Welcome to the BCC discussion forums, this is the right place to offer you some much needed support as the users of this site have a wealth of knowledge and experience between them.
To help you a long I have put for you below links to some of BCC's publications you might find helpful and also the link to a book which is specially designed for children 'Mummy's Lump', which you can send for free of charge (as are all BCC's publications and services). If you need someone to talk to away from family and friends, then don't hesitate to call the helpline here, they're here to support you through this, calls are free, 0808 800 6000 lines open Mon-Fri 9-5 and Sat 10-2.
I hope this helps. Take care,