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Bev, I'm sorry the SE from rads are still playing havoc and have messed up your  vacation. I hope you feel better soon. Glad the vinorelbine is going smoothly. Wishing you the best! Funnyface

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Oh,Bev,I'm so sorry you've had to cancel holiday as it just what you needed xxx

Right now it's angry eyesπŸ‘€ as soon as you've had your scan next month you are getting a holiday booked,somewhere AND straight away! The cat lady has spoken xx

You need something to look forward to after all this πŸ’© you've put up with.
Remember SEs from rads take ages to go.
You stay strong lovely lady and huge hugs are coming your way,Helen xxxxx
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Lovely to hear from you Bev, I am so sorry you are still feeling so poorly and that you will miss your holiday. Hopefully you will soon be feeling a little better which will enable you to arrange something else to look forward to. Look after yourself you lovely lady, we are all thinking of you and everybody else dealing with this awful disease. Jackie xx

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Sorry havdnt posted for while. Still suffering the awful fatigue from the brain rads. Cant do anything...falling asleep on and off all day. Started my 2nd cycle of Vinorelbine last wed. Been ok on that. Have my next scan on 11 june but not feeling hopeful as ive noticed that the small swelling on front of my throat seems bigger and my voice is quieter....also when i cough the sound is different from the airway. More wheezy.
Ive had to cancel my holiday Helen as its only a month away and i dont feel fig enough to travel. ..i cant even walk on my own outside the house as I'm too disorientated and giddy. Onc says this is still side effect of rads.
I had a gut feeling months ago that i wouldnt be going....everything seems to have been snatched away from me.
Hope you're still well and treatment still going ok
Love bev xxxx
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Good morning lovely ladies.
Thank you for your lovely texts.

Chocolate,how are you doing? XXXX❀️❀️🍫🍫

Still no word from Shiela ,please get in touch we are all worried about you.❀️❀️❀️

Bev,how are you getting on? Is your case packedπŸ‘™for your holiday ❀️❀️❀️

Well I would have loved to say pain was better. Think I was shocked this morning when it wasn't .
Got chemo yesterday and I was in horrendous pain.so onc on duty upped morphine by another 20mg and put me on steroids,hence misery on waking.
I told them I thought it was all coming from back and SCC ,half my tummy is numb and freezing cold to touch. Nobody seams alarmed by that. (Apart from me!) kept telling Dr that I didn't have any SCC symptoms last time apart from this pain around half of torso. She's going to tell my onc and ...... Is anyone's guess.
Huge hugs,Helen xxxxxxx
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Hi Stresshead, I have a Hickman Line (also called a central line). I too chatted to the surgeon whilst it was being fitted! It does have to be cleaned/flushed once a week but it's fairly straight forward so I am hoping to take some equipment with me when I finally go on holiday and do it myself. Lines can be prone to infection but so can lots of other things and I have to say preventing hunt the vein has been a huge bonus for me (like you on Eribulin so 2 blood tests and 2 infusions every two weeks).
They don't use my line for CT scan dye but all my blood tests and blood transfusions go through it. I had it fitted just two weeks before I started chemo.
I am so glad I had it.
Smartie x

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I also have a portacath, which has been problem free for the almost two years it has been in.  Doesn't show even when wearing V or scoop necked tops. I also had it inserted while awake and chatting to the surgeon!

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Hi StressH, lines can be prone to infections and need regular flushing, they are cumbersome too but how about a port? I have a port, I had a couple of clots at diagnosis but this hasn't been an issue. Was awake when port fitted, we all had a nice chat. :-) It's amazing how quickly you forget it's there. I'm having a chemo break and my port needs flushing every 4 weeks. I would really recommend one. Take Care. X
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Good morning ladies..i know most of you check this thred and so am asking if anyone can offer ny advice.

Does anyone have a 'line' in for chemo rather than having canula's every time. My veins are rubbish and now on 3rd chemo regime. As thise on erubilin will know it means 2 blood tests and two chemos in 2 weks and i am finding this very stressfull. On my 2nd chemo i asked my onc about a line and he advised against it because of infection. My chemo nurses are recommending that i should now have a line and have got to discuss with my onc next week. just wondered if a 'line' affects you having scans (any metal etc??) and whether scan dyes etc can be administered through them. The nurses did say i would have to go to hospital every week for it to be checked and i wondered how i would go on if we ever got to go on holiday. Also i have pulmonay embolisms sowondered if that would have any effect on the decision. Many thanks for any help you can give.x

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sorry..that was a comment meant for Nicky on her good results. Thought if I did a quick reply to the actual comment it would link it.
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Marie, just wanted to echo what everyone else has said. much love.x
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ditto!!
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Oh Helen, that's awful, mention the numbness at the hospital, you want this scan as absolutely as soon as possible and that will, should make it a priority with them. You hear of nerve blocks, drivers for pain, they MUST help you with this. Can't imagine how draining this is for you. XXX
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Hello Helen - so sorry to hear you are in such awful pain - please take care and glad (lazy) Onc has finally got off his @rse and is doing something! Lets hope he actually acts on the results of the scan!      Hello Chocolates - sorry to hear you are worried and fretting -miserabke, I know. I'm hoping you find it's all in your head (meant in the nicest possible way!).     Hugs and best wishes to everyone else. Those going on holiday - have a good and restful time. Those having tests or results- good luck and try not to worry too much (stupid me - I know you will - we all do!). I have my next CT scan this coming Wednesday to check how things are going now I am coming to the end of the specified Cap rest period. The actual scans don't worry me at all - it's the results that cause the panic.   Love, Barton.x

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Hi Helen, good to hear from you Smiley Happy sorry to hear that you are suffering though, pain can be so draining....don't like to think of our lovely catlady being in pain :-( you take care and you are officially excluded from the naughty step until you are feeling better.

Hi LD, hope your having a fab time in the Lakes you lucky thing,  I love it up there its one of my favourite places.

Hugs Janette xxxxxxx 

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Good afternoon lovely ladies.

Chocolate so sorry you your not too good.
.sending you huge hugs.yes,minds go into overdrive ,I could say don't worry but as we know ,we do! ❀️❀️❀️❀️

Janette,yippeeee,fantastic news βœˆοΈπŸ‘™β€οΈβ€οΈ

Hello,to our new friend,spartymum.πŸ™‹β€οΈ

Chris,love coming your way❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Shiela,please let us know how you are❀️❀️❀️❀️

Tracy, missing youπŸ‘‹β€οΈβ€οΈ

Huge hugs to everyone else❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Sorry I've not made roll call πŸ“ but this cycle has knocked me for six. 🎳
Can't believe I have to start again tomorrow.
Onc is arranging a CT scan as pain is getting unbearable now. I'm going to sleep in pain and as soon as I open my eyes in morning it starts again. I'm totally exhausted with it. Sorry ,just having a moan πŸ˜ͺ

I'll not leave posting this long again or I know it will be naughty step and angry eyes will be used πŸ‘€.
Huge hugs,Helen xxxxxxxxx

Ps. I've just noticed that right side of tummy is quite numb to the touch.Im not sure if it's from SCC .
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Good morning everyone
Just popping on to say hello before I get shouted at! Been up in the Lakes since the Friday of the bank holiday weekend but coming home on Wednesday for scan, so trying not to let it spoil the last few days of our break.
Janette, I'm so pleased you know what the pain is and you're starting to feel better. New York won't know what''s hit it when you get there!
Chocolates, keeping everything crossed that your tests bring good news, but as for jumping the gun I'm sure we all do this with the uncertainty of this disease.
As always, I'm thinking of those who aren't too well.
Love to you all
LD x
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Fantastic news Janette , whoopee, New York here you come . M xxxx
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You go ahead and have a Wonderful Holiday Janette. :-) x
Hope the tests go well chocs. Thinking of you. X
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Janette, that's fantastic news, so pleased for you although obviously very painful so I'm sorry for that. Has raised my spirits. Hopefully all will be sorted for your trip to New York.
Yes the thread has been quiet recently. Has anyone heard from Sheila? If not I'll ask bcc to send her a message.
Have a good day everyone,
Hxxx
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Morning ladies, 

Chocolate, sorry to hear you've not been too good, hope the tests put your mind at rest, hopefully it will be something and nothing and unrelated to the disease like it was with me, but as you have said when we live with this illness every new ache or pain sets our minds racing!!

I have had the results of my MRI it turned out to be a rotator cuff injury...Thank god, they gave me a cortisone injection and it is starting to feel a lot better now, glad I went to the hospital though because at least my mind as been put at rest now and I can go to New York and not be worrying.

Helen, hope you are okay??? you have been very quiet lately, I miss reading your regular posts.

Hope everyone is else is doing okay, hello to the newbies sorry you have had to join us but we are a friendly bunch and are always on hand to give advice, support and to just listen.

Hugs Janette xxxx 

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Hi ladies, how are we all? I'm doing ok but got to have a few extra tests this week - fingers crossed everything is ok. I'm so busy at work thankfully that I haven't got time to dwell on things but the last couple of days have been a bit down. I realise I'm lucky to have had a year and a half of stable but if it turns out I have some progression it brings into play such things as do I give up work, how will a new treatment affect me etc. I know I'm jumping the gun and everything could be fine and it's not cancer related but it's the worry isn't it. Sometimes having some knowledge is dangerous - if I was blissfully ignorant then my mind wouldn't be playing these games. Oh well we'll see what happens.
Janette, glad you've had your MRI but sorry the pain didn't settle in the end. I hope you don't have to wait long for the results. I also agree with the other ladies, as long as your Dr says you are fit to travel then you should be fine.
Welcome to the new ladies - it's lovely to see you hear but of course in very difficult circumstances. This forum is a wonderful place to shout, scream, laugh, cry anything you want to. We are slightly mad I think at times and also have a real laugh. You'll be pleased to know that you want be recruited for quad duty as they are all grown up thank goodness. They kept us all busy for a while and on our toes. I think I've only just recovered!!!
Hi Sheila, chris - sending yu both huge hugs and thinking of you with much love.

Hello everyone else - I'm sorry I've been quiet. I will try and get on a bit more next week.
Just settling down for the VE celebration concert - really looking forward to it.
Hope everyone is having a decent weekend.

Huge hugs,
Hxxx
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Hi Spartymum

Welcome to the BCC forums, along with the support you have here please feel free to call our helpliners to talk your concerns through on 0808 800 6000, our team are here to support you and your Mum weekdays 9-5 and Sat 10-2

Take care
Lucy BCC

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Hi Sparty, well it does seem as though your Mum has a very slow growing BC. I was diagnosed in my early 40's, with secondaries from the start but I still had years of hormonal treatment alone. We can never predict how a treatment will pan out but there are many hormonals for your Mum to try before chemo. Have you seen the link here on bone mets? The PDF? Will post it here just in case.
We are a supportive bunch, do keep in touch.
http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/secondary-breast-cancer/secondary-breast-cancer-bon...
Take care, both of you. X
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Hi all,

 

I have been reading through some of your posts and wanted to start with how amazing this community is, you are a fantastic network of people.

 

My Mum has just been diagnosed with bone mets this last week.  She originally had breast cancer in 1991 which was treated with a mastectomy, radiotherapy, chemo and tamoxifen.  We have had a long time thinking she was cancer free and now they say she may have had the secondary for 20 years without knowing.

 

They are starting her on hormone treatment and looking at radiotherapy again.  She will have a bone scan sometime soon.  

 

I appreciate that in many respects she has been one of the lucky ones to have gone so long after her primary was diagnosed but this has still come as a shock and I am struggling to find answers regarding what to expect in the coming months and years.  Family (except Mum) have kind of blanked out the news after the initial relief that hers is a slow progressing situation.

 

I'm hoping that maybe someone can identify with this situation and maybe give me some pointers as to what questions to ask and who might help me with some answers.

 

Thank you for reading x

 

 

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You have dine really well. Belinda. Interesting that you have gone onto hormones again from time to time. I didnt realise you could do that. Still, as long as the treatments work I am willing to give anything a go. Thanks. Ruth x
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Hi Janette. Both my husband and I are insured on a joint eurotunnel policy. We went to Florida in August last year and when we got back he jad a hernia....saw doc who put him on a waiting list for op. He had a trip to the Holy Land booked for sept. I rang them and told them....the girl said that if doc. said he was fit to travel then the insurance stood. We made sure that the doc put it on his medical records again for a second time, but she said that the criteria is for doc to say fit to travel. I would see your doc ask if you're fit to travel, ask him to note it on your records and then go and have a great time.

Ps. He had the op in November...fine now
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Hi Janette, 

I was reading the thread while I was on the phone to Eurotunnel... 

If your GP writes a letter to say that you were fit to travel at the time of booking you are OK if you cancel. 

If you make a claim, they will need a note of your GP to say that you were fit to travel.

The only thing you need to tell them is that if you have been given a terminal diagnosis (less than 6 months). 

I hope it helps and that you have a donderful trip in NY. 

Sophie 

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Hi Ruth, my treatments, Tamoxifen, approx 18 months, Arimidex, 4 and a half years, Capecitabine, 4 and a half years, Doxorubicin, can't remember how many cycles but followed by 18 months of Arimidex for the second time. Paclitaxel, (Taxol) 12 cycles and now on a break, just started Letrozol. Take care, there is a weekly Taxol thread in the treatments section. I have found it tough but it has worked. X
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Hi ladies, hope you are all okay, quick question about holiday insurance, I ended up back at the hospital yesterday with this pain in my arm/shoulder, because I was having an MRI they had to admit me although I was out the same day. Does anyone know how I stand with my holiday insurance?? I took it out with Eurotunnel in Jan when we booked our trip to New York. My pain turned out to be unrelated to the disease just a bit worried they will find a loop hole because I was admitted.

Hugs Janette xxxx 

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Thanks Belinda and Elily. Belinda, I know you have been on this forum for a long time. Do you mind me asking what treatments you have had so far? Have you had Taxol, which is what they are suggesting for me if the Cape fails. Feel I have jogged along for three years on Cape and so reluctant to change as very few side effects. Terrified of a other chemo (and of losing me hair again!!) ruth x
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I had four and a bit years with Cape, never had markers so low as in their twenties though Ruth. You may be able to max out more time with Cape, even months yet if your markers take their time to rise from such a very low point. Elily I had a year with markers rising slowly. Eventually as our BC becomes resistant to a chemo it's all about getting the timing right, maxing out each treatment, changing when you need to, but watching and waiting sometimes...x
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Similar for me. My Oncologist suspects the cancer cells have become resistant to Cape so I may have to change treatment if marker readings continue to rise. Not too pleased as I could tolerate Cape pretty well.
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There is a lot of knowledge on this site. Can I have some advice please. Bone mets for six years, capecitabine for over three years. Was told at the hospital today that my tumour markers have risen slightly. Dont know what they are now but they were around 25. My question is, do things other than cancer cause them to rise and do your oncs take a lot of notice of them? Feeling worried now. Love Ruth xx
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Lynne I have replied to your PM 

Janette xxxx 

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Hi all only just catching up after my hols hope everyone is doing oks,Nicky great news about your scan I get my results Wednesday not looking forward to it,I'll try and catch up with all posts in the next few days.
Take care all

Kaye xxx
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You're welcome Marie, it can all be so overwhelming and heavy going at times...and lonely as we try and protect loved ones. Take Care. XXXX
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Glad to hear your good news Nicky!!!!!
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Marie hope you are feeling a little better.....a good scream will probably do you good......along with all the advice from the other lovely ladies on here which I can only echo....
The people around us don't understand, my husband buries his head in the sand and my children avoid the subject.......people who aren't so close just look a little uncomfortable if the C word is mentioned....
Love and hugs xxx
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Hi Janette..RSI is repetative strain injury, often caused by making repetative movements over and over.....I think it is something that in the past has happened to typists and computer operators. A colleague was diagnosed with it several years ago. Some doctors accept it as a condition - others don't. Xx
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Lynn I thought it could be a trapped nerve too the doctor who saw me the other day said that wouldn't show on an x-ray but it would on a MRI, What's RSI??

Janette xxxx 

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Julied, Helen , Belinda and Janette, thank you for helping me feel 'normal' Early night I think is best.

Sending you lots of friendship hugs M xxxx

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Sorry, missed your post Nicky - great news! xx

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Nicky FAB news, really pleased for you :-)

Janette xxxx 

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Oh Marie sending you a big fat hug, people really don't get this disease do they, They see that you "look fine" and really haven't got a clue what we are going through.

Lynn, My primary was on the right side this pain is the left, am still undecided on whether or not to go to A&E in the morning, when it eases I think oh it will be fine but then when it comes really painful I think I will go!! Just seems a silly waste of A&E time to get an MRI.

Hugs Janette xxxx 

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Whoo hold on Marie, thumbs through rule book, phew no-one had told me we have to be positive all the time but I've just checked and we don't. Come vent here anytime, we understand completely. X
Nicky so pleased to hear you had great scan results. May I suggest another holiday to celebrate!? X
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Oh,Marie,huge hugs xxxxxx scream as loud as you can we all understand.

People don't understand as SBC is not talked about. ,people don't know what it is.

Get yourself a large glass of wine ,put your feet up. Cry,shout,swear but get it all out.

Trying to be positive all the time is not possible all the time. We all have down days we are allowed Please don't be hard on yourself .
Huge hugs,Helen xxxxxx
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Oh Marie my love I really feel for you and your pain and frustration come across in your post. I'm sorry there's nothing I can actually 'do' to help, but just know we are here and we understand. This disease is hard enough to deal with without feeling you are having to carry everyone else or that people don't want to face up to the reality when we have no choice but face it head on. Take time off if you need it, be gentle with yourself and keep talking to us xx

 

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I am very sorry about this , but I just want to scream. Everyone around me seems to be in denial about what is going on. I feel like I am carrying this burden around on my own. I thought the 'C' word may have helped for a better understanding , but it appears not. I know I should be staying positive , but it's tricky. I feel like I've been turned inside out, didn't go to work yesterday and cried most of the day. Thank you for reading this, I just needed to shout this. I honestly don't know where I'd be without you lot. Marie xxx

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Natalie do let me know what you decide...

My neck pain seems to be better, but today my shoulder/arm is very sore again.

Like you I feel fine otherwise, but the pain is quite debilitating. I have had recent scans which show stable as well.

I am beginning to think trapped nerve or even RSI..may see if I can bring forward the GP appt which I have next week..
Sorry for asking, can't keep up with everyone sometimes, have you had Mx and node removal on the same side, i have and have also wondered about that, though the op was over two years ago...
Hope you can get something sorted before your holiday.