IllyB and others
Yes the loss of a breast does seem relatively minor compared with what others have gone through. At least I can say that now that I am through it! I had a single DIEP on 13 April with a bit of a hiccough when they had to take a vein from my right forearm as well (apparently happens in 1% of cases!). But pathology was clear and so was the lymph node they removed. So no more treatment - I cannot have radiotherapy again having had it 6 years ago, but at least I don't have to have chemo or medications either. And after feeling like a huge, heavy lump attached to me for a few weeks, now I hardly notice it and the scars are healing nicely. Though it did remind me to be careful this morning when I picked up a slightly heavy shopping bag! Was telling a friend about my experience, only to hear later from her that she had a lumpectomy last year, followed by a ghastly experience with chemo and now radio. That really made me realise that a mastectomy, while drastic, if it is the only treatment needed, is relatively bearable. And I can get into my trousers more comfortably again! Hope everyone else is recovering well too. xx
Thanks Jojo, that is really helpful. At the moment I am just trying to get the cardio and breast sides to talk to each other so it is not me who has to work out what can and cannot be done. Must have been tough being psyched up for one type of op then not being able to go ahead. Did you know about the AF beforehand?
Hello Morrisbird
Welcome to the forums, this must be a very difficult time for you but you have come to the right place for support from our experienced users who I’m sure will be along to support you soon.
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Best wishes
June, moderator
I had DCIS 6 years ago and had 2 WLE plus radiotherapy. At my annual mammogram in December they identified some calcification in the same breast and I had a biopsy done last week. Yesterday I learned that the cells they had taken out were "not cancerous", but were Intermediatae DCIS. As I have already had radiotherapy on that side, the recommended treatment is mastectomy and reconstruction. I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed by this diagnosis,especially with the controversy over whether DCIS actually develops into cancer at all. I am a 58 year old post menopausal, but not keen to lose the breast unless I really have to. It is also complicated by my having a heart condition (persistent AF) which has so far not responded to treatment, so really not sure what surgery my heart will be able to bear. Unfortunately the breast team have not (yet) joined up with the cardio team to provide me with some sensible advice, despite being in the same hospital trust! Anyone else had a recurrence of DCIS? Also interested in recovery times for Mx as I live alone and am fairly independent. Hospital are keen to do reconstruction with a tummy tuck. Any advice or similar experience welcomed!