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Best of luck for today zena xx

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Hi Jules, so glad it went ok for you yesterday and Zena best of luck for today xxx

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A tip I got from a girl On Macmillan site is .. her dentist said to rub Vaseline on gums .. my gums always bleed during brushing have since my first baby .. so think that's a good tip x

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Hi jules

Glad it went ok Hun , I'm up now and it's 2:56 am , yes not nervous just awake as aware of such a new thing happening tomorrow..also have Fec t,and then op and rads ...
Just taken a diazepam so il probably start rambling nonsense in a minute ..
It's harder with only because for me I have to do school run and stuff and just want to hide somedays , but I do have lots of offers of help to do that stuff; so I guess il use them during these next chemo weeks ..
Your wig set up sounds very lovely Hun , mine is a nice lady in a small room with boxes .. seeing her for a proper look on Tuesday..
I'm excited to be starting this and so glad to have all you for support.
Thanks for all the messages, il let you know how it goes.
Z xxxx

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Hi Everyone

Had my first FEC-T chemo today. The nurse was wonderful and it was easier than expected. I have no sickness as I have tablets for that. Actually I seem to have tablets for everything (mostly sickness and bowel related!) and I have to inject myself from day 3 to 10. Never done that before so should be interesting!!!

 

I'm having 3 FEC-T and then a CT scan and then 3 more sessions (unless the scan shows something they didn't expect). Then I have surgery to remove the area.

 

I got the recall letter 3 days after my 60th birthday and have a few nice treats I was bought to look forward to. Really hoping I'll be well enough to do them all.

 

Our NHS in Shropshire provides a wig and has an arrangement with a posh salon. The woman there was fab and she has a whole top floor dedicated to the wig service. I tried on 4 but couldn't decide between two of them so she ordered both in my colour. I chose one (called Dixie) yesterday. She said they are about £250 but it was free for me so I'm hoping to look okay.

 

I also need to lose about 2 (oh okay more like 3) stone to be a healthy weight and I'm hoping the steroids don't make me gain. I eat healthy meals but I'm bad at eating extra at family events or in the evenings!!!

 

So I'm feeling okay on Day 1 and my OH is doing everything! I commented today that I don't know how all you women that have children or elderly parents to care for are coping. I hope you all have good OH's and friends/family too. It's enough to be looking after ourselves! On the other hand I dont suppose you have much time to overthink stuff!

 

Thank you all for being out there. I know each treatment regime is different but it helps to read your tips and thoughts. This is all so alien to me as I've been fit and healthy and not had kids so very little doctor/hospital action in my 60 years!!!

 

Best wishes to you all. Jules

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Good luck zena for tomorrow xx

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Good luck Zena, I hope the acid drops work & the liquorice will certainly work on any constipation issues!
I'm thinking of all you ladies having your special juice now. I could never sleep the night before. No idea why. Wasn't particularly nervous just unsettled.
Please let us know how it goes

Jojo xx

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Mrs Cat it was called The Moonstone ( BBC learning ) & was linked to schools. Highly entertaining stuff. Scooby doo? Too highbrow I'll stick to Teletubbies 😆

Jojo xx

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Brilliant, thanks so much 😁 can't wait to try those, love Bakewell slices! Xx

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Mrs Cat ,

just a quick pic of the dairy free cakes ( scooby snacks)  i got .. the chocolate logs are very good ( i got 2 packs) and the bakewell slices and the coffee slices ,, haha all good xxIMG_2129.jpg

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Lol Jojo was that the detective one about the missing letter? If so, I thought it was fab too haha! Scooby doo next? 😋 xx

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Ha Jojo thats really made me laugh,, sort of thing I do.. I got into shadow hunters ( rubbish thing for teens on netflix) god its so rubbish but about the only thing I can keep my mind on at the moment is drivel!!
On your advice i went and got some acid drops and salt liquorice ( i love it),, see: its I'm like packing for a holiday.....yea put that on holidays from hell gloria hunniford !!
Im going a bit crazy I think now .. sorry xx

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Mrs Cat, I watched a detective mystery thingy (not usually my bag) & really got in to it, then found out it was aimed at children.
Sums my brain up really
Jojo xx

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Hi Zena, your tea sounds lush. Good luck for tomorrow, thinking really positive thoughts for you. I shall be looking for the dairy free cakes in Sainsbury's now, how on earth have they escaped me???!!! 😀

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Hi Jo, thanks for the tips re the teas. I shall try some of those. I need to use half a pint of oat milk to get a coffee that's not black lol so maybe fruit teas are the way to go. I do like peppermint, no so keen on Green tea but I think they do a green tea and lemon, that might be better. Good luck with your chemo hun. I hate being sick that's why I fear it so much I think but aren't the anti sickness drugs supposed to work wonders nowadays? Iv never been pregnant so no morning sickness to compare it too. I bet the wrist bands will help. Fingers crossed. Reflexology, im sure could be of benefit too? Xxx

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Hi All you fighters !!
Good to see you on here Sarah for as long as you need us Hun xx
Jigsaws sounds like a good idea - I did the hobbit one a few years ago ( it was soooooo hard ) but I did it and loved it , I'm a real stresshead and it was good for my cortisone levels ..

Yes - Sainsbury's new freefrom range is amazing love the cheese and the cakes ( dairy free) and in frozen section a few more bits for those lazy days ..,I'm cooking toad in the hole as I write and having cabbage leeks and spinach chopped and cooking in olive oil and cumin seeds and a dash of water .. really good 😊
Actually I'm freaking out a bit as starting chemo tomo and Feel like I'm going on some weird holiday and have to pack and mentally prepare constantly, weird feeling !!!!
Sparky I'm thinking of asking for ovaries removed after mx as think that's the feeder for my cancer . I'd be very interested in your research stuff xx
Fight on xxxxxxx

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Hi Maria, its funny you should say that, on diagnosis my surgeon said the same, asked me how I felt about the size of my breasts? He said if I were to consider reconstruction they like to make them smaller. I'm still thinking about it but I don't think I will go for reconstruction. For me, I don't think i could go through anymore surgery as im a bit of a wuss if im honest 😜. I've been thinking about a stick on one. My breast care nurse showed me them. Bet you look like a super model anyway hun 😀 xx

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Hi Jojo, now jigsaws sound like a plan! 😀 I shall get some in. Iv been watching TV films that have rubbish plots so it doesn't matter if I fall asleep or drift off! Ha! Xx

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Welcome Sallyann, our stories are so similar. Mine was lobular, stage 2, er and pr pos, her2 neg but i had one big one, 7.5 cm. Awaiting oncotype results too. I had mx on 19th Dec, results on 12th Jan and he said it would take 2-3 weeks to get the results back, so maybe another week to wait for me. The waiting is awful isn't it? Xx

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Hi h , like you i think i have a few stone to lose to be in normal range .though at this rate lol i may come out looking like a supermodel (i can dream ) .depending on chemo and what surgery is involved one of my consultants asked if i have ever considered a breast reduction as im quite big .apparently its an option for me at the end of treatment x

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😊😊 hello ladies ... I'm sort of holding my breath and tip toeing in here to say hi ...
I have been on other threads so know a couple of you already .. 👋🏻 Hi Zena and jo c 😁

A little about me .. diagnosed oct 28th (will never forget the date and it will forever have a date in my diary warning me to stay in bed under the duvet 😂) grade 2 lobular cancer, after MRI had a 4cm and 2cm lump and had mx on 22nd December .. recovered extremely well I have to say .. I am er+ and her2-
I am now in limbo land as waiting for oncotype result to come back before follow on treatment is decided ... so I'm really not sure yet whether I will stay with you ladies or tip toe back out again 🙈
Has anybody any idea how long oncotype results take to come back ... I should be used to waiting by now .. but .. we are always waiting to move forward aren't we?

Well, if you ladies don't mind, I will lurk about and pick up tips for if I should need them ..

Sarah xx

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Erm...no oestrogen = menopause! A recipe for a broken brain on its own! Add chemo into the mix & you're done for!
I couldn't even cope reading a book during chemo. Couldn't concentrate on the plot. Or remember the plot from the previous day. Literally lost the plot 😁
So I got OH to trawl charity shops for jigsaws. I got through one every couple of days. Saved my sanity I can tell you.
Unfortunately the poor memory hasn't improved. I write things down more now. God help me if I lose the list...

Jojo xx

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Hi all

 

Yes, I too have been reading about the China project and Jane Plant's books regarding the link between breast cancer and meat and dairy due to the animal oestrogens. Frankly, I'll give anything a go to try and prevent any recurrence...and as my cancer was highly oestrogen fueled, I thought it made sense to try and reduce the amount of oestrogen in my body if i can.I know that a lot of it is out of our control though, ie environmental.

 

I did talk to my breast care nurse about diet and she did make a point of saying to me that they havent suggested that I follow a vegan diet, however, she thought my plans were healthy and she made sure I was eating enough protein etc so I healed well after surgery and was getting all my vitamins and minerals from all the food groups.

 

I initially looked at doing a veggie diet but then found it quite easy to go without milk and cheese when I found oat and coconut milk and Sainsburys do some nice vegan cheese so plumped for a plant based diet with a bit of fish now and again otherwise I'll never be able to enjoy meals out again and I dont want life to become a total bore as I've given up alcohol too 🙂 There's not many restaurants or pubs near where I live that have a vegan menu. Just one I think. I've been making interesting wraps with red kidney beans and hummus this week and loving salads with vegetable samosas and spring rolls and homemade veggie soups. Eating tonnes of fruit as well and getting protein from mixed nuts. I feel well.

 

I bet Maria you are losing weight as you have been terrified and have had such a shock. I did too in November, lost about 10 lb in a matter of days. Put it all back on again now following my mastectomy and recovery! doh! I need to work on weight loss. I need to lose a good 3 stone to be in normal weight range. I disguise it well though as it's all over and I dont carry it i one particular place, though I do feel a bit lobsided now one of my huge bazookas has gone though. I'll be glad when I get my proper prosthesis which is weighted. I think my breast care nurse will contact me to go in soon as it's nearly been 6 weeks since my op.

 

Now I really am waffling and can't remember what everyone else has said. so will have to go back again later for another read and answer each one invidually I think, forgive me! Is anyone else having trouble retaining information and this is before any chemo! Cat Frustrated

 

Oh yes, the stress link.....my husband suffers with a long term health condition called Cystinuria which causes kidney stones and has made him quite depressed of late being in and out of hospital. He had a breakdown in February last year and struggles now he's back at work. His dad was also diagnosed in May last year with metastatic brain cancer (but is fortunately on immunotherapy "wonder" infusions and is doing really well) and his stepdad has been diagnosed with vascular dementia so with driving up and down the country and seeing them every weekend and trying to be supportive to them and his mum and stepmum, I think I have completely ran out of oomph and this has contributed to me getting ill.

 

I also work for the Trust where I am getting treated - a different hospital though. I'm a medical secretary in Orthopaedics. I also do complementary therapies, reflexology, aromatherapy, indian head massage, hot stones etc etc as my hobby (I used to do it part time as a business alongside my NHS work, but life just got too busy) so I'm very interested in complementary therapies alongside modern medicine.

 

I'm off now to watch the channel 5 film at 3 pm with a packet of salt and vinegar crisps - oooh I know how to live!!! lol!!

 

Much love to you all.

 

H xxx

 

 

 

 

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Hi jojo ive spent years trying to lose weight and now it seems to be dropping of me and ive not even started chemo yet .suddenly im not keen on losing weight x

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I lost a stone at Slimming world prior to my diagnosis & have since put it all back on. Chemo gave me a deep gnawing feeling in my stomach that I mistook for hunger. I smacked alot although lost my sweet tooth!
It was literally like being pregnant again. Had a massive thing about egg mayonnaise with tons if salt! And Wotsits. ...Round about day 4 was Domino's night. ..yeahhhhh.
Of course it's important to eat well, I do love veg & craved the citrus type fruits & haven't stopped that! I had taste changes but it only lasted a few days & hosp gave me Difflam mouthwash which is great but I found just brushing my teeth helped without numbing effect. During those days nothing tastes of anything unless it's sour. OH bought me a bag of acid drops. Highly recommended! Mints did nothing for me even the extra strong mints, couldn't taste them at all!
Anyway I'm trying to lose a few pounds before 2nd phase chemo starts & keeping as active as poss.

Jojoxx

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I have def started eating better and cut out the alcohol though im losing weight , not sure i would recommend this as weight loss plan mind 😁 im triple neg which i keep reading is unfortunate . I dont really understand the whole food in relation to breast cancer thing tbh .are there sites that help you know what you should eat or drink , my diet is pretty poor and very rarely eat during the day at work x

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Hello Mrs C,

 

I have started to eat more healthily as I have read about the link with meat and dairy. I don't drink milk because I just don't like it so I substitute for oat or almond milk. I haven't completely given up meat as I tend to cook it for the family but I have reduced it.  To be honest, it's not great loss for me.  I try to buy organic if I can but not always.  

 

Like Zena, I'm making drinks with turmeric, ginger and also fruit water.  Citrus fruits are supposed to be good and green tea.  I've also tried hemp tea.  I'm using lots of herbs and spice and a variety of fruit and veg and making lots of soups.  I've read that there seems to be a lower incidence of breast cancer in China and Japan, but not sure whether that's anectodatal or evidence-based.  Could be as a result of diet though, which is lower in meat and dairy.

 

My chemo starts on Monday so I'm still a bit in the dark.  I've heard different things from different people so I'm keeping an open mind.  I was thinking back to nausea during pregnancy.  I was never sick but felt dreadfully nauseous and tired for about 5-6 weeks.  I've ordered some sea sickness bands.  Thought it was worth a go.  I remember using them whilst I was pregnant.  Not sure they worked but the irritated the hell out of me so were a good distraction!

 

Anyway, I'm waffling too...

 

Jo xx

 

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Quick reply
Yes I'm Er+ no more known yet but given up dairy
Too and meat only rarely now .. everything helps ( I hope ) ..
Also drink lemon ginger honey and tumeric tea - my own blend - it's nice .xxx
Big love xx

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Ooo welcome Mrs Cat!

 

Like you I am also pr+ ER+ so interested to hear about a veggie diet. Is that because of the hormones in meat? I must admit I've been toying with the idea for a while as my daughter is vegan, so it wouldn't be a huge deal for me. I'd miss my spag bol though...(quorn mince does NOT cut it for me)

 

I'm on a clinical trial so I've already had neo-adjuvant chemo back in September. Had the last one in November then surgery (WLE & full node clearance) nearly 3weeks ago. I am due to start my FEC on 3rd Feb as a continuing part of the trial. Not looking forward to it but I have a fair idea of the routine now. I had the TC (Docetaxel & Cyclophosphamide) for my first lot so happy to give advice about SE's etc if you have that.

 

Just had a missed call from the other hospital in the trust, which will be doing my rads. Presumably about an appointment to set it all up post chemo! Blimey, what a ride eh?

 

I absolutely believe that stress causes disease in our bodies. I was very stressed at my old job a couple of years ago, never had a day off sick, worked unpaid overtime because the boss was such a cow & ended up with a broken Thyroid. 100% stress related as are most auto- immune diseases. I can't say my BC is down to stress as I was on HRT & my surgeon said I HATE HRT!!! But stress absolutely affects us. And how stressful is this whole experience?! I'm lucky that I feel completely mollycoddled by my hospital (I work there btw!) & am happy to put my full trust in them, never feel rushed or too much bother. 

 

Soooo I've waffled again....

Peace out my loves

JoJo xx

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Lots of love and good wishes to Jules1 for your chemo today xxx

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Thanks Zena and Maria, its lovely to chat and yes, I love the long posts too and the waffly ones 😀 its great to get all this stuff off my chest (sorry, no pun intended, i must stop saying that!! 😉) thanks re the chemo, yes I hope I don't have to have it but Surgeon was pretty sure i would, so if I do then I'll saddle up bravely with you lovely girlies and get on with it.

I've read different stories from people who've had it too and heard that it has improved so much over the years. My bc nurse said that so many work through it now whereas before it would have been impossible, which is encouraging. Im off work at the moment, due to go back on 14th Feb as they signed me off for 8 weeks. Can't wait to go back really for some structure and normality, tho bet im not saying that after a couple of weeks lol!

What an absolute ride this is. 2016 was the most stressful year ever with loads of worries for my family. What do you all think about the connection of breast cancer and very stressful times, any merit to it?

Also, have any of you changed your diet since diagnosis? As im ER and PR positive at 8 for both, iv given up meat and dairy. Never been a huge meat eater anyway and converted to oat milk and found some good vegan cheese so its not too bad. Got some great plant based diet books from The Works the other day so giving it a go. Anyway this is war and peace. Love H xxx

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Orange , not got any advice as not started yet , but wanted to say hello.ive heard mixed things about chemo , im having mine on order to shrink tumour for surgey once every 2wks apaz at lower dosage due to be so close together .my aunt had bc and 10 sesions of chemo years ago and she sailed through it .to the point i didnt even know she wa having it ..the unknown is scary thats for for xx

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Hey all
And Mrsorangecat ( could I call you MrsC if that's ok ? I'm a rubbish touch typer and mostly use my phone )
Welcome anyway Hun , and gosh what a pain it is when they don't do things in hospitals - do they not realise this is our precious lives ... and we are in a constant state of worry with our lives in thier hands ... sorry anyway I hope you get lithe results soon hunny and don't need chemo , but of you do we are here all together x
Just wanted to say - could we all agree that waffle is good - really good , and I love reading long posts ( hope that's ok with everyone) if we have to worry about being polite on here too that's just another thing to worry about lol ..
one day to go for me - good tip about grapefruit juice and sweets , I'l Def take some .. dreading mouth stuff ☹️...
big love fighters
Z xxxxxxxx

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Hi everyone, just wanted to join you ladies if I may please? 😀 I have stage 2 ILC, clear nodes after slnb and had mx on 19th December. My tumour was 7.5 cm and im 44 so because of the size of it and my age it has been sent for oncotype test to see if I need chemo or not. I'm waiting for an appointment with Oncology, although I rang today and they've not received a referral letter yet from the Breast Surgeon. I rang his sec and apparently the letter is still waiting sign off from him (from 12th Jan) so she's promised to get this moving for me. Frustrating! Always seem to be waiting for something don't we? I just desperately need to know now what the next stage will be.

It's so nice to be able to talk to fellow ladies going through this nightmare. Just wondered if any of you had the oncotype test? Big hugs to you all who have started your chemo already. I am terrified that Il have to have it. The not knowing is making it worse. Sorry im waffling now! Xx



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Sparky i agree with your statement regarding it would be fascinating if not so scary .the amount ive discovered about different bc that i didnt know excisted has amazed me .Also the amount of women who have this ghastly thing is astounding .its deffinately made me in past week see life very differently x

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Zena i agree that so called human error can and has altered your whole life.im curious to why bcn is trying to get hold of doc who i originally saw as she isnt my proper doc i went to her purely cause she was female and im quite shy about my body lol till past week or so .jojo think that what bothers me if i get the pitiful stares especially in job i do , but dont fancy wigs but that view may change .my friend is already going to buy me badanas bless her .she has been my rock past 2 weeks and today took notes at appointment cause tbh nothing was staying in my head lol xx

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JoJo thanks for the info. It really is so much to absorb, and I am normally quite good at stuff like this.. having never been ill/in hospital b4 (though lost my sister 2years ago to cancer - she was 43- I'm now 42..) it's an almost fascinating experience if it wasn't so scary!!
I blew my mind a little reading on herceptin here last night, side effects etc, so will do the McMillan site tomorrow. Think I need a night off science lol.
All of you due to start soon, hope it is bearable and you get plenty of rest. Will pray for you all (hope that's not controversial 😕) and keep reading.. wigs will b my route too I think - I have long hair and to b without will be too much for me..
Waffling now, sorry ladies xxx

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Jules good luck for tomorrow.
Siege is a very good word. I prepared a bag (yes a bag) full of food beside my bed that I thought I'd like but ate very little of it in the end! Although the Haribo tangfastics were handy. Anything sour for me with the taste changes! I even had grapefruit juice which I detest normally.
Please let us know how it's going when you feel up to it
Jojo xx

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Oh ladies such horror stories!
Very glad that you're in the right place now. It's scary enough without having to deal with that crap.

On the subject of wigs, I was adamant I wasn't having one. I hate that "wiggy" look & went on to spend a small fortune on hats, half of which I've never worn! Bought some scarves from charity shops & booked an appt with the Headstrong ladies at my hospital to show me how to use them. Think I've worn them twice! Hats are sooooo comfy & no faff! Then I decided I was fed up with the pity stares & bought a wig from a recommended hairdresser. Everyone thinks it's amazing. It's so like my old style & colour it's unreal. It wasn't cheap but worth it to stop those looks. I don't wear it alot, just when I feel I can't deal with the stares! Advice-buy a bamboo liner to go underneath. Live better with cancer website sells them.

Sorry I've rambled a bit! So good to chat to you all

Jojo xx

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Not both sorry - they found nothing significant they said !!

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Maria
The same thing happening to me - I went in as I found a lump - the clinic did ultra sound and found both but sent me home with no follow up - and so when I felt lump after that I thought .. it's fine they looked at it .. that was last January and now it's nearly 6 cm and nodes .. they left me and with a family history as my mum died at 36 of bc ..
Terrible actually and I'm angry about it - thinking I might do something if I can ? But after a I ve fought this then il see ..
it's frustrating knowing we have caught it and they left us ... my doc said human error .. I said tell my 5 year old that ..
Anyway , we are here now and gonna kick this thing fir sure Hun xxxxxxx

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Hi Maria, Jules, Jojo and I will be just a bit ahead of you with chemo so might be able to give you info on SEs. We're all different and have different plans so I guess until you've got the first one out of the way you won't know exactly how it will affect you. It's helped me hearing from others who have been through it before me. Some of my friends had very few side effects and others have said that the first cycle is the worst. After that the nurses can change your meds to suit what you need. I have that to look forward to next week 🙄

I will try and post a photo of my wig but can't do it from my phone. I thought I'd try it ou and very embarrassingly, I got lots of compliments. I daren't take it off now in case people realise it was a wig!! I'm not good with scarves (not very girly) but will give it a go. My mum got me a Handy Band from Seasalt www.seasaltcornwall.co.uk. They are multi-purpose, headband, scarf, bandana, balaclava... Lovely and soft too.

Jo xx

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Hi zena , glad to hear your new hospital was a good move .im feeling quite confident in my hospital as everything is moving quite quickly. Not overly glad about the triple neg result but chemo works well on it apparently .my bcn is trying to catch up with my original doctor , not sure if thats regarding her diagnosis of me 10 months ago , think i feel dissapointed that had i been sent for scans back then it would not be as advanced as it is now ..xx

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Hey Maria,
Just like our Jo said to jules - welcome not right but welcome ..
Yes me too with the head scarfs 👳🏻‍♀️👨‍🌾💂🏻‍♀️👩🏻‍🎨but then after Jos fabulous post about wigs I'm gonna give it a go 👩🏻👧🏻👩‍🎤... (emoji overplay sorry but def some ones for us cancer fighters in there lol)
So glad it's all positive for you - mine were rubbish so I changed hospitals and it's all good now .
Love to all the fighters
Zena xx

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Hi all , im starting chemo 8th feb before surgery .triple neg it seems , 8 sessions once every 2 weeks .despite size of tumour and underrm nodes both consultants seem positive. Going head scarf and badana shopping soon , not sure I'll go down wig option , see how it pans out feeling little nervous about side effects of chemo .think i need to start eating healthy not my favourite idea lol . Hope ur all doing well .x maria

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Hi Jules, welcome seems like the wrong thing to say but welcome anyway. Please let us know how things go for you tomorrow. I have been asking people I that I know about their chemo experience and it varies. Most have said that the day itself is ok and the SEs don't kick in straight away.

Hospital (as a patient) is new to me, although I did work in one for 20 years and have 5 kids...I didn't make a habit of staying in!

Good luck for tomorrow and keep coming on here to chat.

Jo xx

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Hey jules
Sorry you are here; but good to have you along with us on this ...,
Siege is funny and yes Luke preparing for battle .. that we will win .
Love and big hug
Zena xxx

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I'm having my first chemo session tomorrow (thurs 26th) so I've joined this thread. I've tried to read stuff and all my family have been great so I feel as prepared as I can be. Collected my wig today too.

 

I've not really been ill throughout mt life (60 years!) and haven't had children so all this hospital stuff has been completely new to me. I'm hoping I won't be too much of a wuss tomorrow. My OH is being fantastic and we almost feel like we are preparing for a siege.

 

The Lingden Davies Centre in Shrewsbury is almost brand new and all the staff have been great so far (apart from one oncologist who was so abrupt) so I'm feeling positive.

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Zena, I went wig shopping on Monday with a friend. I got it cut and styled and had a giggle. Loved it so much I left the salon with it on! I got so many compliments doing the school run that I haven't dared go out without it...and I've not started chemo yet!! On the plus side, it has been my choice to wear it and not a necessity as a result of hair loss. Hopefully by the time I need it I (and everyone else) will be used to the new look.

Jo xx