Hi Sarah66,
I'm sorry you haven't had any replies as yet from anyone living in your area but you might find our Live Chat service each Tuesday evening between 8.30 and 9.30pm helpful. Live Chat on Tuesdays is a dedicated session just for those with a secondary diagnosis. Here you will find the users are a great support to each other. I've put the link to Live Chat for you below.
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/community/chat
Take care,
Jo, Moderator