Hi Kildare Princess,
I think you probably mean Finty - she was certainly a prolific poster here over the years. I don't think she has posted since 2013 and prior to that she had not been on the forums for 2 years. She came back and responded to quite a few posts briefly and as she said, she had accidently clicked on bcc which was still in her 'favourites' and thought she would see how everyone was doing. She said back then she was keeping very well and getting on with her life and found that staying away from the forum was a very positive step in helping her to do that and put cancer behind her. If anyone is in touch with finty do pass on my best wishes to her - tell her the bone thread is still going strong :).