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Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

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Tinkerbelle
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona - so sorry to hear about your mum - my deepest sympathy to you and your family x

stresshead
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona...shocked to tears to see your post. Can only reiterate what everyone has already said..Your mum would be so proud of you. What a wonderful thing to think of how you didnt want your mum to suffer rather than thinking of your own pain...you are an absolute credit to her. Sincere love and condolences to you and your family. x

Lynnq
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Bless you Fiona..you have had a sad time, do come back and speak to us all if you think it will be a comfort.....
pam01
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

I am so sorry to hear this news......my deepest condolences to you and your family...

 

Porkie
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Oh Fiona - I am so sorry to hear your news. Much love to all your family at this sad time.xx

bertie1
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona so sorry to hear this sad news about your mother sending lots of love to you and your family xx
2catlady
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Oh,Fiona,I'm so sorry to hear this news. All my love to you xxxxxx
bernadetteh
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

I'm so sorry to read this sad news about your lovely mum may she RIP for evermore and wishing you peace and strenght at this sad time lots of love and thoughts xxx

Chocolates
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona, my heart goes out to you and your family. So sorry to hear of your loss. xxxx
LemonDrizzle
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

So sorry to hear your sad news, Fiona. Sending love to you and all your devastated family.
LD x
JulieD
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona I am so sorry to hear your news. It must be a terrible shock for you it all happened so quickly but I agree with you that it 's far better for your dear mum to go quickly and peacefully even though that means you have had so very little time to try to take it all in.

You will of course be in shock and in pain at your loss but try to remember all the good times and the happy times you spent together. You were obviuosly close to your mum as that came accross in your post about her diagnosis. I'm sure your mum would have felt comforted by your concern and support. Take care of yourself, it's what your mum would have wanted. Accept support if offered, and please, if you feel we can help, even if just by being here for you to rant at the unfairness of it all then please do come back and we'll listen.

Bless you xx

 

bill-ben
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona I am so sorry about your  mum my love to you and your family .

Bevlaar
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Oh no Fiona you and your family must be devastated and in total shock. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your mum must have been young. This disease is do cruel. Sincerest condolences xxxx
rosie53
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Oh Fiona i am so so sorry to hear the sad news of mum, sending you and all your family my love, you are the same age as my daughter and my heart goes out to you, please take care.
Love and huge hugs J x x x
EJ81
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

So very sorry to hear you sad news Fiona. Sending you and your family lots of love xxxxx
belinda
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Oh Fiona, I am so very sorry. My sincere condolences to you and all who loved your lovely Mum. X
Janet_BCC
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Dear Fiona

 

I am so sorry to read your news.  On behalf of the moderators at Breast Cancer Care may I offer my sincere condolences to you and your family.

 

Very best wishes

 

Janet

BCC Moderator

feee1x
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Unfortunately after I posted this on Wednesday doc told us my mum took a turn for the worst and very sadly but peacefully passed away. Abs heartbreaking losing my best pal but I know I would rather her slip away from me than suffer on for weeks! We just need to hope that some day they will find a cure! Thank you all for your support
Fiona xxx
stresshead
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Hi Fiona, so sorry to hear about your mum..i wish there was something i could say/do to make things better. I'm sure the drs will soon sort her out.. Ihave a daughter of 23 and i cant bear to think what this is putting her through, just like your mum and all the others. I am trying to get her to carry on with her life as normally as possible, although we know things will never be 'normal' again, will they? Nothing anyone can say will stop you worrying but i always tell my daughter that if she worries then i worry and i'm sure your mum would say the same. All we can do is all try to stay strong together.we always try to remember the saying

"To get through the hardest journey we need only take one step at a time. But we must keep on stepping"

Sending love and hugs xx

rosie53
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Hi Fiona, so sorry to hear of your mums progression and that she is unwell at the minute. It must be a very worrying time for you, please keep faith the treatment plans they can give now have amazing results.
Your mum is very lucky to have such a caring daughter, take care hugs J x x x
EJ81
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Fiona, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I hope the doctors get her stable soon so she can move on with treatment.. This must be so tough for you but she is lucky to have such a caring daughter. Big hugs xxx
Chocolates
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Hi Fiona, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. It must be such a difficult time for you at the moment. There is a lady on the bone mets thread who struggled with low calcium for about 4 months. She thought the worst but is now feeling much better. I hope things improve for you mum soon.
Huge hugs xxx
bill-ben
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

So sorry to hear about your mum as well. Keep faith in the fact that the doctors can sort out her current problems. I to have  the same mets as your mum which were diagnosed nearly a year ago and I feel really well now so there is always hope.Your love and support is the best medicine any mum can have so just be there for her! xxxx

belinda
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

I'm sorry to hear your news too Fiona. I hope your Mum is stabilised soon and can move forward with treatment. X
2catlady
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Hi,Fiona,so sorry,to hear about your mum.they will get her sorted ready for next treatment but it can take a while. Your mum is so lucky to have such a loving daughter.
Huge hugs,Helen xxxxx
Lucy_BCC
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Re: Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

Hi Fiona and welcome to the BCC forums

I am sorry to read about your Mum, I can see that this must be a very difficult and worrying time for you. Along with the support you will find here from our forum users please feel free to call our helpliners to talk your feelings and concerns through with some one in confidence. Lines are open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 Saturdays on 0808 800 6000

Take care
Lucy BCC

feee1x
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Mum diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with bone, brain and liver mets

So this is my first post, my name is Fiona and I am 19 years old. My mum was diagonsed with breast cancer seven years ago and under went mastectomy, Fec chemo and several sessions of radiation. She had the all clear until a year an a half ago when she was diagnosed with secondary breast cancer in her bones. She kept generally well for the first year and seemed to be copying well. The bone mets developed however, and my mum under went various radiotherapy sessions and started taxotere chemo. This seemed to keep the cancer at bay and when the treatment was finished she started a new hormone drug called faslodex along with a bone strengthener. By unfortunatley she began having symtoms of very low calcium which is not very common and was admitted into hospital for many weeks as it would not stabilise. Scans showed no progression so we weren't worried.

 

Six weeks on and we have now been faced with the horrible news of my mums cancer spreading to both liver and brain. This is just so heartbraking, and the thought of losing my mum at such a young age is so hard and unimmaginable to cope with. She has been in the hospital for many weeks now and doesnt seem to be picking up at all. Onc said she was to start chemo (taxol) and radio straight away, however my mum is too unwell just now to recieve any of these, as her platletes are very low and wont stabilise ,calcium keeps dropping and she is so fatigue and tired. All she does is sleep and has no energy. I am so worried about her and just thought if anyone could give me some positive responses to help me think positive or if anyone has been through the same. Thanks x