Hi BMW07 and welcome to the BCC forums where I am sure you will find lots of support and shared experiences. In addition you are welcome to call our helpline for further support and information on 0808 800 6000, lines are open weekdays 9-5 and Sat 10-2.
The following link will take you to the BCC information 'Newly diagnosed' where you will find further support ideas and information which I hope you will find useful:
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/diagnosis
Best wishes
Lucy