How are you doing? I've been moving house which was 'fun' to say the least. Hope you are ok, I will catch up with your news on the other threads...did you say the lung mets is the one you go on most frequently?
Hugs to you and look forward to hearing from you
love Sue xxx
So sorry I haven't replied but I have had to move house as I couldn't afford my mortgage anymore now I am on disability pay. To be honest I am pleased as I haven't got the huge pressure of paying that every month. 20 years and 4 kids later though you can imagine what a task it was, it took 16.5 hours to move everything and I am still unpacking and feel completely exhausted! Thanks so much for writing and yes this is reassuring for me. Can I ask whether yours is ER positive and how long ago when you were first diagnosed? As mine came back 6 weeks after chemo the Onc just seems at a loss to know what to say and can only talk about the letrazole which I'm on, which doesn't seem to be working as the tumours in my groin are growing by the day and now really painful. I have an appointment at the Royal Marsden as I asked my GP for a second opinion. I know there is no miracle cure just need an Onc who is more proactive and prepared to discuss more options which may be available later on if these lumps continue to pop up in the lymph nodes and later on when it spreads as he said it is 'more thank likely to'.
Anyway, it is lovely to hear that your chemo has worked you must be thrilled, I shall be keep everything crossed for you that it stays away. Lovely to chat and thank you again for getting in contact.
Love Sue xxx
Hi Helen, sorry just seen all your latest news on another thread. So sorry it's not what you had hoped. Bad news is exhausting i find but you sound incredibly strong and certainly an inspiration to someone like me who has just started this'second' journey. Speacial thoughts and hugs to you love sue x
Hi Helen, saw my onc today I checked and i am Er positive 7/8 Her2 negative. I am on letrozole and have next scan in aug. Onc won't commit to any other treatment until after the next scan. Thanks again love Sue x
Dont know what stage the secondaries are will ask Oncologist. The original was HER positive? Glad to hear there are several options for treatment and will certainly look at the thread you suggested. Thank you so much for welcoming me and look forward to speaking soon.
Thank you so much for your encouraging words. Good luck with the Capecetabine and your Oncologist definately sounds more optimistic than mine! I'm so glad to have joined this forum as I thought I could deal with this on my own and I have been until the secondary lumps appeared so soon after chemo. So thank you and look forward to talking soon.
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Hi Sue...so sorry to hear your news. I know how devastated you and your famiky must be. I was dx last month with secondaries in lung with 2 nodes...paratracheal and hilar. My primary was 9 yrs ago and I had another primary in tge same spot 5 yrs ago. I start my chemo...Capecetabine..in 10 days time. Ive been told 3 cycles to take me up to mid august then they'll scan again to check if responding. !My onc sounded a little bit more optimistic I think than yours! Some just dont have a way with words do they??
He told me that there are a lot of options to try and new drugs to treat metastases are coming out all the time. My bc nurse says a lot of oncologists are treating it more like a chronic disease now as ladies are living longer and managing it succesfully with treatment. There are plenty on here who are living proof of that. Im sure you will be fine, There are probably a lot of lovely ladies on here in similar situation to you and they'll be along to give you advice and support too, as they have with me.
Sending you a big hug ((((()))))
Love bev xxxx
I was diagnosed with Grade 3C last October and had 13 out of 15 lymph nodes infected. I had had a mammogram in July which was clear, so as you can imagine the news was a huge shock to me and my family. I had mastectomy with implant reconstruction in October 2013, followed by chemo (FEC-T). 6 weeks after the chemo finished in April, and just as I was due to start the radiotherapy, I felt a minute lump in my neck above the collarbone. The biopsy confirmed that the cancer was back after only 6 weeks. I then had a CT scan which showed that I had further enlarged lymph nodes in other armpit and left groin, these were also biopsied and confirmed as Secondary cancer. I have now finished the radiotherapy for the original area and neck together with one single blast to the groin but nothing to the other armpit. Has anyone else been through similar with the secondary lymph node involvement and could you let me know what course of treatment was suggested. My Oncologist now just looks really serious when we meet and says the cancer cannot be cured and I can only have a limited number chemo cycles. I am strong, determined and wlll fight this not just for me but for my 4 amazing kids and my wonderfully kind, patient and supportive partner. Thank you I would really love to hear from you x