Hi Marion and welcome to the BCC forums
You have come to the right place for support and shared experiences here, in addition please feel free to call our helpliners as they can talk through any concerns/queries you may have and offer a great listening ear. Lines open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 Sat on 0808 800 6000
I am posting a link to the BCC 'Moving forward' information and a publication about breast reconstruction which I hope you will find useful:
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/moving-forward
http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/treatment-side-effects/breast-reconstruction-bcc7
Best wishes
Lucy