Hi everyone! I'm home descending tired! Trying to catch up!
Welcome Suze and Wendy! You have joined a great bunch here! Hope it is helpful to chat!
Janette, Fantastic Stable Mable!! Toot toot!!
Corey, That is amazing!! Long may it last!!
I'm not o. Denosumab but I think I might end up on it once I've had scan results. I was told yesterday that my leg pain is because of a slipped disc in the area where one of the Mets is and there's no calcium in my blood. The cancer wouldn't have been found without the slipped disc.
Oh Corey, that is such wonderful news! Wow! I am so pleased for you! It really cheers me up to read good news.
Hugs and best wishes (you can relax for 6 months now). Barton.x
Hi Corey. That's great news, I'm so pleased for you. Enjoy the summer (tho I know you work hard). How's the young donkey? B xx
good morning ladies,well yesterday i had to get my results of my pet/ct scan.sat in the waiting area like a shivering jelly ,wondering what oncologist was going to say.after half an hour delay i was called in and im still in shock but very pleased to say that im completely clear of cancer.the area in my sacrum didnt even highlight this time and im clear every where else. he gave me a copy of the report and im glad about that as i sat there in complete shock (think i had my mouth open all the time)and came out still gob smacked.he dosent want to see me for 6 months then i will have a scan just to check up on things.so im over the moon.its happy days here still cant believe it.carolyn do you think the snail wanted to be painted, i think that snail has big plans to go to glastonbury lol.take care love coreyxx
Colour-coordinated snails! Is that the latest fashion now - snail catwalk, here we come! Great, Carolyn! Congratulate hubby for me - a great invention.
Thank you Carolyn. I needed a laugh. Feeling v emotional today, receiving lots of hugs and kisses from.colleagues. didn't sleep well, then we got the call. Ofsted are in tomorrow and possibly Thursday. Just what I needed more stress. Have had bath and lying with leg up. Fingers crossed we'll pass tomorrow and we can celebrate Thursday.
Keep the funnies coming. I'll share some of our lovely children's funny quotes one day. X
Yes, I should have thought of just saying "hip problems" will try that now! Like the comment about the vodkas though but no idea where that answer would lead!
I take letrozole (no probs so far touch wood), denosumab, and calcium/vit D (also had radiotherapy and just before that mastectomy (for 2nd primary which is not responsible for the mets!) but denied reconstruction!!!!!). I am a bit further east than you, but I suspect our name is the same - something about being born in the 50's. Agree full time work is the key but with fractured pelvis I thought it a step too far!!!
I cried this morning, v.v. unusual for me: I was watching the short video of the 12 year-old would-be funeral director on the BBC front page on my PC. Not sad tears but you know when something touches a heart string. I was thinking how it would be for my kids to talk with someone so young about practicalities. I know I am unusual in not thinking these things are morbid.
Hi B. I did look at side effects yesterday because I had indigestion. They're similar to extremesine which I had after Tamoxifen. I struggled with Tamoxifen as very nauseous but wasn't too bad on extremesine. The aches and pains are horrible and I have to keep reminding myself that they're probably just that aches and pains. I have scoliosis as well so some of it is posture. I have to keep straightening myself. Good to hear from you. S x
Hi Wendy. It's scary but there's a lot of support. I alternative between positive and weepy moments. I'm back in school tomorrow and generally hit the ground running as soon as I arrive so being busy should help. I'm not going to be a martyr though. Ill stay off if I'm ill. I had my reconstruction eight years ago and glad I did as it helps me feel shapely. I have friends who decided against it and I understand why. Cancer has no respect and it is what it is. We just have to find why's to outwit it.
Pippin, we have so many similarities. Yes state pension at 66 and I will be claiming it. We're going to Carfest. As I'm 60 this year (and I mistakenly thought 10 years clear) I've been doing 60 things I've never done before. The festival is one of them. What meds are you on? I'm finding waiting for more test results is bad especially as I'm very impatient.
Carolyn, I love your SOH. That's just the kind of thing I'd say.
Hi Suz, I'm sorry you've had to join us here but you sound very positive and going to a music festival sounds great, You said you hadn't read about the side effects of letrozole but if you start getting new aches and pains it might account for some of them. I don't take it but I take exemestane which has similar though perhaps not as severe side effects. The aches and pains spook me from time to time but often turn out not to be C
Hugs B xx
Wondered if anyone had any ideas on what I should saw in the following scenario (hich is very common for me);
I limp arround using one of my crutches (I find I get on better with this than a stick) and when someone offers help eg carrying heavy shopping I accept. Gobby by nature we usually chat and invariably they ask what have you done. Also honest by nature I say my breast cancer has spread to my hip, I know this makes people feel a bit bad because they apologise, I say it is "OK" and I say "I don't know what to say when people ask me". I am getting a bit fed up of this scenario - any ideas.
Hi Suze, I too had surprise bone recurrence on a scan (three years after first primary), working when got diagnosis too. Hoping to get back to work. Got 3 kids, live in the North and am 59! Isn't our state retirement age 66 now? Not doing any special things except eating chocolate again which I had entirely given up before and also I have no qualms about having a drink on my own even mid morning if I want, something I would neer have done before. I have thought about the music festival though (never been to one before) but when I took my daughter a couple of years ago I was tempted (but didn't tell her). Are you going to Leeds?
Thank you for your welcome and to Ramade. I've been out and about today but still find the devil on my shoulder telling me every little ache and pain is something sinister. I know I have to keep busy until I'm given more info. I teach primary which is tiring and stressful. Hoping to complete one more year before retiring. I have so many plans and this wasn't one of them. You're right, I feel cheated. I've worked since I was 16, even when I had my three children and studied to teach. I'm going to do my extreme best to get that state pension! If there's a mountain in the way, I'll either walk round or climb. On a more positive note, I'm going to my first ever music festival in July, so I've booked a mobility scooter to make sure I can get round. I'm busy thinking of ways to pimp it up now. I will keep on this forum because it's given me hope and made me smile. I want to join the stable Mabels too.
suze, you came to just the right place. welcome. ask all the questions you like here. great you've got a lovely consultant. i had letrozole for 5 years for chest mets, which oddly spread to neck. recently diagnosed with spine mets top and miiddle(pain in shoulder) now on exestamane, demosumab and to start everolimus in 3days. i find everyone has an awful few weeks when you learn of a new spread but then settle down. As for letrozole, i was fine for 6 months, then fatigue kicked in which i changed my life slightly to accommodate. when i was taken off it because it stopped working i had my energy back in 4 days. hope this helps.
Hi. I'm replying to this thread because I can't find a way to join in. Hope that's ok.
I found my breast lump on my fiftieth birthday. I never felt it again. The consultant said it was well hidden and I was lucky to find it. I had full mastectomy and reconstruction, chemo, radiotherapy, tamoxifen and +Zolodex. I finished my treatment three years ago. I was to be discharged in February but had a pain in my knee. My lovely consultant sent me for a bone scan because she knew I was worried and I lost my mum to B.C. three years ago.
Unlike me, mum didn't tell anyone and by the time the cancer was found it was too late. It shocked me how quickly it spread.
Now, here I am with two bone mets on my spine and waiting for a further scan to check the bastard disease isn't anywhere else.
Again, I've been 'lucky' because the consultant wasn't expecting to find anything.
I've read your posts and I am a strong, positive lady usually so I would like to join in. She started me on Letrozole and I purposefully haven't looked at the side effects because I always get them bad. The pain along my left leg is permanent and stopping me from doing what I want to do. It's my 60th this year and I'd planned to be ten years clear and I'm currently doing 60 things I've never done before.
Trying to stay positive and I know there's an army of drugs. I also know I have the Christie on my doorstep but I feel in limbo waiting to find out what happens next and instead of looking forward to my retirement next summer, I'm wondering can I carry on working. I did go into work, the day after my diagnosis so quite proud of myself.