hi bam 86
when i went to the breast clinic everyone was so lovely, no males are allowed at mine, only in the outer waiting room. i had a lump in my left breast. after speaking briefly to a nurse who took a few medical details the surgeon came in and i had to strip to the waist, he lifted up my arm and examined and looked at the lump. then i went for a mamogram which is slightly uncomfortable but not painful, its just an awkward position to get the xray. then i had an ultrasound, thats fine too. they knew straight away i had bc and told me so, they said i would be able to see the surgeon afterwards and he would explain everything, which he did. they did biopsies there and then because i live 125 miles from the hospital so it made sense too just do it.
i dont remember anything that was said that afternoon because i was in shock. my other half wasnt with me (being a male) and i didnt hear a word, they brought him in later to tell him. i would take a female relative or friend with you to listen and help ask questions. I am fine now by the way, this started for me on 6th feb and i am going back to work monday, inbetween treatments, so try not to worry and rightly so, stay of the google.
They were very blunt, no going round the houses, they said it how it is, but they were still lovely and helpful and understanding. You have to remember that most cases are not breast cancer. You are obviously worried and nervous, but it could be a number of non bc problems. The worst part for me was sitting waiting inbetween examinations due to my other half being on the 'outside', looking back i might have been better with a girl friend.
My friend who did not have breast cancer was treated the same as i was except she was sent home as soon as they saw she was clear.
hope all goes well, you will worry so try to occupy yourself and hopefully the time will pass quickly for you.
hope this helps to take away some of the mystery for you,
angie xx