I have cancer

[Strudel]

I just wants to say hi and sorry about your diagnosis although it sounds like a positive one (as much as it can be!). I haven't had my op yet so can't help you with the specifics.

[Jas58]

Contact the helpline and they will put you through to IT team who will change it for you

[blueash]

So sorry you are having to join us. Don't concern yourself with pain because you can have medication to help with that. Carrying your toddler will be an issue - do you have anyone else in the house that can help you? If so you will have to let them  but if not then you will have to train her to put herself in the buggy or car seat and provide a step for her to get in and out of bed or cot if she is still in one. You can still give cuddles and hugs either in bed or on the sofa just no lifting!

I only had a lumpectomy and was not allowed to left anything heavier than a pint of milk for a couple of weeks.

[Astoneman]

Also, how do I change my screen name?

[Astoneman]

On Monday I got my biopsy results. I have breast cancer stage 1 grade 2. I see my surgeon on Monday and will have a mastectomy and reconstruction in the new year. I'm worried most about the pain and not being able to lift, carry and hold my DD who will be two in January.