Hi Stefr, your team will do the very best for you, you will find the strength to cope, i strongly recommend you join the chemo thread relevant to you, the support and empathy you will get from others having chemo at the same time is such a comfort and help, i will pop in and see how you are getting on from time to time!
Wishing you the very best in your treatment and the arrival of your little one.💐
yes, this damn disease often feels like that...
once you get your treatment plan under way, you Will feel better, more in control.
its really scary Steff I know, try and remember that there are some of us who have battled with cancer for many years.l. Eg, my initial diagnosis was in 2001. If id had kids they would be 16 years older by now and hopefully, you will be around for many years.
my lymph nodes were 12/13 cancerous, and they gave me a poorish prognosis. Half the battle is thought to be
having a good attitude....at first we all feel like you do, but it does get better.
keep us posted, im thinkng of you and will watch to see how you get on. Hopefully you do have support,people who can look after your children whilst you recover?
love and hugs, Moijanxx
Hi Stefr, i echo everything moijan has said, really sorry you have to go through this , especially pregnant, you will feel morein control when you go back on monday, they will tell you the best treatment plan and things will start moving. There is also a very good facebook page for younger women: https://www.facebook.com/YoungerBreastCancerNetwork/
and on this great forum there is a section on board for younger ladies and some are pregnant. I wish you all the best , keep posting,the ladies are very knowledgeable and supportive!
Hi there Stefr,
oh dear, how worrying for you. I am sorry that this should happen when you are pregnant and should be able to look forward to your new baby, without such a horrid worry.xx
have you got lots of support? Someone to chat to about everything?
I see you are being seen on Monday. Do see if you can 'park' the worries till then..difficult, I know, and no way to know what they are planning, but it does sound as if theyve caught things early and they can do wonders now with Surgery......I understand your worry about being around for your children.....and thats so hard for you.xx
there are lots of young mums with small children, on the site with the same worries and im sure they will soon post you some replies which will help. Meanwhile, try and spoil yourself a. Little, take each day as it comes.
do feel free to come back and talk about your worries, we are all here for each other...lots of very caring ladies on the site. You could also phone the hotline 0808 800 6000 for a chat with one of the nursesx
Love and hugs,Moijanxx💜💚💙