I would like for Christmas
A bottle of champagne and the health to enjoy it
An appetite for my Christmas Dinner
A kitchen so advanced in technology it does all the cooking and washing up without me getting involved
Weight loss of one stone
That everyone with BC would have the love and support of friends and family, as I have
Merry Christmas everyone
All I want for Christmas is not to have another recurrence of BC for a few years. Also please can you make all the girls requests on this forum come true. Happy Christmas and go easy on the sherry! With love, Olivia
All i would like for Christmas is to die when i have done all i have planned to do in my life just not yet cos i am not ready, also i would like to see my grandson go to school (he was born on 28th Nov), and to have his Dad )my eldest son return from Afghanistan safely in February.
other than that can you please find a cure for cancer so that the beautiful people that take part in this forum don't have to suffer - I am sure there are many other people in this world that deserve to suffer but i don't think thepeople hear do
Many thanks in advance
Thank you Belinda .. yes it is the hardest time of year since Lisa died ( Gosh I have problems writing that word). We just can't do Christmas this year ...not sure what we are going to do .. just go for walk, eat sandwiches? Just don't know yet. feels like a club that most people have joined except me or a party I haven't been invited to. So very hard as anyone in same position will know. Lisa was the life and soul of our Christmas and the centre of our lives.
So Dear Santa ......
...... as well as finding a cure for cancer could you find me some strength to get through the next few weeks? and share that strength with the other people on here too so that they have a lovely Christams.
Please can you give my husband some hope, he's so lost, that I worry about him so much
He could do with the credit crunch sorting inself out too
Also, if I'm going to get secondaries, can you just let me know, so that I can get on with some choices I need to make.
please find a cure for cancer, the rest of the stuff I can deal with, change or ignore.
Dear Sue, I was thinking of you yesterday and a friend who died very recently who had 3 children. I was surrounded by Christmas shoppers and families at the the time and for a moment I felt so removed from it all. I have bone mets and read your posts about Lisa on the Secondaries board. Words are so inadequate at times but Take Care..Belinda...x
It would be too obvious to want my daughter back for Christmas but please can there be a major breakthrough in breast cancer research to help all the wonderful people on this site who are still with us.
Not too much to ask surely.
Have been (mostly 😉 good girl ..
Would like to see all my family smiling and getting on harmoniously (not too much of a long shot) and ignoring the medical situation
Would like my lovely supportive partner to give up smoking
thanks Father Xmas..
(as I only said to OH last night)
All I want for Christmas is to be able to sit down with a nice glass of champagne and not worry about it triggering off my palpitations which have started up post-chemo - Oops maybe I should ask the cardio for that tomorrow?
In that case:
A cold crisp Christmas Day so we can go for a walk without sweating buckets as it's usually 'unseasonably mild'
See my 'little' (17 & 20) girls faces' as they undo their Santa stockings
Have a lovely family day with my Mum and dad doing all the work for me this year (bless them)
Enjoy all the food and wine (see above re cardio!)
Health and happiness to all my (true) friends, to the others - 'whatever'
A grateful, heartfelt thanks to all my fellow sufferers on this forum who have helped me and supported me this year
And finally a New Year that is SO much better than the lost year of 2008 😉
could you just take away the last eight months and let life go back to the way it was!!!
I would be sooooo grateful
i want to be free of anxiety
i want to trust and understand my body again
i want my OH to truly understand what his love and support has meant to me
i want a longer fuse.......
But most imprtantly i want my very pregnant sister to give birth to a healthy, happy baby.
i would love to be cured of breast cancer, but if not possible
i would like to accept whatever happens peacefully
to laugh a lot and not take life too seriously
to make time for fun,
to be a good friend to others, and be there for my loved ones
odd decorating jobs done around the house
a nice holiday.
to lose about 3 stone, without giving up the treats (no harm in dreaming!)
and for a wonder cure for any cancers out there
i would be so grateful, id leave you an extra mince pie next year.
i have tried my best to be a good girl and all i would want for christmas is
to wake up in the morning and feel good
not feel so stressed
get through the day with no pain
enjoy my children playing not fightin about silly things
and get through the day without any mood swings
but most of all say thanks to all the people who helped me through and helped me to get to christmas and hopefully many more
No idea, the ones that have turned their back on me are the ones that i was there to help in their hours of need. which in the past have accululated to many hours.
my dilema now is do i do the same to them when this is all behind me and they need me again? ; ) X
Oh vodka i find that so sad that your fiends and family have turned their back on you at such and important time why was this? X
I have been good as i have not moaned 'too' much about all the treatment i have endured. I have put up with a lot and been hurt by friends and family members turning their back on me at a time i really needed support so to cheer me up for Christmas i would please like .......
My own hair back
aches and pains gone
no more treatment
to see my children smile again and not worry about 'mum'.
that one goes for my OH aswell.
all the pain, hurt and killing in the world stopped.
and last of all, all the ladies and men not just on this site but all going through cancer to find the strength to fight it.
thank you Santa. x
I think that i have been a good girl this year and for Christmas i would like
Not to be diagnosed with BC
For my husband to come home and be a family again.(My friends would kill me if i took him back)
For the world to live in peace and stop all this bombing and fighting - life is far to short anyway
To be happy and if i can't have my husband please let me meet somebody nice!!
Merry Christmas Santa XX
My children have been nagging me to do my christmas list, whilst writing that one I thought of this one. Anyone else have their private christmas lists sorted?
Dear Father Christmas
I think I have been a good girl this year.
For Christmas I would like
Never to have to hear the words Breast Cancer again in my medical future once this is finished
To have my back wound heal
To be able to have a bath
To be able to go back to work
To get through the rest of chemotherapy with no side effects (well its a christmas list!)
For hair (will settle happily for on top only!)
For my new boob to settle down
For a great new nipple
For a good outcome on matching the boobs up
To be able to thank all the people who've helped me
To be able not to be disappointed in all the people who've let me down
To return to my life as it was before except in future to be more able to say no, to be able ask for what I want, to stop and smell the roses
Yours truly, Ostrich