I was diagnosed in February 2016 less than 3 weeks of moving house. I had a mastectomy in March, followed by 2 sessions of chemo, the 2nd session resulting in an anaphlatic reaction. This meant my treatment has to be reassessed. I have herceptin and perjeta, administered via IV now. I returned to work on amended hours in June but then had radiotherapy at the end of August into the middle of September. As I still need to attend hospital for targeted treatment every 3 weeks I was told to take full advantage of sick leave. I have a sick note until the beginning of Feb and am totally undecided what to do. Having worked full time in early years, as well as being the key stage leader, I know the pressures of returning to work. I was left with restricted movement in my arm following radiotherapy and am currently having physiotherapy. My full pay will end in February but I have lost a lot of my confidence and as you say, I hardly recognise the staff and changes made in my absence. I would go back to a staff that I have not worked with, the acting phase leader was a long term supply who usually worked in poor schools (my school isn't a poor school) and changed everything as if our school was the same. I feel totally devastated but equally, feel that I need to 'finish' my time. I was going to retire at 60 (next year) and just feel as if I've left, ending my career on a low point in a job I absolutely love. I see my oncologist tomorrow and depending on the latest feedback will probably make a decision one way or another. I wish you well in your decision making. We've been through a lot, but once back in the workplace that is forgotten. Good luck xx
All the best with your recovery from surgery & good luck with the chemo. My experience of chemo (Taxol) was that it messed up my immune system while I was having it & there was no way I could be in school while I had a PICC line in. I have been on full pay for 6 months, now on half pay (& will probably drop to zero pay but appreciate that my situation is different to yours!).
May everyone stay great for you, being positive really, really helps and don't be afraid to accept help when it is offered.
Take care of yourself,
hope you are recovering well (make sure you do all the exercises you will hopefully be told about, it is SO worth it in the long run!).
I am so sorry you have found yourself in this place at your age. It's such a lot to get your head round but once the surgery is done you are on your way.
I am a nurse and have just celebrated the first anniversary of my grade 3 invasive Ducati bc this week.
My mx was end of November 15, chemo started jan16 and my herceptin ( HER2+) started may with tamoxifen.
I am older than you but was very fit and have stayed pretty fit( carried on running throughout). But chemo obviously can affect your wbc amongst other things so if you need it I wouldn't even think about work until that's all over. I picked up everything my school age kids brought home. I went back to work in September.
If you don't need chemo, give yourself time to recover,physically and mentally, yours is a frantic and stressful job as it is. Also I would consider a phased return to ease you back in. If you do need chemo I would say you would realistically be off until summer hols??
My pay by the way worked out as 5 months full and 5 months half.
i hope your house move goes well, just try and be kind to yourself. No heroics. Surprisingly work managed quite ok without me whilst I was off; better to have you back when fit and well.
sorry if my post isn't relevant, just wanted to wish you well with your recovery. I must admit this year has gone really quickly, surprisingly!
all the very best
And you should be positive! Just take each step as it comes. Chemo for me was ok, if you need it you'll deal with it.
and this forum is ace.
Hi, I was diagnosed with dcis and went off sick from 17th Oct, had mastectomy yesterday and docs suggested and signed a sick note till 17th Dec. However, yesterday I was told they found invasive cancer cells too so my need chemo will find out in new year. My head and school have bee great, but we are about to move house. Any experience with pay or when to return after chemo as been told with chemo won't be able to be in classroom....
All a bit of a world wind as only 28 and all happened in 2 months, but everyone ha been great and staying positive as got so much faith in NHS x x x
im a primary teacher and I only work part time but I still went back on a phased return after my op. I had 8.5 wks off as I didn't need chemo or radiotherapy. Be kind to yourself as it does feel very strange, I felt it was a bit as if I'd been living in a protective bubble during recovery and suddenly I had to stand on my own two feet again. It did affect my confidence and I struggled with the first couple of observations. You are bound to be worried about the physical risks posed by some pupils and you need to minimise the risk to yourself from this. Build up your hours gradually as you will be very tired and like nursing it isn't a job you can do safely if you are not feeling well enough. Good luck with your return, best wishes Nic xx
whilst you are waiting to hear from fellow teachers out there I thought I'd say hello!
I am a trained nurse a few weeks into phased return.
So many changes since my op (end of November ), why does that happen??!
i started at 4 hour days with an increase of an hour a day each week, got stuck on 6 hour days as days were so full on. Have been off on a/ l this week but will start mon on full hours, eek.
I am still on herceptin which I find can leave me extra tired at times, and have limited sleep still ( which I blame on tamoxifen!!) so I have been starting slightly later in the morning. I have also not taken on full duties straight away; concentrated on a smaller group of patients, avoided situations where time restrictions might cause my chemo brain to melt down ( e.g. drug rounds)! As everyone knows why I have been off they are all fairly supportive and interested ( at the moment!!), which I think helps me reflect on it a bit each day. There have definitely been good and bad bits, I know I often have more of a ' patient head' on!
I'm sorry if this is no use but wanted to wish you well with your return.
Stay calm, make sure you have plenty of breaks, particularly in intensive situations. it's still the same job underneath it all, you might be a little different, but you'll sort out your limits and limitations in time.
Very best wishes.
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Have been off since January, and work have agreed a phased return starting December & continuing January (subject to approval from GP & consultants).In the time I have been away there have been many changes - Head, Deputy Heads, colleagues, the building itself! - and although I am welcome back I feel like a newbie. How much of a challenge have people found a return to teaching? I work in a special school and feel a bit vulnerable when I consider how some students can behave & I NEVER worried about that before.
Any thoughts or comments welcome.