Mother in law just diagnosed

Hi all

Very recently found out that my 81 year old mother in law has been dx.
I don’t have details but she has already said that she doesn’t want treatment.

I was dx Sept 07 myself and treatment now finished, but I lost my sister nearly 8 years ago to BC and feel smacked in mouth again. Just as I was beginning to think that I could put this in the rear view mirror.

I wish I could fight the battle for my m-i-l even knowing what it would be like. She has had a hard eight years or so having to cope with a stoma too.

I am a couple of hundred miles away from her too so cannot just pop round regularly.

Will this disease ever go from my life?