so sorry you find yourself here. I was diagnosed in November 2012 with grade 3 ductal invasive cancer with lymph node involvement. The only difference is that my cancer was hormone positive. I had chemo and joined the monthly chemo thread as one of the February Valentines 2013. At least one of our number was triple negative. We are well past the first of our once yearly mammograms and breast checks and apart from the odd little grumble, are doing well. I was just going to point you in the direction of the triple neg thread, but notice you have already found it.
You will most likely need to have chemo, but that isn't as bad as people think it is, and you can join one of the more recent monthly threads, you'll find them here: