Welcome to the forums, maybe you would like to talk things through with a member of our helpline staff who can offer emotional support as well as practical information.
The free phone number is 0808 800 6000 and the lines are open Monday to Friday 9.00 to 5.00 and Saturday 10.00 to 2.00.
Sorry you haven't had any replies as yet, but I have put for you below the link to BCC's publication regarding reconstruction, if you haven't seen it I hope it helps. The helpline staff here will also be happy to talk through with you any issues you have regarding how to go with your reconstruction. Lines are open at 9am this morning until 5pm, calls are free, 0808 800 6000
Hope this helps. Take care,