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Coming to Terms with Breast Cancer!!!

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Atat
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Re: Coming to Terms with Breast Cancer!!!

Yes. I'm on my own too, well, live alone. I have good friends and social life which helps. I have kept a fairly low profile about it, which has helped me. The most difficult time for me has been the waiting, either to get results or to have radiotherapy. Personally I think it becomes easier once you've had the op and results. As everything becomes more clear then.
Atat
LuckyLass
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Re: Coming to Terms with Breast Cancer!!!

Hi positivethinker (great name!) I thought I would respond to you because although our BC and other circumstances are different, in one important respect we are the same - we live alone. I have the support of relatives, but none are close by, and a brilliant bunch of neighbours. Your friends will want to help you, too, so don't be too independent. I found it helped a lot just to have someone with me on the more difficult appointments. There are others on the forum who are on their own, too,

Lucy_BCC
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Re: Coming to Terms with Breast Cancer!!!

Hi Diane and welcome to the BCC forums

Along with the support you will find here our helpliners are on hand with practical and emotional support for you on 0808 800 6000, lines are open weekdays 9-5 and Sat 10-2

You may find the information and further support ideas helpful via this link:

https://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/treatment

Take care
Lucy BCC

positivethinker
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Coming to Terms with Breast Cancer!!!

Hi everyone,

I've just joined your lovely support group - I guess it's my first step in accepting I have breast cancer.  I found a pea sized lump on 22nd June and am now on the roller coaster of BC - which you are all too familiar with yourselves - GP, Breast Clinic (thought it was a fibroadenoma), Core Biopsy (it's Stage 3 invasive ductal carcenoma), meet the surgeon, MRI scan, another ultrasound and biopsies of historic fibroadenoma, now the wait for those results.  I'm having pre-op assessment tomorrow, meeting the surgeon on 26th, Sentinel Node Scan on 28th and lumpectomy and SNB on 29th.  So I don't know if it's one lump or two to be removed, but the blood tests are clear and my lymph nodes are tiny - so good news there.  My surgeon is an oncoplastic specialist and is very re-assuring.

 

I have two sons, 26 and 24 - how do you tell them this sort of news.  Their dad/my husband passed away of pancreatic cancer Christmas 2011 and they are off making their own lives - the youngest in Australia.

 

And how do you get your head round this!!!!  I am doing my best to be positive in front of everyone, but living alone makes it harder to be strong sometimes.  I have a lot of wonderful friends but hate to burden them with this as they have their own lives to get on with, and they've already helped me with my husband. I used the pancreatic cancer uk forum as a great sounding board - so you've all got me now!!

Diane xx