Welcome to the Breast Cancer Care discussion forums where I am sure you will get lots of good, honest support from the many informed users of this site. While you are waiting for replies I have put for you below links to some of BCC's publications you might find helpful. There's also our freefone helpline where the staff are at hand with that listening ear if you need someone away from the family to talk to. Calls are free, 0808 800 6000 lines open Mon-Fri 9-5 and Sat 10-2. Also, as you have been diagnosed with secondaries you might be interested in joining in our 'live chat' which runs each Tuesday evening on line, I'll also put you the link to that for you to have a look at.
I hope these help. Take care,
I will pass on your comments about the chit chat games still being clunky.
Sorry you are having problems starting a new thread. If you click on the subject in the left hand menu where you would like your post to appear, you should be able to see a box to start a new topic. When you click on this it takes you to a page where you have to scroll down for ages before you find the box to type your post.
Hope that works!
Very best wishes