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Having a down in the dumps day

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi, sorry to hear you having such a bad day, having just been diagnosed DCIS I keep talking the talk - going to be positive, not going to let this ruin my life for the next month whilst waiting for surgery etc etc, got to say I do feel quite tearful. Got friends coming over tonight and we're going to have a takeaway and a few drinks so hoping that will make me feel better. Hang on in there, we can all beat this.

Carol xx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Oh Yvonne

I am a part time accountant.

Sue xxx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi Yvonne

2 Girls
8 Grandsons
married 3x
been with OH 15yrs married 5
dog,cat,aquarium,cockatiel
51
live in derbyshre
Thanks i am feeling a bit better today

so still similarities.

Thanks Linda glad you are ok,had a few bacardi & cokes last night so didn't need a tablet to drop off,but took a nytol middle of the night. I seem to get by on pills and alcohol lately.

today i am thinking oh come on girl pull yourself together.

any way love to all

Sue xxxx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi Sue

Are you feeling a bit better today?

Ok this is me!!! 5kids 3 girls 2 boys, 3 grandaughters. Im 50 live in SE London. Married twice been with long term partner 14 years. I am an artist. One dog, 2 goldfish. Carer for mum (80) and friend.

Any comparisons?

Yvonne xxx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi Sue,

I was in exactly the same position as you this time last year. I also had to get sleeping pills from my doctor. I just kept thinking ....'this isn't happening to me'....

Here I am a year later and whilst my DCIS resulted in a mastectomy for me, but now I'm fine and getting on with my life.

I hope all goes well for you. (((hugs)))

Linda x

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Its looking more and more like it every time we speak

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Do you think we could be dopplegangers lol x

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Well Yvonne

I let my OH read mine . This is getting stranger by the minute.

Sue xxxx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi Sue

OMG this is spooky, I did exactly the same thing last year, I also got my OH to read it so he knew how I felt about everything.

Nope nothing yet. I hope they havent lost my smears (just my luck) I will ring his sec again on Monday.

Take Care
Yvonne xx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Thanks Girls

Last year when I was having some relationship problems I started to write my feelings in book, being able to express how you feel is v important and posting on this site helps cus you know that someone who understands is listening.

Getting it out of your system helps.

Yvonne have you heard anything yet.

Suexxxx

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Sue,
Keep faith, you will get through this.
We are all here with you, we know exactly what you are going through.
Look after yourself
Sophie

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Re: Having a down in the dumps day

Hi Sue

Sorry that you are feeling down. I am the other way, I cant eat much at the moment, (still waiting). I wouldnt worry about it too much, the eating thing, if it makes you feel better do it.

Wednesday seems a long way off I know, try to keep busy (easier said than done, I found it hard to concentrate on stuff) and treat yourself. Go on a shopping spree.

Sending you lots of ((((((hugs)))))))

Yvonne xxx

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Having a down in the dumps day

Hi

Not having a good day today. I just keep crying for no reason(well not for no reason but you'll know what I mean)

I had a WLE last Thursday no biopsy done they have just taken away the suspicious calcifications.I had the same op on the other breast last year but had a biopsy which showed DCIS only low grade though.This time I don't know what they have taken until I go for the results next Wednesday.

I have tried to carry on as normal and thought It will just be like last year, but then my mind wanders and I start thinking what if.i'm not sleeping ( been to Docs got some sleeping tablets) You all know the score you get up feeling positive,put some makeup on and try to look human but its like a mask.

I have also had a eat everything in sight day, not the normal things you would associate with comfort eating just what was in the fridge that didn't require cooking also had chips and curry from the chip shop,WHY!!!!!!!!!!!! I NOW FEEL FAT.

I know I am going on and that a lot of you are in a worse position than me but each stage that we reach everyone on this site will have experienced.

Going now can't see , TEARS

Hope you are all having as good a day as can.

Suexxxxxx