Welcome back to the forums. I am sorry to read of you have another reocurrrence. With regard to the the navigation if you click on the link I have given below it will take you to the 'I am recently diagnosed section', which you will see includes different titles where you may want to post.
I have been away from here for a while after being Dx for the 5th time with local recurrence. I have to start by saying I am finding it difficult to navigate round the new site. Where is the section on local recurrence I am no longer primary but I have not crossed over fully to stage 4/secondary either, I am very much in no mans land, and it looks like that is where I am on here too.