Thanks for the tip about silk.
I do find it rubs quite a bit at the moment and my scar is still not properly healed. And for something that's called a "softie" it is pretty firm - much perter than remaining boob!
I don't know where you live but Womanzone might be able to help they are on the web so you could contact them . i found them better than Nicola Jane.
I had my mastectomy 3 weeks ago and haven't yet looked for a mastectomy bra. At the moment I go bra-less at home (I'm F cup) and just put the softie prosthesis in my ordinary bra when I go out. This works OK and I get a decent shape. My bra is by Royce and is called Grace. It's actually a maternity bra but I've worn the same style for years as it's very comfortable and supportive but non wired. Not sure if it goes to a J cup.
My BCN did advise not to rush out and get mastectomy bras pre-surgery but to wait until after the op and for the swelling to go down.
I am due surgery in 3 weeks and cannot find any mastectomy bras anywhere! I am a size 36J, I am having a mastectomy and having reconstruction at a later date. I cannot believe that I am the only woman size 36J having a mastectomy so why am I finding it so difficult finding a bra? Any help would be greatly appreciated.