I’m sorry to read of your recent diagnosis and that you are having a pretty tough time at the moment. I’m sure the users of this site will be along to support you soon.
In the meantime I have put here the link to the page with details of the secondary support services and information which you might find useful to look at:-
Also sometimes it can be helpful to talk things through with a member of our helpline staff who are there to offer emotional support as well as practical information. The free phone number is 0808 800 6000 and the lines are open Monday to Friday 9.00 to 5.00 and Saturday 10.00 to 2.00.
Best wishes Sam, BCC Facilitator