I am sorry you are going through this difficult time. I am sure some of our users will be along to offer support soon.
You may also want to try posting on our Surgery Board to give users more of a chance to see your post.
In the meantime please do call our helpline at 0808 800 6000 who will be able to talk to you about both procedures and offer a friendly ear.
Late opening Wednesday 9am-7pm,