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Can't hide it anymore

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Belinda165
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Re: Can't hide it anymore

Hi

I'm new to the forum and my experience at the breast clinic is similar - inconclusive so am now waiting results of core biopsy. Not sure if you got your results yet : if so I really hope it was good news xxx
pippadog
Member

Re: Can't hide it anymore

Hi hadders

 

I'm also waiting for biopsy results. I know exactly how you feel. Big hugs to you.

 

Laura

x

MelMc68
Member

Re: Can't hide it anymore

I'm so glad you took that decision!! Best of luck again. xxx
hadders
Member

Re: Can't hide it anymore

Thank you Sam and Mel.  I have told him now, and he was really calm, reassuring and supportive.  he understands whyi didn't say anything before.  Thanks to all the good advice and reassuring posts on here, I was able to explain it to him  and answer without causing him to panic.  He is going to come with me when I get my biopsy results, so I don't have face that on my own.

 

xx

MelMc68
Member

Re: Can't hide it anymore

Hi hadders,

I've relied to other posts of yours. Have you told your boyfriend? I think it's a good move, cos then you'll have some support close at hand. Even if he's a bit annoyed that you didn't say anything earlier, he'll understand that you were trying to protect him from the worry.

I really hope you do share your burden; it'll make the load a little bit lighter. And I truly hope your news is positive. Please let us know. Best of everything, Mel. xxx
Sam_BCC
Member

Re: Can't hide it anymore

Hi hadders

 

It sounds like you're having a tough time at the moment.  If you need some additional support or just to talk things through do give the helpline a call on 0808 800 6000.  Here you can talk things through with a member of staff who will offer you a listening ear as well as emotional support and practical information.  Lines are open Monday to Friday 9 to 5pm and Saturday 10 to 2pm.

 

Best wishes Sam, Facilitator   

hadders
Member

Can't hide it anymore

Hi everyone,

 

Had my first appointment at the breast clinic yesterday.  I found a small, hard lump in my breast on New Year's Eve and although the GP didn't think it was anything serious, she referred me.  I have now had a mammograph and ultrasound that were inconclusive - probably ok but with 'irregular' edges - so had a core biopsy as well.  So far I haven't told anyone as I don't want to upset or worry anyone until I know if there's anything to worry about.  After the biopsy though, I can't hide it from my bf so am going to have to tell him tonight.  I know that he will be really upset and worried no matter how much I try to reassure him - and possibly cross for not saying anything before.  Just wish I had a definite yes or no so that I could be really clear about it all.

 

Anyway, thank you to everyone for past kind words and reassurances.  Wishing you all well xx