Hi Jan,
Last year I had a left mastectomy and immediate recon with an LD flap, strattice and expander. It took 9 weeks to heal completely, no infection but just very slow. I had Manuka honey dressing changed three times a week, it felt like I lived at the hospital !But eventually it did heal and I can tell you that first shower was the most wonderful thing ever.
Hoping you turn the corner very soon.
Jojo