which I'm sure it won't ALL be!) at least I can console myself with the fact that it was HIS IDEA!! Smiley Happy

 

I reiterate what FF said, Ali, once you've had BC they don't take any risks at all if there's the tiniest possibility that the little b***er might have spread, so any symptoms get thoroughly investigated. Try not to worry (that's rich coming from me!) and reassure yourself that if there IS anything they can deal with it quicker. Fingers crossed. Hope you get speedy appointments and results. x

 

Hooray! You're off the jittery bench at long last, KTC. Celebrations in order! Smiley Happy

 

Baby blanket lady has emailed to ask if I've got anything else for sale! Do I have a business opportunity here? Smiley Tongue Perhaps not. I knit for relaxation. Having to knit stuff to order would kind of spoil the point?

 

Right. Must. Start. Packing. 

 

Perhaps I'll just text my brother while I finish this coffee. Smiley Happy

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Hi Ali

I had a transvaginal ultrasound 2 years ago - (nothing to do with breast cancer incidentally.) All was well fortunately. It doesn't hurt any more than a smear test, just takes a little bit longer and you feel rather undignified..........  I was reassured by having it as I had been having pain that i thought was somewhere where I thought my ovaries were, so i had an external ultrasound followed by the transvaginal. For the external one you have to dirnk a litre of water and not pee till it's done. Can't remember if I was allowed a pee before the trans one.......Anyway, it's not too bad. xx

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Try not to worry too much Ali, when I had certain syptoms last year they threw test after test my way. They have to be seen to cover their *****, I mean cover every eventuality.  If they were seriously worried about anything, you would have had a letter before now surely!

 

JCJ - Last night there have a party Smiley Happy  I'd suggest getting a nudist colony to have a barbeque in the garden, so all the neighbours can see, get a really loud rock band to play the music, invite all the animals from a local rescue centre and then just trash the place!  Cost her more than £150 to put it right. Smiley Very Happy  Hope you have a good holiday and behave yourselves, don't forget to take your shoes off!  Hot water? How will she know?  Hope OH is good to go.

 

Soooooo glad you are off that "jittery bench Katy,  woo hoo indeed.  It's been a while. And Yay for ED passing her final assessment Smiley Happy

 

My boiler got new batteries today,  I was cold so I thought "I am not going to be beaten by a battery cover", so I tried pushing it, sliding it, pulling it, everything apart from pounding it to a pulp and eventually it came off.  Two AA batteries which I had, so put them in and then couldn't get the b****y cover back on again! ( Needs the cover on to connect the terminals.)  Push, pull, slide, pound?  Eventually got it worked out and back on and heating is behaving beautifully.

 

 

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Hello Benchies!! Well, just as I'd decided that no news is good news re the womb lining biopsy results, I got a letter today with an appointment for a transvaginal ultrasound. So, no test results, but more tests. Has anyone had one of these? Bit worried now Smiley Sad
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Good news FFSmiley Happy!

Hope OH and hip are better today, JCJ.

Good grief, what a load of nonsense, will you be allowed to do ANYTHING at cottage???

Not like you will be having parties every night.....................or will you?? hee hee.

Nothing worse than having someone who is so pernickety, why does she let?? Rules this and rules that, really???

 

Am at last off the "jittery" bench, cried with sheer relief today, such a wonderful happiness, woo hooSmiley Happy!

 

ED's boiler needs new control panel but everything is working ok just now, she has also passed her final assessmentSmiley Happy.

Hope your boiler gets new battery soon xx

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Glad your chest is under control, FF, (no, not referring to the state of your under garment!! Smiley Tongue)

 

Enjoy the rest from small people, KTC. I'm very much looking forward to doing the same! Smiley Happy

 

Rather stressful day today. OH, who usually stays in bed until after I've left for work, was up and about very early, in agony with his hip. I was torn between needing to get to work early because I have an 8am maths booster group (of course we don't "teach to the tests"!!) and staying home to make sure he was OK. In the end, I shoved some breakfast and some painkillers at him and left for school. Arrived 10 mins late but no children turned up. Grrrr! 'phoned home and OH said he could manage. Rang again at lunchtime, in case he was still stuck upstairs and needed me to get him some lunch - probably shouldn't shovel heavy duty painkillers down without food! - he was managing to get around and in much less pain so I stayed at school. Came home as promptly as possible at the end of the day and he's OK. Hope it's better before Sunday, when we go away because a 2 - 3 hour car journey, even if I drive, won't be much fun for him otherwise!

 

Phone call from cottage owner tonight. Slightly regretting booking that particular place. She is such a fuss pot! I've already had an email full of dos and don'ts but she just had to tell me that they'd spent 4 days decorating and that the kitchen units were therefore fragile and could we be extra careful with them. We can only put the hot water on when we need it; it takes half an hour to heat up! and we must take off our shoes so as not to damage the painted floors. When I said my brother was visiting with his little dog she said "oh no. I cannot allow that. No animals are allowed in the property whatsoever. My daughter is allergic". Not quite sure why she rents it out, if she's so ****** precious about the place! In the very next sentence, she casually dropped in the fact that she gets on with the neighbours, effectively warning me that any infringements to the rules would be reported back to her!! Geeez! So much for a relaxing holiday??! It's already the most expensive cottage we have ever stayed in, by quite some way, with a £150 damage deposit on top of that. Probably won't get that back if the stupid kitchen cabinets get chipped! Smiley Mad

 

Ah well, everyone keeps telling me what a lovely part of the country it is so I'm sure we'll make the best of it.

 

Set off from Vazon, Guernsey, for my virtual swim anticlockwise around the island. Expect to be back in Vazon before Christmas. I told OH that I'll have a gander at the place as i swim around and see if it's worth going there on holiday! Smiley Very Happy

 

One more get up. 

 

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I saw the Nurse, she was happy with me, my responses to the questions were much better than last time and my sats were improved, so I'm doing alright.  She'll see me again to do more spirometry tests next Feb, to see if I'm better/worse/just the same. Or I can make an appt. sooner if I'm having problems.

 

Been out three times today, 1st wore coat, 2nd, coat over arm, 3rd, left coat at home.  A lovely day.

 

My boiler not working properly too, I know what it is, the controller needs a new battery but I cannot get the battery compartment cover off.  Aaargh!  So I'm going upstairs to turn it on and then upstairs again to turn it off. Hey ho, people have worse problems.  Just need my Son or SIL to get the cover off.

 

 

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Hope your appt went well FF, fingers crossed.

 

Glad you are getting things done at schoolSmiley Happy!!

Brilliant your blanket has gone woo hooSmiley Happy!

 

Had the prep for my crown, all went well, not sore at all, just waiting for freeze to wear off, have a squint mouth haha, rinsed my mouth out at dentists and this is a first, water squirted all over the place, hee hee.

No GC till next week, might stay up late tonight, well past 9pm anyway.............

Had to take them along to ED's house as boiler not working properly, no one came, hopefully they are out now.

Has been warm today, but there is a wind and that's cold, still had my cosy coat on xx

 

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Pleased that someome snapped up that lovely blanket JCJ.  My daughter's friend went and had another boy so it was no good for her!

 

Finally got the pre-school floor done.  Tables and chairs cleaned  and ready for next term.  Teachers (and their children!) have obviously been in. One classroom I'd already hoovered has had to be done again.  And possibly again?  It all takes time!

 

Weather great, took coat to school but didn't need to wear it. Lovely sunny day.  Makes me think that maybe spring has sprung Smiley Happy

 

Son's big breakfast showed a really good profit, I'm glad it was a such a success for them.

 

Appt. with Nurse tomorrow. Will be asking her why, after a great month, have the last two days been a bit off?

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Been busy, busy with GC and been off to bed early each nightSmiley Happy so I can manage the next day!

 

Forgot to say YD started her new job she's enjoying it, this is her second week.

No word from ED's uni, she was beginning to panic until she contacted others and all the ones in the early groups (Feb) have not heard a thing so she is a little calmer. Could now be May before they find outSmiley Frustrated

Weather been fairly good, we have had sunshine woo hoo, ED's OH was saying it's 27 degrees at the moment in our hol spot, can't believe it? Oh to be warm...........xx

 

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Yey!  Pink, patchwork, baby blanket didn't sell on Mr Futon's site so I listed it (without much hope, if I'm honest) on Etsy, at YD's suggestion. Nobody had even looked at it after several days, so I put the blanket away in a drawer and decided to try and sell it at the school Christmas Fair, with my other stuff. Surprise, surprise! Today I get an email to say someone has bought it!!  £5 donated to Macmillan in memory of my sisters.

 

It's parcelled up and waiting to go. Success! Smiley Happy

 

Two more get ups. Nearly there......

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Portable bench what a brilliant idea haha especially when you can also have a muggatea hee hee x
As they say tomorrow is another day FF.....
How are the birdies JCJ?
Went into town with GD, never buy easter eggs so we went into a girly shop to look at earrings etc, we were in sooooo long shop assist kept asking if we were ok and could she help, the indecision of kiddiewinks!
We finally left with earrings woo hoo x x
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Thanks a lot for the PM JCJ. I will be ordering one . Although a portable CBA bench is not really what I need.  I've spent the whole day sitting on the real one today.  I did get up with the intention of going to school but a good book and several muggateas got in the way.  Pre school floor will be done tomorrow!

 

I knew that staff would be in today and I like the school to myself when I'm cleaning it, so that was part of my reluctance to go.  Not sure, but hopefully no-one will be there tomorrow.

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Just sent you a PM, FF, about the portable CBA bench! Smiley Tongue

 

Glad the big breakfast went well. 

 

Enjoy your floor polishing, and the lack of little people to mess it up again!!

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Wow JCJ, so pleased to see your last post, I have been wondering about one of those kneeler/seat things for a while so if it's good enough for you, then it's good enough for me.  Hope Bob and Babs have more luck this year. Enjoy your trip to Dorset and the family catch up with your brother.  

 

Big Breakfast seems to have been a resounding success.  Never been done in the village before and the organisers didn't know what to expect, 10 people? 20 people? 30 people?  When we arrived there were no tables free so we had to wait.  We finally got a table and we waited a while and the children played outside in the park . Breakfast arrived and was absolutely delicious. Son cooked it, it was always going to be delicious.  And hot!  There was black pudding on the the menu as an optional extra, I've brought him up well!

 

Son estimated they had served about 75 to 85 people, they will have made quite a lot of money for their cause. Expenses to be deducted  but I'll bet they made a good amount. There's also a possibility of a Father's Day Big Breakfast to make more money for the cause.

 

Tomorrow, I will be cleaning the pre school floor.  It will be clean enough to eat your dinner off it when I'm finished.

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Did the weeding - or some of it! Used my Christmas present for the first time: One of those seat/kneeler things with handles for hauling oneself up. Brilliant! And I've discovered its best use: sitting drinking tea! I now have my very own portable CBA bench. Lol.

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Yippee! We three meet again! Smiley Happy Hubble Bubble toil & trouble Smiley Tongue or will it be 4? Hopefully!

Exciting news re Bobville! They are nest building again in the camera box. So happy. Thought we wouldn't see them this year. Let's just hope it's more successful this time.

 

We are off to Christchurch, Dorset, next Sunday for a week. OH saw a swanky uber expensive hotel there, recommended in his newspaper. I have persuaded him that a cottage would be more comfortable/relaxing (not to mention less than 1/3 of the price - not including meals!!)

 

Brother lives in Bournemouth, so he and his wife are going to visit us at the cottage on the Thursday evening. He's all that's left of my family - apart from nephews, neicrs, great ns & ns - and we very rarely see each other so (just at family funerals! Smiley Sad) so it will be nice to catch up.

 

Sherry cake in oven ready for next week. It's a traditional Easter holiday requisite in this household (and now YD's!). I'll put some in the shed when it's ready.

 

Lovely day today and I should be in the garden doing some much needed weeding, but Bob TV has me captivated!

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Am booked in woo hooSmiley Happy!!

Doing same as last year and staying Mon too, so shall be refreshed for our non stop talking and tea slurpingSmiley Happy!

Hope you enjoyed your huge breakfast and lots of money raised for kiddiewinkles playground, FF.

JCJ, are you going somewhere? a short break, just now? 

Poor birdiesSmiley Sad.

ED gave me various lipsticks that I had admired so have been trying a different colour every day, am kinda plummy today and was deep red yesterday hee hee, what will I be tomorrow??

Guernsey sounds good, never been there before.................

Have a secret, have never tasted cullen skink, what am I like??? hahaha xx

 

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Ok , forget the recipe, you know I can't cook! Tins available in a better supermarket?  I took a guess and googled.  I could travel to that supermarket, I know where one is.   A fair few miles away but there will be other different things to try as well.  Or there's internet shopping, never done that before but there's always a first time Smiley Happy

 

Yes, you're right JCJ, my next term is 6 and 7, and break up on the  21st like you. I hope your robins found their chicks!

 

Off for a late breakfast (brunch?) tomorow. Son has organised (and is cooking) a "Big Breakfast"  in his village to raise funds for the children's play area which needs updating.  So I'll be fed and money will be raised . A win win situation. As my Son is cooking I know it will be good!

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Cullen skink is delicious, FF, you can buy it in tins in the better supermarkets - although home made will be even nicer I'm sure. 

 

I'll have some cranachan too - sounds yummy- like very posh flapjack?

 

I expect our half terms will be the same as it's always around the bank holiday (and THE wedding this year) and we break up for the summer on 21st July. We have a 5 week (but 2 of those only 4 days due to training day and Spring Bank Holiday) and 7 week half terms left. I suppose yours will be a 6 and a 7?

 

Can't wait for the Easter holidays. I hope we have some decent weather.

 

So upset today: OH has been removing a large bush from the garden that has become too big (bush, not garden). It's been here since long before we arrived 33 years ago! As he was cutting it back, he realised, too late to do anything about it, that there was a robin's nest in it - with chicks in! :'(. He carefully put it in the adjacent hedge but we fear the worst. With the failure of Bobville last year, and the distinct absence of Bob (or Babs) since about November, and no sign of any activity in the box, it seems we're destined to baby bird failure. (If that even makes sense?! So tired!)

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Woo hoo JCJ, you did itSmiley Happy, well done!!

It's not my poem FF......................cannot take the credit.............

Can't remember, is it toasted or roasted oatmeal??? You may enjoy it then?

 

Such a busy, busy day, have been all over the place, so feet up for the rest of the weekend, fingers crossed.

Did fit in haircut, woo hoo, hairdresser said my hair is def a lot thicker, soooooooooooooo no ta"poxy"fen has made a difference, being honest I didn't really notice, she said there is a huge change in texture, thickness  etc. Checking out "that" mirror today, wasn't too bad, think I was sooooooooo tired by that time my vision was blurred haha!!

Next week is scary GC every day apart from Fri, dentist for crown fitting and appt on Fri, meant to go out for tea but have had to cancel, can't really munch after dentist.............xx

Muggatea calling.............

 

 

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Can I have cranachan without the oatmeal? Smiley Happy  More seriously I might have to google a recipe for cullen skink.  Sounds delicious.  MISSED HER!!  Just got the camera up and she disappeared!  Blast, my chance of fame gone Smiley Sad

 

Your next challenge JCJ?  Well, you're already in Scotland , so you could stay there but Guernsey might be warmer.  Your choice.  Yes, we're again a week earlier than you but we're also back a week earlier.  Day after Easter Monday and I suspect my Summer term will be longer than yours.Smiley Sad

 

Didn't realise you were a poet Katy, giving Burns a run for his money?  Perhaps, in time, there will be a Katy Night (with an address to the Teapot!)

 

Sorted out pre-school tonight, got it ready for a good clean on Monday.  HT will be there on Monday with her children in tow.  Respectfully asked that they stay out of pre-school room.  No, actually I TOLD her..... DO NOT let them into pre-school!  Then she gave me an Easter Egg, for all my hard work.  A 99p Easter Egg!  It's the thought that counts. I am not saying another word.

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You're a week ahead of us again, FF. We don't break up for Easter until NEXT Friday! Smiley Sad

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We're here!

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Thanks for the wonderful welcome. What a party!

 

https://youtu.be/YRi4rMjTgeQ

 

 

 

What shall I do for my next challenge? Loch Lomond: 24 miles, Loch Fyne: 25 miles or the coast of Guernsey: 30 miles? 

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Whew, am sooooooooo hot have been dancing non stop and skirling the bagpipes for hours now, need a "wee" break.............may just jump in the Loch.

lum, Scottish chimney.

Cullen Skink, smoked haddock, tattie and onion soup.

Cranachan, oatmeal, whisky, honey, raspberries and lashings and lashings of cream.

 

Nessie JK Annand

Nessie the Loch Ness Monster

Wey seem to be gey blate

And doesna like the scientist cheils

That come, and sit, and wait

 

But gif ye want to see her

Pretend ye dinna care

Keek oot the corner o your ee

Ye'll see her soomin there

 

She'll wiggle-humphie-waggle

She'll goggle wi her een,

Syne disappear ablow the loch

Like she had never been

 

Can you see JCJ, yet???

FF, your spinning is spectacular as always, back to dancing again, hooch xx

 

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I'm all set as well just waiting for Nessie and JCJ.  With a camera..... I want the first real photo of Nessie!  I shall be famous Smiley Happy

Got my bagpipes ready, I have been practising but I'm really not that good and my electric piano/keyboard doesn't do bagpipes!  I'm wearing my kilt (and underwear!) as I might end up twirling on my head after a few drams in celebration of JCJ's achievement.  Wherever  next?

 

Katy, I do know about neeps and tatties but please translate for us sassenachs - cullen skink? Cranachan? Strangely enough, I've been doing a crossword book lately that has had clues like "Scottish word for.....?." Fortunately they've been easy ones like "child" but "chimney" had me stumped.  I nearly came on here and asked you but the other clues filled it in. (And now I've forgotten it!)

 

Last day of term tomorrow, yay, today the last day of the boring routine cleaning.  Tomorrow I can get the school ready for next weeks thorough clean and then I can have a week off. YAY!

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New shoes woo hooSmiley Happy!!

Forgot to say, binned the "squeaky" ones, driving me crazy...........

Understood the D***** one but was completely clueless regarding CT?? Now I know hahaha!

 

Think you have done really well JCJ, be proud of yourself, we are all proud of youSmiley Wink, you go girl.

 

Oh gosh just realised is this the big night??? Kilt on, bagpipes at the ready, cullen skink, haggis neep and tatties,  cranachan all on the banks, couple of hours to go, will we glimpse Nessie?? xx

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The new trousers now call for new shoes. Oh heck,  hadn't thought about  that, maybe not such a bargain after all ......but new shoes?  Just call me Imelda.....

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Oh dear, do I let you go on thinking you are right or do I 'fess up and say I actually meant D*m**t?  I did say not my usual type of catalogue and I love C****n T*****s......  I think I tried too hard to be cryptic Smiley Embarassed  Sorry!

 

Pleased that your lesson went reasonably well and that the class was recognised as being full of "ants". I was going to put something rather politically incorrect about canes and the return of but perhaps I'd better not!

 

School tonight having a maths course for parents so that they can help their children with their homework.  All well and good and a brilliant idea BUT it means teachers stay at school while I am there. Which means I can't turn on the i-pod, stick in the earphones and sing my head off whilst cleaning. Nor could I last night, two very quiet nights.  I need teachers to GO HOME! Smiley Happy

 

 

 

 

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*otto* *rad***. There are the missing letters. Merge the two. Or think: sellers of a natural fabric. Smiley Happy They sell clothes predominantly, but not exclusively, made of that fabric, for men and women and some unisex. Lots of casual/outdoorsy stuff.

 

Ants were less antlike than usual. But I was told I should have been firmer with them. Observer should see what they are normally like! They were SO much better than usual. It was acknowledged that I had a big class of needy children ON MY OWN and that that is not ideal! She liked the lesson and how I'd organised it.

 

Not as good as I wanted it to be but much better than last time!  Smiley Indifferent Smiley Happy

 

So tired now. Splitting headache.

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Hope all went well with the little antsSmiley Happy, seriously, fingers crossed.

Well, have no idea which shop that is???? Help, put me out of my misery, please!!

Well done FF, bargains indeed, woohoo!!

 

It's pouring here, yuckSmiley Frustrated! xx

Came on here to write something but have obviously been distracted (trying to figure out shop)...................where are those marbles??xx

 

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Would that be C****n T***ers by any chance, FF? One of my favourite clothing providers. Smiley Happy

 

I'm threatening to start a new clothing shop - selling only unisex clothes, but not just hiking/sports wear. I'm amazed there isn't​ already something out there. YD's experience trying to get a suit has brought it home to me how hard it is to buy non-girlie evening outfits!

 

Message from D-I-L (nearly): she loves the wedding guest book & pen, personalised with their names and 28th May, 2017 on, that I bought for them (and gave to YD while she was here).

 

I've got a lesson observation tomorrow. Smiley Sad As HLTA. The last one was the one that went hideously wrong, so I'm dreading it. This should be better. Different class. Y1 this time, not Y5/6. I'm well prepared, I think, and it doesn't rely on technology, so that bit can't go wrong! If I get put on a 6 week improvement notice again I shall tell them where to stick the job! (All the teachers are assuring me that this won't happen: all their obvs have been very positive - new leadership trying to bolster us up after our OFSTED drumming!) Think of me from 1pm til 2pm tomorrow, trying to impress whilst teaching a (I quote a supply teacher who recently taught them) "box of ants"!! Smiley Sad

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About six weeks ago in my daughter's car, I caught sight of  a very crumpled clothing catalogue in the floor well.  To pass  the time while I waited for her I picked it up and had a look.  Not my usual type of clothing catalogue (think thermal vests!)  I saw a pair of trousers I rather liked at 50% off.  Took the catalogue home with me.  Did no more about it.  Lost it.  Last week same catalogue turns up as an insert in my usual TV magazine, same trousers still 50% off.  I went mad and ordered two pairs in different colours.  They arrived today.

 

They both fit although one pair is tighter than the other (same size ordered) and of course the tighter one is the colour that I prefer.  They also sent a catalogue and those trousers are are now back to the 100% price so I have had a result!  Two for the price of one Smiley Happy

 

Parents evening at school tonight, makes my job so difficult, did all the communal areas had to wait to get into the classrooms.  Teachers (like Doctors!) always overrun their time.  In the end half an hour overtime done.  That's not a problem,  on another night I'll be able to leave early!

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Ooops sooooooo glad your back is better FF xx

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Managed to eat your helping too, FF so no wasteSmiley Happy!

Meal was delicious, yum yum, only skipped the mint sauce..........

Sounds fabulous FF, nice to be spoilt.

Day was quiet woo hoo, all started again today, appt early, lasted around an hour, quick trip to supermarket, plumber then arrived, it wasn't the WASHING MACHINE, it appears to be water leaking from sink not being properly sealed, came back a few hours later so now all sealed, fingers crossed that works.

GS tomorrow, later would like to have haircut last one with old hairdresser, then the hunt goes on for a new one, ED goes to a horrifically expensive place and YD takes a trip to our capital city, so not sure where I will be going??? One with a superly good mirror would be fabulousSmiley Happy!

Schools come off on Fri, children are off for 2 1/2 weeks WHAT???

You should both come up here, think of all the holidays...............xx

 

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Hooray for backs and feet that are "fixed"!! Smiley Happy Smiley Happy 

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Whew, what a day!  I have been thoroughly spoilt and have enjoyed myself enormously! Flowers,chocolate, vouchers for a spa and a lovely meal out with all my family.  What more could I want? 

 

And an invite out to another lovely meal at JCJ's.  Sounds delicious but I really can't eat another bite, probably won't need another meal until Thursday! Smiley Happy Don't worry about the trifle it will taste just as good.

 

Glad that your daughter has found her suit. Another tick in the box on the to do list.

 

So glad that your feet are so much better, Katy and that you enjoyed your meal and catch up.

 

My back.... bent down yesterday to pick book up off the floor and something went "crunch, pop, ping" and after the initial "aaargh" it's great.  No more problem.  No more codeine.

 

 

 

 

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Sunday dinner tonight, home cooked by YD & I, for anyone who wants to join us:

 

Roast lamb

Roast potatoes

Roast parsnips

Carrots

Kale in olive oil & garlic

Cauliflower

Cabbage

Yorkshire pudding

Mint sauce

 

Sherry trifle - the custard layer is a bit weird because I prepped everything and set the oven timer so we could go out for a walk to make the most of the lovely sunshine: forgot to pour the custard over trifle so had to spoon it over after it set! Smiley Sad Hide it under the cream. It'll be fine. Smiley Happy

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That's brilliant news JCJSmiley Happy, the weeks are passing so quickly, so another thing off the list woo hoo!

Lovely you had time together too.

Enjoy your surprise? lunch out FF, hope your back behaves, fingers crossed.

 

Am quiet today, presents received early woo hoo, have been so busy over the last couple of weeks feel tired, not going to feel guilty at all haha.

Lunch out was really good, couldn't manage a dessert, nice catching up!

Away to laze around now, house tidy, washing about to be tumble dried, feet up in the next 10 mins, feet are doing soooooo well, it's taken a few months but lido must be helping again, hurrah xx

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PS forgott to say: hope your back is better soon, FF. Take Guiness and prunes with the codeine Smiley Happy

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Mission successful! Smiley Happy Suit found. Bride will not be appearing in her pyjamas! Smiley Happy It didn't look hopeful, but then all of a sudden we found FOUR suits that would do. I made her try on a pale grey suit that she looked stunning in, but she wasn't convinced, having set her heart on a black one. Pale blue suit also tried but the fabric, although it felt nice, looked like that awful Crimplene from the '70s. In the end, she found and tried on a black, slightly textured jacket that has matching trousers - although not in her size in store. The cut is exactly the same as the pale grey trousers (we compared available sizes in both styles) so before we had even left the store, (J... L....) she had ordered the whole suit online and by the time we'd driven home, she had had an email to say it had been despatched!  We then spent the next 2 hours on our tablet/smart phone shopping for a royal blue blouse/shirt. Three different ones ordered. All in all a very successful day's shopping but with nothing to show for it....Yet!

 

Also had a message from my brother. He lives in Bournemouth, near where we are staying during the school Easter hols. He and his wife are going to meet us at the cottage one evening. Smiley Happy

 

Mother's Day card from ES and a text conversation with him for first time in aaaages. A good day. 

 

Clocks on. Time for bed. We'll be eating dinner with the curtains open tomorrow! Smiley Happy

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I want photographs of the crazy hair JCJ Smiley Happy.  My school did a cream tea and a sing song and about forty turned up.   Good for a small village.  I expected a "crumby" mess but it was surprisingly clean and tidy.  Phew.  AND it's Friday!

 

So, awaiting a parcel, e-mail on 21st says delivery within seven days. Do I stay in tomorrow or go out?

 

Looking forward to Sunday, daughter has let slip that a meal out with all the family is on the cards. It's booked for 2pm and she didn't want me to cook and eat at 1pm, so told me but as far as son is concerned I know nothing!

 

I'll bring some of the alliburgers that I froze from my wrangling session for the wedding, then I can do some more wrangling later, when my back is better. Back has gone, resting and exercising in equal amounts....codeine is my friend (until it makes me constipated!).  Seriously, I've been here before and it will get better but it's a b****r for a few days.

 

 

 

  

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Oh no! Not that pesky washing machine - the most expensively maintained on the planet?? Smiley Sad

Put my hair up in 4 bunches and tied knots in the top two bunches. Y6 child asked me if I had crazy hair!! "No, H****, I always wear it like this!" I may as well not have bothered, if my hair is normally so untidy he had to ask? ! Smiley Indifferent
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Hahaha JCJ laughed about crazy hair day, I wouldn't have to do anything, could just go as I am hee hee!!!

 

Have just discovered water is coming up through the floorboards, grrrrrrrrrrrrrr, not loads but enough to damage the laminate, plumber coming soon, think it maybe the washing machine as there is nothing wet under sink, not another washing machine saga, pleaseSmiley Frustrated!

Am about to move from the "everything is ****" bench to the "skirling bagpipes" bench in preparation for your arrival.................

I can play whilst FF is wrangling, alligators maybe caught faster xx

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96% of the way down the loch. Only 57 lengths left to swim, so I shall be arriving in Fort Augustus at about 8:40pm next Thursday. Put it in your diaries. I am expecting the full reception committee and arrival celebrations. Get those alligators wrangled, FF, we shall want some alliburgers. There will be fireworks. And haggis. And cake!

 

*I*was the monster in the loch tonight - so many wimin in my ****** way!! Swimming in pairs, talking. One was even WALKING - ok, it's good exercise, but in the MIDDLE of the pool??? I went in the fast lane and nearly killed myself trying to swim fast enough not to be the one in the way! Gave up and returned to the main part of the pool and growled my way up and down! Smiley Mad

 

Sorry you've had a sh***y day, KTC. Hope tomorrow is better. Enjoy your cheap Italian feast! Smiley Happy

 

Crazy hair day at school tomorrow, for Comic Relief. I'm going to brave putting my hair up in several jaunty pigtails. Just hope i don't break down on the way to work! The kids will be as high as kites! Smiley Indifferent

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Fingers crossed it's much sooner walkabout, phone your bcn and tell her about your house move so at least THAT letter will arrive at the right house. Enjoy your Mum's day, you will be busy over the coming weeks something at least to keep your mind off results. Wishing you good news, asap.

 

Spent most of the day on the phone with no real results, grrrrrrrrrrr, please may tomorrow be a better daySmiley Frustrated.

Am doing lunch at that cheap Italians so something to look forward to, woo hoo 3 courses yum yumSmiley Happy xx

 

 

 

 

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Thanks for your good wishes ....it's been done but now begins the wait . Could be 2 to 3 weeks . Radigrapher was not one for giving anything away . I mentioned I was moving house in about 2 weeks and results before I moved would be great . .. but it fell on slightly deaf ears . She said ring and tell us your new address Smiley Happy at that point I gave up ! So I will immerse myself in de cluttering and hope it provides distraction therapy . Slightly thoughtful after my recent gynaecology issues..Was I was right to switch to anastrazole from tamoxifen a year ago ..... anyway on a much happier note my mum's 80th birthday to look forward to this weekend.
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You had me panicking for a moment there, KTC! I was sure it was Wednesday, but then I started to think it might not be and i should have left the house an hour ago!! Doesn't take much to confuse me! Smiley Happy