You are right - it is a challenge AND we are still here!! This journey has made changes to my personality I don't mind saying. I am far more tolerant and things that used to matter don't seem to when you have had a brush with death.
I just got a shock in that when I was ill we sold some assets (because we were going on a spending spree) and I just got my share of the Capital Gains Tax I have to pay. It is a giggle in that I am glad I am here to be able to pay it! We never did go on that spree because I got better xxx