Welcome to the BCC forums, I'm sorry to read you're having a worrying time at the moment. Whilst you are waiting for the other users to reply with their knowledge and experiences do give the BCC helpline a call on 0808 800 6000. Here you can share your thoughts and concerns with someone who will offer you a listening ear as well as emotional support and practical information. Lines are open weekdays 9 to 5pm and Saturday 10 to 2pm.
Best wishes Sam, BCC Facilitator