Hi clarekin
I'm sorry to read you're having a worrying time at the moment. Whilst you wait for the other user to reply with experience and knowledge do give the BCC helpline a callon 0808 800 6000. Here you can share your concerns with a memeber of staff who will offer you a listening ear as well as emotional support and practical information. Lines are open today from 10 to 2pm and weekdays 9 to 5pm.
Best wishes Sam, BCC Facilitator