Karen, waiting for the results is real cruelty and it is a bombshell. Sometimes the team just treat it as their routine but to us this is all life changing.
Keep posting - we can all help you through. Better days will follow I promise
Lou xx
Not sure whose hands I'm in yet and it feels like they drop the bombshell then leave you to it! Sorry, feeling terrible today. This forum does indeed seem very supportive.. thank you x
Understandable that you are anxious, hope you feel you are in safe hands as that is so important, and there is lots of support here for you. Xxx
Thank you Patriciamay, I am only a week after diagnosis and don't go back for biopsy results until Thursday next week. The anxiety is crippling me. The ultrasound showed quite a few areas and the biopsy was from the largest. My sister died of an agressive type in her forties so can't help thinking the worst.
Hi Karen
Firstly sorry to hear you have this diagnosis. There are lots of factors about BC so everyone's treatment packages etc are different. I had a multi focal disease. Two tumours in the same quadrant. For me they were small and low grade. I have recently had an oncologist appointment who has said I am low risk, and he was very un-concerned.
It's really hard at the stage you are at, I remember being in a whirl of anxiety. What I have learnt though is facts, get facts from your personal medical team, they are working through how to give you the right treatment plan. I was initially freaked out about my multi focal, but now I am not at all concerned and have had a good outcome from my treatment plan. Can you have a thorough discussion with your BCN?
just as an aside and to show how scared I was, I didn't even open my hospital letters for days, just couldn't face it - so well done you. Sending you all the best.
Hi all,
Received a copy of a letter from the hospital to my GP today. Lots of words I didn't understand so googled (I know that should be avoided). It says I have an area of calcification about 8x3cm and the ultrasound shows this area to be multifocal breast carcinoma. Having looked at what this means I am now beyond frightened. More aggressive, worse prognosis, higher chance of recurrence. I am terrified, anyone have any positive thoughts/experience?