I think its a protective mode for them, they cant fix this and its hard for them to deal with so trying to pretend its all just fine is easier! I know just how you will be feeling , no matter how confident they are at the hospital that all will be well you cant help the nagging doubt from creeping in and you most certainly are not pathetic! Xx
Well Yes he is right but its really not helpful to hear is it! of course your going to worry , its impossible not too!!
The amount of times I heard be positive , keep strong, dont worry.... made me want to rip peoples heads off!!