Hi Trish - just wanted to say hello and how sorry I am to hear of the difficult time you're having. I'm 66, had a double lumpectomy and axillary node clearance on the right side in June 2014 and am still having quite a bit of pain and numbness in my upper right arm and shoulder. Have been told this could last for a 'long time' by both the surgeon and oncologist, but no timescale given. Apart from that I'm feeling fine, but do get quite easily tired at times.
Anyway, enough of my moans ...... I just wanted to wish you well. This is a wonderful site and you'll get lots of help and support from it. Take care, stay strong and keep on fighting.
All best wishes, Margaret