Hi
I have been having problems for a while now. I used to get mastitus when I was breastfeeding my three girls. Then about two years ago I got it again so I was sent for a mamagram as I hadn’t breast fed for almost 10 years as my youngest daughter is almost 12.
The mamagram was clear but then I started to get what I called a leaky boob the week or so before my period started. This started causing me problems as I would get stuck to my bra, so when I took my bra off at night I would also take off some of my nipple ouch now that did hurt.
We were due to go on holiday in oct 08 so I went back to the dr’s they gave me some great dressings but said I should go back and see the dr when I got home. While we were on holiday I noticed that a flat patch had appeared on my boob.
When I got home I went back to the dr. The dr examined me and found a lump that I was completely unaware of. She then referred me to the breast clinic.
I went to breast clinic and they did a mamgram and ultrasound. From what they saw they also did a biopsy. The consultant then spoke to me and hubby and said that they did not like what they had seen.
I went back the following week for the results and they confirmed it was cancer. They arranged for me to go for a bone scan and ct scan the following week. I was told the results would take 7 to 10 days. On xmas eve the breast care nurse called to say she had the results of my tests and it was good news. Both of my scans were clear. She made me an appointment to go back on new years eve.
I went back new years eve and was told that they want me to have a masectomy in the next four weeks as I have an agressive lump. Then I will be having chemo and possibly radio therapy followed by Herceptin.
I have shocked everyone on how strong and positive I am dealing with this situation. Family and friends are falling apart and crying, which I really cannot be doing with. I have had people deliberatley avoid me, I have had people visit who don’t normally visit.
I have a husband and 3 beautiful daughters who I need to stay strong for. I think I have probably also shocked myself as I did not realise I was actually this strong myself. Obviosuly I know as this year goes on I could feel very different. But I intend on taking each day as it comes and I do not intend on letting this lump take over my life.
At the end of the day there is a cancerous lump in my boob, so the dr’s are going to chop off my boob and get rid of the lump. They are then going to zap me to try and make sure the cancer has completely gone, followed by a course of Herceptin to give me the best possible chance of no re-occurence. What more could I ask them to do.
all the dr’s keep saying is that I am so young (39) and what great news it is that both my bone scan and ct scan were clear.
So that is my story so far