Hi LozaB
Welcome to the BCC discussion forums, you've come to the right place for some good, honest support from the many informed users of this site.
While you are waiting for replies, could I suggest you give our helpline team here a ring and have a chat with the staff, they're here to support you through this. Calls are free 0808 800 6000, lines open Mon-Fri 9-5 and Sat 10-2
Also, I see you say you have read up on Pagets, but in case you haven't read the BCC publication, I've put the link for you below.
http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/diagnosed-breast-cancer/pagets-disease-breast-bcc38
Take care,
Jo, Moderator