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It is a couple of months since since I did it and things have changed. I feel better about implant it is still a work in progress but it is looking better. Underarm still swollen and I have started to massage implant which I feel is softening it a bit. Using Bio Oil on scar and it is helping. I am hoping when underarm swelling goes down it will make the breast feel fuller to the front not underarm lol. Compared to other it is smaller.
Still have have issues with bras. Got the Curvissa bra and it is good and also a post surgery one from Triumph which I was measured for. The cups are formed so when in I look even. The middle of bra tends to pull towards normal breast if you know what I mean. I have bought so many my husband says I could have a bra shop lol. I miss my underwire bras but have been told 6 months before I can.
i am able to forget about it when busy and started swimming to try to stretch muscle as well as stretching exercise. Hoping it will help spasms.
Feeling much more positive than I was although every morning I wake up it is the first thing I think of.
When I think back to 3 months ago there is a big difference so hopefully the next 3 months will continue the improvement in both implant and emotions.
Good luck in your continued progress.
Thank you for your reply. I've only just managed to find my way back to the post! It does help to hear from someone who has gone through the same experience.
I was told the implant would feel different but as you say, it feels like a ball and I want it to feel more soft. I look the same in underwear, although not back to wearing normal bras often yet, as I get sore. I think to everyone else all is fixed, it's just me that has to get used to it. It could have been so much worse. Logically I know it had to be done but I have really struggled emotionally- although I'm better than I was.
You have given me hope that it will improve. The surgeon and breast nurses aren't concerned, I suppose I didn't realise how long it would take. I will need a nipple and the other side needs lifting to make them look more even. I just need to be patient.
Really appreciate your reply. Teresa xx
Hi Teresa, I also had DCIS like you and too widespread so mx with immediate reconstruction using mesh. My SNB was clear so no further treatments other than tamoxifen. My surgery was almost 2 years ago in Feb 15 and at the stage you are at now I was seriously wondering if I'd done the right thing as the foob felt like a football and always twinged a bit. However I can now say that it no longer aches every morning and it does feel more a part of me. It will always be numb but I don't have the constant awareness of it that I did have. I'm afraid it was well over a year though before this really happened so hang in there! I do still have stiffness under the arm when I stretch but other than that it is fine. There is a little creasing at times on the foob particularly after running etc and at times I can still see the ridge where the stitching went but this seems to depend on exercise etc and I don't think is anything to worry about. Hope things continue to improve for you, I was certainly glad I'd had it last summer when able to comfortably wear my swimwear on holiday! Best wishes Nic xx
I know you posted a couple of months ago but your post could have been written by me. My first mammogram found DCIS and due to amount had masectomy with immediate implant . My drain also blocked and I also need no further treatment apart from meds.
I know I have been very lucky but also really struggle with the implant and how it feels. My surgery was in August and I had to have a second surgery to remove a haemotoma following the blocked drain. I also had some fluid drained.
I still feel sore to the side and on the top where the muscle is. It hurts to lay on my front and I wonder if I'm ever going to feel 'normal' again.
I am also tired and get stomach cramps from my medication.
i wear Gemm soft bras from Amazon which were recommended. I was told by my surgeon that I can wear under wired bras and do occasionally but find the Gemm bra more comfortable for now.
I'm sorry I've not helped you but it is nice to find someone who feels like me and thank you to the other responses which also make me feel a bit better.
Thank you for listening
Hello Helen, I went through the same as you 2 years ago. It does get better!! Its a real shock to the system, even though, like you, I felt so lucky not to need anything other treatment. I had to have the first implant changed, the one I have now has been in for 10 months and is much softer and comfortable now. Apart from just giving it time, the two most helpful things for me were doing the "pink ribbon" course of specialist physio exercises to help the chest muscle recover and also getting fitted with bras from Nicola Jane, which give the right support to my implant, especially as mine is quite large. Good luck and lots of love xx
Thank you Liz you have made me feel more positive for the future. I know it is still early days for me and I am still swollen so imagine implant has not settled into place. BCN said to give it 6 months if not longer to settle and you have confirmed this.
Like you I am small busted and at the moment the implant is even smaller causing problem with bra comfort. This also adds to the odd feeling but once swelling goes down will check out a fitting for Curvissa bra that has been recommended.
Thank you so much for replying I do appreciate it and it has been very comforting.
Hope all goes well for you in the future and there is no more 'scares'.
Hi, just thought I'd add my experience. I too had implant recon at the very end of June - felt very odd at first but I gradually started to notice brief periods (10 mins or so) when I forgot about it cos it felt part of me, then it would feel tight and heavy again. Those periods got longer over time until now (nearly 5 months on) it feels normal most of the time and just occasionally odd, and I still notice a slight pull on the muscle if I do something 'heavy' with that arm. When I had first appointment to remove drains etc the nurse said it would take 6-12 months before it felt normal so it is a very gradual process. I'm only small breasted so I imagine it may take longer to get used to things with a larger implant.
Hope things soon start to settle and good luck with future monitoring, lets hope that's it now! xx
Thank you Princess it has helped me lot to know I will get used to implant as the time passes. Just now it seems like a stone attached to me. Mind you I know how lucky I am it could have been so much worse.
i will investigate the bra you suggested. I have bought all types from sports to these soft pull on ones. One day they feel not to bad and the the next I can feel them slipping. There is a good bra fitting shop near where I live so once swelling etc settles I will pay a visit and ask advice and check out the style/brand you gave me link for.
It is so good to hear from ladies their experience I find it very helpful.
Have a lovely very weekend.
I am so sorry that you are having to go through all the treatment it must be so hard on you. I know I am lucky that they cleared it through having the Masectomy.
You are right about it all happening so quickly I also reflect on whether the implant was the right decision. At the moment it feels so uncomfortable but I am hoping i will get used to it in the months to come. Once all the swelling goes down I will get a proper bra fitting and this may also help.
Hope all goes well for you in the future, I will look out for your posts on here.
I have had resconstruction and a breast implant that has been inflated twice to the max level of saline. However, tomorrow I am seeing my surgeon to have some of the fluid removed as I am finding mine really bulky and unforumnable espeically at night time.
I don't think we will ever get used to it - just looking in the mirror everyday reminds me of that
Everything moved so quick for me and on reflection I really did not think through my options and sometimes I wonder if it would have been better not to have had reconstruction.
I stil have two rounds of chemo to go and then 15 rounds of radiation in February which I am sure will cause some damage to the implant. After radiation I will have to go back for surgery in order that I can have some fat put into some areas of my breast and upper chest wall as I some hollow areas which need filling out, so it will interesting to see what the final result will be
I have over the last month being reading through the posts gleaning information and any advice that may help my recovery. Thank you for posting.
I was diagnosed with DCIS in 3 places and underwent a masectomy and reconstruction with implant 4 weeks ago. All happened very quick and was only identified through Breast Screening.
After discussion with BCN and Consultant I was told because it was widespread it would have to be a Masectomy. Thankfully it was done within the week and at the same time reconstruction was done using an implant. All went well and other than the drain getting blocked. Flushing did not clear it so it was removed which resulted in fluid build up which was after a few weeks drained.
The results from the Masectomy was I needed no further treatment and will have yearly checkups. Which is great news.
i am on the road to recovery but finding the implant breast hard to get used to. Does it ever feel like your own so that you never feel it is there as with normal breast. I still have a bit of fluid but Consultant today advised to leave until reabsorbed by body. I am also finding it hard to get a bra that is comfortable. I have tried all sorts and although Sport Bras seem best option I wondered if anyone had found another good option. Doing the exercises but still tight at front shoulder and cleavage area where implant is attached to muscle.
i just wondered how long before you feel normal again. I still get tired but pace myself so coping and it is still early days.
Thank you for reading this ramble. Any advice gratefully received.
Best Wishes to all.