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Good news, but worrying!

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Fuffs123
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Re: Good news, but worrying!

Thank you. Whatever the outcome, I'm lucky to have a supportive husband with me, even though he's still not so good with cleaning the toilets, lol. I feel so sorry for some of our club members, handling it on their own and with small children too.
pandorra1
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Re: Good news, but worrying!

Good luck for Friday, we will be here for you xxxx

Fuffs123
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Re: Good news, but worrying!

I'm getting my results on Friday and am hoping I will only be joining the radiotherapy and hormones club but my mind has already strayed to the worrying about a recurrence bit. Your posts are so helpful and reading them has channelled my thoughts in to a more positive place, hooray! Xx
Hope56
Member

Re: Good news, but worrying!

I'm in the same boat after two attempts to achieve clear margins. I know that I'm 'luckier' than many but the recurrence thing sits in my head. I am doing my very best to push it away and count my blessings. Maybe as time moves on we will think about it less. I hope so and refuse to let it dictate my life - it's done enough of that already !
pandorra1
Member

Re: Good news, but worrying!

Thanks Sharon, and you are perfectly right in what you say. This is why this forum is so very special, we can all talk. It really helps. And yes, we will be looked after, so lets get on with our next journey, when we can discuss what we think!   Lol xxxxxx

13gerbera
Member

Re: Good news, but worrying!

Yay, so glad you got a good result Pandorra and will be joining us on the radiotherapy board soon 🙂

 

I've done my best not to get too concerned about recurrence as, other than have the treatments prescribed for us, there is not much we can do to influence it one way or the other and the regular monitoring we will all get from hereon means that if the worst does happen, at least we know they'll find it quickly. I do think it is important to just live your life to the full though because a life lived in fear is no sort of life at all.  

 

Take care

xx

Sharon

pandorra1
Member

Good news, but worrying!

Hi special ladies, results yesterday and told all clear , lymph nodes clear so radiotherapy and drugs. See onc. In 3 weeks and then 3 weeks of radiotherapy everyday. Of course I was pleased, cried, for the first time since this thing trying to move in with me, BUT, will it come back.  I suppose I have to be positive and get on with my life.  Does anyone else who is having radiotherapy feel like this? I feel awful to whinge but I know this is the only place where I can get honest answers. Thank you and I send masses of love to you all. Xxxxx