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'June Jewels' - Precious and shining through :)

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PS. There was some chat about nail damage last night. A kind friend sent me some of Defiant Beauty's nail oil. It certainly smells and feels very nice, time will tell if it helps... http://www.beautydespitecancer.co.uk/shop/body/defiant-beauty-nail-oil-4g

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Chelle, my wig was from Renee of Paris (ooh lala except actually made in China, I think). It looks and feels pretty good. Though its still a wig and not for this weather. Mine is called Miranda.
Had to laugh at the story of the fan blowing tiny hairs everywhere. They get everywhere anyway! I'm wearing a buff inside all day to try & minimise on the hoovering. I don't count hoovering my head, which is now part of my morning "beauty" routine.
Katherine, I am finding my SEs are the same but different 2nd time round. Feeling a bit better coz no monster period this time. But am definitely a bit queasier, have had to break out the back-up granisetron tablets as well as the Domperidones & dexamethasone. But the fatigue and sudden naps are still with me. I did get off comparatively lightly I think, having read what some of you went/are going through.

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Hi ladies, hope it's ok to post here - I've also joined the July thread.
I'm going for my first chemo (fec) session today and just wondered whether there are any foods/drinks etc that should be avoided over the course of the treatment?
Thanks

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Hi Katherine, sleep fairies evading me too (steroids & upset tum!))....Good luck for tomorrow,(actually later on today!!) I think the fatigue gets worse each treatment, but i suppose everyones different. Hope you get on ok & certainly hope you dont end up in hospital again!...xx

Good luck also to Fiona,Jackie, NicJ,& Fi.....watch out for the barmans stale nuts ;-)!...xx

Sandra xxx
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well hi to all,
good luck to everyone going to get their cocktails today, had to start steriods yesterday, hence no sleep as yet, probably fall asleep just before i have to get up, have to be there at 10am, due to have a picc line inserted first, so will most likely be a long day, embarassing if i fall asleep, oh coming with me, he can sleep on a clothes line and doesnt understand why i cannot sleep, he has a lot of health problems so between us we make a good pair.
this will be cycle 2, do you get different s/e each time? so difficult last time and ending up in hospital, will be so glad when it is September , hopefully chemo will over, then have radiotherapy to look forward to, i feel i am wishing my life away, as loads of others have said, friends say things like oh by christmas you will be fine, sometimes i could hit them no one really understands unless they are going through themselves as you all know.
well anyway good luck to all,
Katherine

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Well spoke too soon, rested well this morning then mid afternoon got hideous cramps in my tummy & have basically not been off the loo since! 😞 .....( hope you've all eaten your tea!)
not sure whether to let it run its course or take some immodium?

Glad to hear back from Vicki & Joan, maybe I should have avoided the stale greasy nuts yesterday too!!

Will be trying to watch Apprentice in a bit, like you Chelle not that keen on either girl (especially the dark haired one, think she'd be a nightmare to work with) but suppose they had better business plans than the boys!!

Sandra xx

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Ann - only managed the essentials, sons' school shirts. Just feeling really sorry for my husband at the moment because he has been fantastic and is doing loads of extra stuff that I normally do. If I feel ill later I'd rather he's able to help me rather than having to iron :-). Hope you feel cooler soon. Maybe you need to hoover your whole body before being fanned 😉

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Vicki & Joan - glad you are back from the bar safely and avoided the stale nuts! I asked onc about the herceptin trial and he said he made the decision for them not to take part in the trial and doesn't feel there is sufficient evidence to say 6 months is enough so has recommended that I take the full dose regardless.
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IRONING............ YOU ARE HAVING A LAUGH. Can I have what you are on please.

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Hi everyone, another Jewel safely back from the bar, and feeling ok so far. First trip out in a scarf rather than a wig as it's just too hot.

Lols - sorry I hadn't thanked you for your advice. Now the chemo unit has said the DN only needs to try to withdraw if flushing seems difficult ie there is a resistance. So I'll see how it goes on Friday.

Vicki - glad you're back safe too. Look after yourself and we'll both need to drink lots in this heat.

Faye - big hugs and keep your chin up. Keeping busy is a good distraction but it's hard in the heat and if you're tired anyway.

How much of the ironing will I get done before either SEs or the heat stop me?

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Hi all, just back after a long day drinking fabulous cocktails...The bar tender nuts were a bit stale and greasy in this heat so I declined them 😉
Definitely felt more uncomfortable with the cold cap today it seemed way colder, felt nauseous too but thats eased now im home. Will catch up properly tomorrow, need to lie down for a bit.

Take care every one
Xxx

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Anne - I seem to get bruises that don't shift, had 1 on my thigh for about 5 weeks now that hasn't faded at all!
I'll be watching the apprentice as well but I can't stand either of the girls x

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OMG there are some bl**dy awful wigs out there! I've just tried on 12 and didn't like one of them! half of them felt like straw!
I tried on 3 by Raquel Welch that I'd looked at online and quite liked ......well they must do some bl**dy styling on them for the photos as they looked nothing like and I looked about 100!

Oh well - might try the place in Manchester lover the weekend and see if they have anything else - mind you seems as its currently 28.5 degrees not sure a wig was a wise idea today! My head was dripping by the time I got to the shop!

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Ann - yes i am the same, bruises and marks that have nearly gone both sort of seem to have come back a bit after each session. Also my boob is still green from the dye after my op which was at the beginning of may x

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Chelle- if he doesnt appreciate it tell him his head will be in the oven next time not on the plate
fiona - not sure who will win the apprentice, wasnt keen on either til the other week but both seem to have quite good business plans. Might try a cheeky beer whilst watching it.
update on the housework - zilch done!!!! Am waiting til its cooler later, thats my excuse and im sticking to it.
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Maxie - we need to laugh and I am glad I managed to get you to laugh. I have found a drawback to the numerous fans though.

All the surfaces are now coated in a foot of dust and tiny hairs - it seems the industrial sized fan has removed all the bristles from my poisoned being and dumped them everywhere, is there no let up in this nightmare.

Is anyone finding wounds do not heal ? I am covered in stratches/nicks etc from life on the farm when I am able to get out there, and nothing is healing. Simple scratches that would scab and heal in 48 hours just sit there unhchanged.

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Faye - agree that the heat is too much, normally I would love it. Don't overdo it with the housework, but try and keep busy, I think it does help on the low days. Big hug from me x

Jackie - "see" you at the bar tomorrow, hope we get some hunky barmen, think a Pimms would be good in this heat?
i am the same, up and down the stairs all day, lucky if I can remember even one thing at a time.
Proud Mum, congrats on ED's achievements, that's fantastic.

Sandra - take it easy, so jealous no nausea, maybe I'll be luckier this time. However, that tiredness sounds rough, promise you won't overdo it, just rest.

Chelle - M&S food a good idea, we had some last night. OH had a steak and ale pie (made chips and peas to go with it) and I had a moussaka ( lovely with some fresh asparagus). Both from Gastropub range, 2 for £6. If OH does not appreciate you and the gesture, it's fine to pop his head in the dinner.
My nails have been fine, touch wood, just been using lots of nail strengthener. Might invest in the Nailoid too, add to my ever-growing BC expenses list.
Enjoy shopping and hope onc appointment goes well.

Catch up later, Apprentice final permitting! What do we think - Luisa or Leah? Plus remember it's on at 8pm tonight!

Fiona
xx

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I'm off shopping in Leeds shortly and then got onc appt at 6pm. I might buy another wig from the Victoria Quarters as I've now gone wig mad. May never bother going back to hair at this rate! I've now got used to getting ready in 5 seconds flat and can't imagine spending an hour with the GHD'S every day! I also purchased some fake tan (never been a fan but a friend recommended Rodial clear Brazilian gel) as I'm sick of everyone looking healthy and me looking a pale shade of blue! So streaky skin here we come!
I need to check with the onc as I seem to have a line popping out from my frankenboob scar right down my stomach! Kinda looks like a big vein popping out......hmm...... Not looking forward to whipping my clothes off in this heat though - best pack a deodorant and some wet wipes to freshen up 1st (only just got out of a cold bath!)

might go a buy some nice tea from M&S and drowned the OH in kindness - maybe guilt might spur him into action (or I can dunk his head in his plate if not!)

Ladies who were having nail issues - I bought a leather buffer and some Nailoid buff & shine cream a while back off Amazon and my nails have never looked better or been as strong. If you do it every day - only need a little dot of the paste on the middle of each finger and then brush with the buffer towards the tip for about 1 minute a finger and in about 1 week your nails look like they have clear varnish on and it makes them really waterproof. Only cost about £8-9 for the 2 and the paste will last forever you use so little. You can also get the buffers from beauty suppliers and on eBay but you need a leather one. I've had loads of comments about my nails - seem to be doing the trick of deflecting attention from my head!

Hope the barflies are all doing ok x

Catch you later x

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Afternoon ladies,

got up out of bed, sat in shade for an hour maybe, now exhausted & back on bed!.....no bad nausea this time so thats good, just a lot more tired. Like we've all been saying its bloomin typical we have a heatwave (which Id usually love ) when we've got all this chemo crap to go through!.....still, most of us would have been in work anyway & moaning that we couldnt be in it! 🙂

Ann you make me laugh with your graphic descriptions!!....ive got a pedestal fan next to the bed as our bedroom is like a greenhouse at the mo, maybe should invest in some more, like the idea of the steategic placing!!...xx


May try hoovering my head this afternoon Jackie, sounds like fun!!....my ED said when we all go to York it'll be like Roald Dahl Witches when we get to the Hotel!....bloomin cheek!......Enjoy the prizegiving this aft. 'Proud Mum'.....like you have been ripping scarves off the minute I come through the door....im finding just a straw hat easier as gives a bit of shade.
Ditto the running upstairs full of purpose & then wandering round trying to remember what I so urgently needed....still its the only excercise I get too!!...xx

Fiona, yes could really do with a big storm to clear the air,feeling a bit stifled at the mo!....xx


Joan, read your post re DN not being able to sort Picc for you.....did you see the comment that a lovely nurse put under yours?...(Lois I think) it didnt appear till later on because she's new to our site....hope you get on ok today & have a moan, seems lack of communication is a big prob in hosp depts....xx


Marion really hope the cough improves for you thought you'd got the perfect 'cure' when the ventolin was suggested by Pat, lets hope the spray helps....must be so frustrating for you!...xx


Chelle so sorry OH has his Eeyore head on....typical man won't go & seek help when needed....maybe you going away for the weekend might prompt him into action?....you really cant take onboard others problems at this time, you must put yourself first & not feel guilty about it....xx


Gus glad your feeling good after our trip to the bar ....i can cope with anything else but nausea (&the heat at the mo!) so far so good!
Thanks for putting the 'spoon theory' link up, am on i pad so not sure how to do!..xx



Vicki think we'd all like a go of the CC today.....head hoover first tho lol!.... xx



Hope all others at the bar today get on ok & that the hangovers arent too bad!...xx


sandra xx
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Hello all
Busy at the bar today- don't drink it all as I'm due in tomorrow.
Chelle, sorry to hear your OH is not taking up the help he needs- it is impossible to make people seek help, and even if he went on your insistence, if he is not willing then it would not be helpful. I hope he manages to make that step himself, soon. I've just turned 40. No crisis, only the hope that I get another 40 years. It has annoyed me every time one of my friends (many of whom, because they were school or university friends, have turned 40 this year too) have moaned about getting older, or grey hairs, or wrinkles. It would've annoyed me anyway, even BBC. Now, it makes my blood boil. But it is human nature isn't it- we can't always keep a focus on how things could be much worse (even me, now, I sometimes feel that life has dealt me a terrible blow, then I think of those who have not caught it so early, or who had not yet had their children, or who have less support or resources than I, and try to get some perspective. Not always easy). If he is depressed, it will be even harder for him to put himself in your shoes and see how you are feeling etc. Maybe some time away from him will cheer you up and give him a bit of time to think. And if that doesn't work, put him on the naughty step 😉
At least the Haven gave you a laugh, I would have found it impossible if someone was snoring. Its like when someone farts in the lying down bit at the end of an exercise class- everyone else seems to manage a straight face, and I am the one always almost weeing with laughter.
Cress the minion thing made me laugh too. I thought I'd look more Jessie J, but in actual fact I look more like one of Roald Dahl's witches, or that man out of the goonies. Especially as I have put on 4lbs this chemo cycle!!! However, now my chemo brain is getting worse and worse, I am burning off lots of calories walking upstairs, forgetting what I went there for, coming back down, realising what it was, going up, getting distracted, coming back down, realising I've forgotten the thing I went for, etc etc. I feel like an easily distracted goldfish.
Anyway, off to a prize giving at ED's school this afternoon. She has won the academic prize for her form- best all round performance in all subjects, I'm so proud of her 🙂 It's too hot for wiggy, so I'm going in a headscarf - less embarrassing than me whipping off my wig half way through. I've given my head another hoover in preparation this morning, it's quite addictive.
Love to all, Jackie xx

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I usually love the sun but it is just getting on my nerves now, typical we will probably have the best summer weather wise we've had in ages.
Hope all that went to the bar yesterday are feeling ok.
Good luck to Vicki, Cress, Cazzer, Joan and Titus.
Joan - what a pain you're having with the suppossed professionals. They sound like right plonkers. As if you need all the stress. Big hug.
Ann- my onc said the fatigue will probably get worse with each cycle
Marion - hope your nose spray works as offers some relief
Fiona - think it was best to postpone your day out. I was suppossed to have met a friend yesterday but when got up just didnt feel right. I perked up by lunch but was glad I took it easy. Plenty more times to look forward to when we are finished with treatment, and we need to look after ourselves at the moment.
Chelle - I ordered my wig from China, but not from the company you used, so don't feel bad, and even if I had it wouldbn't have been your fault anyway. Sorry to hear the OH is being a moron. He def needs a kick up the bum. Having said that I suppose like we say you can never describe how this feels, and maybe that it what he is feeling if he is a bit depressed, but ultimatley at the minute you need to look after you. Hopefully you can work it out but if not us Jewels are here for you.
Izzy - i'm only have EC chemo. When I asked onc why no F or T he said he thought that was what i needed and that my body would be able to cope with. My 2nd cycle also got reduced by 20%. I was a bit worried but the chemo lady said changes happen quite often. We just have to think that whatever drugs they give us, they are strong otherwise there wouldn't be all the se and precautions we have to take. Hope you are feeling a bit better.
Might try and do a bit of housework today, as my mind keeps going to not nice places the last few days, so maybe being busy will help.
Catch you later
Faye

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Marion - glad you got some sleep last night and hope cough continues to get better. We really do need a dowpour, not least to help all you poor hay fever sufferers (including my son), but just to freshen the place up a bit. Would be good if it rained during the night and we still had fine, dry days, maybe not quite so hot. The heat does not mix well for us lot with various head coverings and wearing protheses, does it? For the last few days when I come in from the garden the scarf is straight off or when I've been out, Raquel is immediately removed when I get home.

Ann - keep those fans blowing, hope they help a little to cool you down.

Fiona
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Morning everyone,

Gus - thanks for The Spoon Theory link, and thanks Sandra for suggesting it.
It's real food for thought, we are all experiencing that way of life a little at the moment - choosing each day what we are able or unable to do. At least we can look forward to feeling better after our treatment, unlike Christine and her lifelong condition.

Have a decent day Jewels,

Fiona
xx
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FEC 3/6 day 7.

Now look, will whoever is putting the 50 pences in the meter give over and turn the heat down. I cannot cope with the heat, I am lay on the bed, starkers, with numerous fans positioned at strategic spots. It is not a pretty sight.

Fatigue seems to be worse on cycle 3 and I have a lot of muscular aches/pains. Is that normal ?

I felt good on day 1 and 2 on this cycle but thereafter it has not been good. Barely off the bed yesterday.

Good luck to those at the bar today.

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Morning all, thanks for the best wishes, just a quick catch up before I trot off to the bar, thinking the cold cap will not feel so bad today??. Good luck to my comrades on the bar stools next to me, I believe its 2 for 1 so expecting quality hangover tomorrow 😉

Have a good day Jewels, hope those recovering from recent cocktails are coping well and only having minor side effects.
Xxx

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Wooo! been up since 7am and now feeling spaced out, fec day 7. Hope jab tomorrow helps.
Busy at bar today. Sip slowly and feet up. Good luck Jewels xxx

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Spoon theory link:http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/wpress/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/

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Morning all. Maybe it's a steroid rush, but (day 2, FEC 2) I feel cautiously not too bad. woke very couple of hours with occasional sweats and took my anti-vom at 3.30 am (!). Gearing up to a post breakfast nap. A pal stayed overnight, walked the dog & has now headed off to work. Feeling like I might even be up to getting the sewing machine out (Steroid rush again...?) Bet I just flake out though. 😉
Suffolklady - lol re Minions! I'm moving quickly from GI Jane (the vet years) to Minion. Tried the head hoovering yesterday and will again today, top tip from Sandra/Maxie, I think? Sorry, if I move away from this page to check I lose everything I've typed.

Sandra, my late partner was a spoonie and I found myself looking it up again in week 2 of my first cycle. It can be a useful way to explain lack of energy to people. But the magic badge of cancer that is my head also does the trick for me. All those pitying /curious / "I'm not looking" looks ...
Marion, hope the meds help with your cough. Sounds miserable.

Love to those heading to the bar today. And hope my fellow travellers yesterday are doing okay.
flaking out now. x

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Pat - Thanks, but I have been using a Ventalin inhaler for hayfever for years. Just not having any effect this time. Perhaps because the nose hairs have gone, the pollen can just wander in as there is nothing to stop it.
I think the cough supressant from GP did make me a little quieter last night, unless I was so exhausted, I didn't hear myself.
I've bought some of that stuff that you spray up your nose and turns into a gel which should catch the pollen.
See what a combo of antihistimaines, cough medicine, inhaler and gel does.

Fiona - No point pushing youself in these temperatures. I was in town for a couple of hours yesterday and my legs were like jelly when I got back.
The weather man said we coudf have thundery showers on Sunday. Much as I hate thunder, I can usually be found under the stairs, it would be great to have a day without pollen. I think everything looks in need of a good wash down now anyway.

Good luck to Vicki, Cress, Cazzer, Joan and titus, make sure to have plenty of ice. Hope to hear from you later.


Hope yesterdays drinkers are ok.


Marion
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Marion, not sure if this will help you but perhaps you can give it a try, years ago I had bad Hay Fever and a very bad cough with it, the doc gave me an inhaler Ventalin I think, it stopped me coughing straight away, I only used it for this purpose and once pollen had gone I didn't need it, last night I used my OH inhaler because I couldn't sleep through coughing and went straight to sleep, so maybe you could ask GP it might give you some relief. Xxxx

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Hi Again,

Been fast asleep, now wide awake!!

Realised I've mixed up the drug combo for you Izzy.....you're still getting the E though which is ( according to chemo nurse today) the strongest of all & the one responsible for the hairloss etc....xx

Good luck to Vicki, Cress, Joan, Cazzer & Titus for tomorrow.....lots of you tomorrow so form an orderly queue!!...:-)


Very heavy legs this time round, anyone else had that?

Fiona, sensible to postpone your meet up tomorrow, think its all about knowing your limits...xx

Anybody else read 'The Spoon Theory'?......good way of explaining fatigue etc to friends/relatives....its easily found on Google ( if I was clever Id put a link up but brain a bit frazzled sorry!)

night night Sparkly ones!

Sandra xx

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Marion - thanks for your Taxitere experience too. Is your cough any better? Hope you enjoyed your ice lolly

Joan - what on earth is going on down your way? Adding to your medical team arguing, your DN unable to perform a basic procedure, now the chemo nurse and GP joining the incompetence club. It's just unacceptable and so unfair that you're having to put up with this. You going to complain?

Chelle - well, hope you're succeeding in the tree imaginings. Not my bag either, would have been thrown out for laughing. You've had a good day out though and met some nice people..
Sorry about the OH problems, hope they are resolved. You absolutely have to put yourself first at the moment, 100%.
Think I'm having 3 weeks of radiotherapy, every day Mon-Fri. Like you, I'm looking to get back to work by then. However, my employer's occupational therapist insisted that she would sort out a phased return to work for me, so I might be able to work odd days or part-time during the radiotherapy.

Sandra - glad you're back home ok, hope you get some sleep tonight. Gus, same to you, hope you're ok.

Vicki, Cress, Cazzer, Joan and titus - all the best for tomorrow Jewels, hope you'll all be ok.

Cancelled (or rather, postponed) my day out with friends tomorrow. Was supposed to be seaside walk and pub lunch. Been feeling a bit queasy today and the heat is not agreeeing with me. Normally I love hot weather, but not at the moment. So, reluctantly ciried off, didn't want to be anxious about feeling unwell while out and about. Also need a quiet day to psyche myself up for FEC 3 on Thursday.

Night-night,

Fiona
xx

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Ladies I'm now going through the early menopause cause of the chemo nd I hate it...
it starts at my feet and ends at my head with everything I between getting hot too.
I was still regular every 28 days and I'm 53
:-)
marie

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Hi Chelle,
Thanks, yes id be interested to hear what other Onc's say, but same as you, 3 monthly heart scans mean we will be monitored and obviously they considered 12 months the bench mark to start with anyway. Plus with us being "younger women" then we have all the early menopausal stuff to deal with too...

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Joan - I'm keeping everything crossed for you and all the other Jewels x
well I certainly am relaxed - only just woke up! Need food ......

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Thanks Chelle - I've heard 2 similar stories and just hope I'll be another one ;-).

Sorry it wasn't really your thing today but at least it sounded relaxing. I went for a 'healing' session at a local cancer support centre today. Not sure if it healed me but it was relaxing too x

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Vicki - I had a look online last night at the trial and they aren't doing it in Leeds anyway and as you said it sounds expensive so NHS prob will do anything to reduce it! Im still going to mention it to my onc tomorrow to gauge his thoughts so I'll let you know what he thinks. I'm also concerned about the strain on the heart but they have said I'll have to get a heart scan every 3 months and I suppose they take us off it if they think we can't handle it. I also need to check how long I'm having rads for as most people have said 5 weeks but every day which sounds like no fun and I was hoping to go back to work by that time but a hosp appt every day in Leeds and then travelling to Sheffield sounds a pain!

Cress - I love despicable me and no you don't look like a minion lol x

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Thanks nanniereeree - I paid by paypal. To be honest I can't be bothered, £80 is 3 quarters of what I paid so happy to get that - they initially offered me £40. Thanks for the suggestion though x

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Peachy pal if you paid by card you are covered for goods returned I would check with card people if you did.

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Just ordered a couple more scarfs from hats4heads - look quite nice and not a bad price at £3.99.
Thought I would share as they seem rather nice xx

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Hi all,
Re Herceptin, i have been doing some reading up about it, its only been used for early breast cancer since 2006, and costs the NHS on average £21,800. per year per woman. I wonder if this, along with the concern re side effects is anything to do with the study, as the study started in 2007?. The study wants to show 6 months herceptin is as effective as 12, in some countrys they are comparing it to 9 weeks!!.
It has been proven to be effective though, for any stage of cancer IF you are Her-2 positive, so is definately worth having. Having done the reading, i dont think i will enter the trial as her-2 is such an agressive cancer that i want to be sure ive had the full amount. However if the side effects are too much then you can choose to stop anyway. I think i will enter into it with a 12 month plan and see how it goes. I have been told also that i am going to have radiotherapy even though ive had a Mx and anc, so this is something i am going to question as the risk to concentrated "x-rays" to my heart as its my left side, as i have already had seveal different nuclear scans anyway.(which were all clear) and also they got clear margins with the mx. I think as my cancer is so inter-linked with my hormones (ER+8/8 & HER-2) that i'll stick with that. The annoying thing is that after all this, they can't tell us we are definately cancer-free and it wont come back which youd think there would be some sort of blood test or something to give us that peace of mind...maybe in the future???.

Anyway im just surmising, because as ive learnt, we just dont know whats round the corner..

Hope everyones doing ok in the heat and wwe all manage to get some sleep tonight!!.
xxx

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Hi Ladies,

Just staggered in from the bar!......trying to get some food down me before the s/e's kick in. All went well, the hand soak in warm water helped the veins & they got the cannula in first time.

Saw ONC before cocktails & (cant remember who asked now) the T is exactly the same as the D (think one may be the brand name?)
Also was it you Izzy who was upset re not having the F part of Fec?....anyway ONC said the E & C are the potent ones & the ones we're given most of....I only had 1 syringe of F but several of the other two.

Chelle, glad you got some good info at the Haven......will you be 'branching out 'soon?! (Heehee)

Have read all you lovely ladies posts but can't focus enough to comment on them all at the mo 🙂


Have a lovely evening Precious ones!

Sandra xx

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Ladies having chemo 1st - lady I met today said her tumor shrunk 6cm during her chemo so just wanted to share some positive info in case it helps x

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Apologies if any ladies ordered wigs from the site I suggested. 1st one I got was fantastic (3 people today thought I'd not started losing my hair and said how fab it looked) but the 2nd one was absolute pants so I'm wondering if they've changed suppliers as I ordered my 1st one a couple of months back.
I've ordered my new one from afrostyling.com (they do none Afro wigs as well) but they are all branded wigs and pretty decent prices.

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Watching Despicable Me and I realise I look like a Minion!

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Hello my bejewelled lovelies!

Well just back from the Haven. The place is wonderful and such a peaceful and tranquil environment but the day course wasn't really my bag. The therapist spoke in a very gentle therapy voice "imagine you're a tree......" that type of thing which really isn't me. We had to lie back in these reclining chairs which went completely horizontal but she tipped my feet that high up I was convinced I was going to tip completely out of it. Then her cd of relaxation sounds kept sticking and then one of the women started snoring - at which point I was doing everything I could not to burst into laughter. The lunch was lovely and healthy and most of the women were really nice (only 5 people on it) but I got loads of info on all the sessions they run and will def go back for some other things.

Jackie - My OH turns 40 this year and before I was even diagnosed was going through a bit of a mid life crisis. He's always been set in his ways and glass half empty type but since I've been diagnosed he just can't seem to get any perspective that what I'm going through may be a bit worse than him feeling a bit down. I've asked him to see a doctor or a counsellor but no way will he help himself and it makes me angry that I have no choice other than to poison myself to get through this when he could easily get some help but won't. We have always been happy but he's making me depressed and whilst I'm normally always the one who puts everyone else 1st, I don't have the energy right now. Hey ho - what do they say........Men.......can't live with em.......can't live with em!

well hope the ladies at the bar today are doing ok - I need a snooze so I'm off to pretend I'm a tree....

catch you all later x

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Hello all. A bit spaced coz YES! I did get FEC'd this afternoon. Thanks for all the good wishes. Hope everyone else today got their cocktails. I'll resurface & catch up properly when I can.

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Hope everyone who has visited the bar over the last few days have had fun!!!! Fun, well perhaps not fun, but hope all has gone well!!

This weather is doing my head in, way to hot down in the south. Bedroom at night isn't getting below 29, have a fan but its not helping much.
All the hair has gone, bald eagle here I come!! Wigs arrived today and they are rubbish, had online chat discussion over the return of them, which they won't do but managed to get £80 refund. Not all the money but quite a large chunk. Even had the cheek to ask if I could perhaps sell them to a friend, my response, none of my other friends have lost their hair and need a wig!!!! arrhhhh - hey ho, probably too hot for a wig anyway - moan over.

Last few days have been groggy, the steroids have been playing havock with sleep patterns but down to two for breakfast today so felt a little more alive and only one tomorrow. Might even take a trip out tomorrow.

Loads of posts to catch up on, OH just walked in the door so will have a catch up and pop by later xxxxx

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Izzy - I won't know for sure until after an MRI which is scheduled for after cycle 3. Like you, I couldn't touch or look at it at first so now that I'm obsessed with checking it I can't remember what it was like to start with. Last Thursday onc said he was sure it was shrinking and softer although he will still need MRI to confirm - good news, although there is still a lot of shrinking to be done. If you feel any tingling in the lump area it's probably good too, he said.

Sat for 1 1/2 hours in chemo unit waiting for blood test which took 5 minutes. Told chemo nurse she needed to call DN to sort last week's palaver. She said she was too busy. I said she'd be even busier if I have to keep coming in every week for her to clean my line. Then went to GP surgery to pick up travel insurance claim form and a prescription - had been told both would be ready last Friday but today neither could even be found. Is it just me?

Best wishes to all but I'm now too hot and frustrated to comment on all the posts. Jxxx